NT: you a cheater?

See my previous post; if you marry for the right reasons and have a quality family life and marriage then you will stay faithful and avoid situations where cheating could happen
Nope a man would get bored eventually and would want to have sex with somebody new.
 
I'm going to elaborate on my original post which you quoted

I was saying the strong urge to get new "yambs" doesn't really go away as you get older which if you're in a relationship means cheating.

A lot dudes just stop getting new yambs which becomes cheating when you're in a relationship for various reasons.

These reasons are things like Its not worth the risk vs getting caught,Not having time due to commitments,Not being able to get quality yambs because you're aren't as attractive, not wanting your partner take your kids away as result of getting caught cheating
 
A lot "faithful" men would cheat if given the proper opportunity with a high quality woman without the risk of getting caught

what are we on a game show? you are stating the obvious but faithful men don't put themselves in this position

there is a big difference between want, temptation and actually doing it
 
Men and women typically don't work the same

Men the more they have sex with a woman the likely they become bored especially if there's nothing to the relationship besides sex

A woman the more they have sex with a man the more attached they become even if there's nothing to the relationship besides sex
 
I'm with youngdoc on this one. No way in hell is it a natural male human instinct to be monogamous. Is it practical (for the good of a family) in today's society, sure. Natural instinct, doubt it.

Being monogamous ≠ natural instinct to want 100 kids

Exactly. Monogamy isn't natural.


I dunno, man.

Wanna be monogamous? Be monogamous.

Wanna be in relationships with multiple women at the same time? Do that too.

Just be up front and honest about everything you do with everyone you're doing it with.

Because you can have it all without having to cheat. But lets be honest, here. Most dudes are just scared as hell that the woman they would like to be monogamous with when they're too old and tired to cheat will leave them if they find out they can't control themselves, and they're too soft to straight up tell her that they want a multiple woman situation because said woman might leave them, so they just sneak around and lie and keep all these secrets.

A strong man would never need to cheat, because either a) he simply can control himself and trusts his woman to control herself, or b) has the balls to live life how he wants to live it, and can make a situation where he's got a bad rotation of women whom he can all call wifey and who all understand their roles within the group that they are aware they're in.


Not saying I condone adultery (because I don't) but it's rare to find a great woman who you want to have kids with who also is ok with polygamy

Aren't we supposed to be rare dudes?

Isn't it supposed to be rare tgat you find the woman who is perfect for you?

Isn't "rare" what drives us to be better and experience better things?

Kings are rare. Queens are rare.

I'm just gonna leave it at that.
 
A lot "faithful" men would cheat if given the proper opportunity with a high quality woman without the risk of getting caught

what are we on a game show? you are stating the obvious but faithful men don't put themselves in this position

there is a big difference between want, temptation and actually doing it

I guess I can kinda see your point

I say a lot these "faithful" guys aren't even in the position to possibly cheat. They are older, fat etc work a 9-5 in a office with like 5 women who are fat and old too then you go home have kids and wife who take up your free time

Then there's another guy who's in a relationship. He's attractive, makes good money, travels a lot. He has to go to mixers for business where's he exposed to quality women around alcohol This dude may have cheated a few times.

The 1st guy acts like his situation is anywhere close to the 2nd guy and acts like him being faithful is the same achievement
 
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Men and women typically don't work the same

Men the more they have sex with a woman the likely they become bored especially if there's nothing to the relationship besides sex

A woman the more they have sex with a man the more attached they become even if there's nothing to the relationship besides sex


I don't believe that not one bit.

There is no difference at all.

Women do just as much dirt if not more then men.
 
Wouldn't chase after married women or girls in relationships . Was with a married girl for like a year but she came on to me.
she didn't want to leave me alone after I told her if you don't ima tell ur man and if he has a problem with me it is what it is. Needless to say it stopped.


would not cheat anymore . Ish came back to me. My wife cheated on me and left wit dude and I was faithful except for once when I just gotten out of jail and she told me we were done.
 
Exactly so if the theory is men being monogamous isn't natural, then the same applies for women. Somehow women are able to sustain monogamy longer than men though.


Lies, although motherhood plays a role in a lot of women with families not cheating but I'm shocked that if 2014 y'all still think women are innocent :smh:

I mean, how far of a gap do you think the percentage of cheaters are between men and women.

I don't think it's large at all.
 
Motherhood plays a huge role in women not be as inclined as men to cheat

Especially if she wants to be a good mother
 
Exactly so if the theory is men being monogamous isn't natural, then the same applies for women. Somehow women are able to sustain monogamy longer than men though.


Lies, although motherhood plays a role in a lot of women with families not cheating but I'm shocked that if 2014 y'all still think women are innocent :smh:

I mean, how far of a gap do you think the percentage of cheaters are between men and women.

I don't think it's large at all.
So women do not sustain monogamy longer than men?

Hmm ok
 
the gap deff aint large, nowadays. i think the gap got smaller these past 5-10 years. a lot of woman doing more dirt then men. they jus hide the ish better LOL. a lot of innocent looking women steppin out for number of reasons...
 
the gap deff aint large, nowadays. i think the gap got smaller these past 5-10 years. a lot of woman doing more dirt then men. they jus hide the ish better LOL. a lot of innocent looking women steppin out for number of reasons...

Do you really think the gap got smaller or is it because you got older and noticed it more?
 
 
the gap deff aint large, nowadays. i think the gap got smaller these past 5-10 years. a lot of woman doing more dirt then men. they jus hide the ish better LOL. a lot of innocent looking women steppin out for number of reasons...
Do you really think the gap got smaller or is it because you got older and noticed it more?
hmmm good point sir, now im not so sure. i may need to speak to some older cats and get some info..
 
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the gap deff aint large, nowadays. i think the gap got smaller these past 5-10 years. a lot of woman doing more dirt then men. they jus hide the ish better LOL. a lot of innocent looking women steppin out for number of reasons...
I never said they don't cheat though, I said they're able to be monogamous longer if they wanted too. Some men are claiming they can't be monogamous even if they wanted too because it's not natural. I never heard a woman say that :lol: if a woman isn't faithful it has nothing to do with science, natural instinct, or procreation.
 
I've never cheated, I've also never really dated. But, when I was younger I'd be like 'I'd never mess with a girl with a bf' but then, I realized bfs don't mean ish. So I stepped it up to never messing with a married girl. But now...I'm like eff it, these broads act like their ring don't mean ish, why should I? Besides, people get married and do terrible things to each other.

Since I've resolved to never cheat; it's a broken promise with consideration (legally) and getting caught cost to much. But, is it bad to be the 'side piece' for lack of a better term? Like would you sleep with a married women? I know a guy who got stabbed over it....and stabby mcstaberson was an attorney, huge settlement. But that doesn't scare me...I'm clever lol. Besides, she promised herself to him, I didn't promise ish to any one.

Would I be morally bankrupt to pursue this married women?

You sound so insecure, it's not even funny... Really.. It's not funny. Or cute, or "player" or anything... Just sad, kid.

You posed it like it was a question, but this was really just a post for someone to come in here and validate your insecure thoughts.

Take my advice and leave these married "women" alone. I can tell from this post alone that you aren't "clever" enough to avoid being caught, and quite frankly, you aren't worth being caught with.
 
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