NT, how do you tell your girl she's putting on a few pounds without starting WW3?

i told my wife....i want to be perfect couple with her...........in terms of mental , spiritual and physical.......so mental i said let's read a little of a book everyday ..learn something....spiritual...let's pray together....and physical..let's gym or eat healthy together...........easy ............every girl will fall for this and might even take it romantic as well
 
i told my wife....i want to be perfect couple with her...........in terms of mental , spiritual and physical.......so mental i said let's read a little of a book everyday ..learn something....spiritual...let's pray together....and physical..let's gym or eat healthy together...........easy ............every girl will fall for this and might even take it romantic as well
this is good

but really no good way ..ive had my ww3 
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i told my wife....i want to be perfect couple with her...........in terms of mental , spiritual and physical.......so mental i said let's read a little of a book everyday ..learn something....spiritual...let's pray together....and physical..let's gym or eat healthy together...........easy ............every girl will fall for this and might even take it romantic as well
this is good

but really no good way ..ive had my ww3 :lol:
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Just tell her she put on a few pounds. Not that big of a deal. She'd tell you that you need to shave or lose weight wouldn't she?

Honesty is the best policy.
 
Buy her running shoes. One day my girl came back and I had some New Balance runners waiting right in front of the door for her.








....aaaaannnnd I started WW3
 
again with this topic? 

 if she means a lot to you just tell her, cause im sure she already knows anyway. some ppl need to hear it from the person they love, or trust the most to fully realize that they need to do something about it. 

how do some of you get through certain things without speaking your mind and being direct baffles me. if youre not gonna speak the truth, what are you saying exactly? 
 
I got my girl to start lifting with me because we had a goal, last year we were going to hawaii so I said I'm gonna start getting ready for that. She quickly joined in, mind you we were not fat to begin with.

The point I'm trying to get at is, if you want her to work you've got to work with her. I wasn't fat but i could stand to lose a few lbs or trim my waist.
 
yall need to stop acting like girls, just tell her straight up

dead srs. if she gets offended then oh well
 
I tell em straight up, "U know u slippin, right?"

Hasn't ever been a issue. They usually be like "I know" or whatever, then they get back on it.
 
I tell em straight up, "U know u slippin, right?"

Hasn't ever been a issue. They usually be like "I know" or whatever, then they get back on it.

What you don't see is that girl crying herself to sleep for a month :rofl:
 
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I tell em straight up, "U know u slippin, right?"

Hasn't ever been a issue. They usually be like "I know" or whatever, then they get back on it.
Word, don't see why dudes are too scared to say something. If you can't speak your mind you have bigger problems to worry about.
 
Lead by example. Go to the gym regularly yourself. Ask if she wants to go with you. Eat healthy.

While spooning before bed put your hand on her gut and let out a little, "hmm", then turn around and sleep in the other direction facing away from her.
 
yall need to stop acting like girls, just tell her straight up

dead srs. if she gets offended then oh well

Words of a man who's never been in a relationship. You know her better than us op, you know which approach she'll take better than we do.
 
Take her favorite jeans and slightly undo the front button. When she puts them on KABOOM! Flying goes the button and her self esteem
 
I lead by example with the gym but not with food because typically when I`m with my girl on weekends its my cheat day. I will say I`m blessed my current girl has amazing genetics so weight gain aint an issue since it goes to her boobs and booty and her stomach/waist is super tiny, but she used to Model and still gets jobs for ads every so often so she wants to be her "old" size. I told her we are going to do a June 1- Aug 1 transformation challenge lol
 
What's so hard about being upfront? The little games and subtle cues are stupid.
 
I lead by example with the gym but not with food because typically when I`m with my girl on weekends its my cheat day. I will say I`m blessed my current girl has amazing genetics so weight gain aint an issue since it goes to her boobs and booty and her stomach/waist is super tiny, but she used to Model and still gets jobs for ads every so often so she wants to be her "old" size. I told her we are going to do a June 1- Aug 1 transformation challenge lol
Funny #HumbleBrag session
 
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