Man creates spreadsheet for every time wife denies him sex

Retro707 said:
This is ridiculous in both ways. Her excuses.. and dude expecting it every single time. Smh.
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How do you figure he expects it every thing time. In fact if you read the comments on reddit they were smashing 3-5x times a week before.

Dude hit her up so much, because he was getting rejected so much.

His email was childish, yes, but they wife even said she has never seen this side of him. So it sounds like this spreadsheet was his last resort, not his first course of action.
 
heLiumcLinton said:
Any dude in here that expects their wife to suck and fu.. anytime they tell them to, like she can't have anything better to do .. clearly needs to buy a sex slave because you think you signed a legal document for a piece of property instead of a human.
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Really? :frown:

My dreams have been crushed
 
Dudes in here lying. A down chick is going to handle her business.

Reality is a lot of chicks are with dudes that weren't their first choice. Dudes lying to themselves.
 
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ForerunnerADL said:
Dudes in here lying. A down chick is going to handle her business.

Reality is a lot of chicks are with dudes that weren't their first choice. Dudes lying to themselves.
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Men do settle too. See it all the time.

No one is saying she has to be your sex slave, but zero intimacy? That'll drive a man crazy.
 
Rell826 said:
Men do settle too. See it all the time.

No one is saying she has to be your sex slave, but zero intimacy? That'll drive a man crazy.
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Dudes be settling so they not going to complain. Just suffer in silence.

She isn't feeling the dude. Plain and simple. Otherwise she wouldn't be giving him lame excuses everyday.
 
Still don't get how he's falling for she's going to the gym, but then she is insecure about her weight, like why is she letting herself go?
 
heLiumcLinton said:
CJ003 said:
eiddyfouw said:
heLiumcLinton said:
CJ003 said:
She either isn't attracted to him or has put on A LOT of weight and feels ugly. One can be fixed the other probably can't.
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Or she could just not want to have sex
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Or she is having sex, just not with her husband.
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The spread sheet established she doesn't want to have sex :lol: I'm addressing why she doesn't want to have sex. There's a reason behind not giving it up. Her answer can't be "no" without some reasoning.


And if she is having sex with someone else it's probably bc she not attracted to dude anymore. Or she put on some weight and found a new dude who is telling her she's sexy.
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You're serious? If someone doesn't want to have sex there has to be a reason? They can't just not want to do something? :lol: wow
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Are you telling me when you decline to do something the only thought that runs through your mind "no"? If someone put my fav meal in front of me I'd turn it down right now bc I just ate and I'm full. If I didn't want to have sex with my chick there would be some reason. Especially it is was for weeks! I'm saying there has to be a reason besides simply "no". My mistake for thinking there's a reason for her saying no. I guess I'm one of those weirdos who has a reason for saying no to things. WOW.
 
I am just saying there are a lot naive pov's on what marriage is. I am not married, but marriage is work.
 
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ForerunnerADL said:
Are you telling me when you decline to do something the only thought that runs through your mind "no"? If someone put my fav meal in front of me I'd turn it down right now bc I just ate and I'm full. If I didn't want to have sex with my chick there would be some reason. Especially it is was for weeks! I'm saying there has to be a reason besides simply "no". My mistake for thinking there's a reason for her saying no. I guess I'm one of those weirdos who has a reason for saying no to things. WOW.
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Sooooo you never felt like just not doing anything? Sheesh poor woman has to have an explanation for every time she utters the word no

"No, I don't feel like washing the clothes right now"
"Why not?"
"I just don't"
"NO! That is impossible, you have to have a reason why you don't want to wash clothes. It just doesn't make sense, why wouldn't you want to wash clothes?"

:lol: :smh:
 
A lot people who never been married talk naively about what marriage "should be"

But

A lot of people who are married make excuses for their ****** marriages wit the ole "that how marriage is" excuses.
 
heLiumcLinton said:
ForerunnerADL said:
Are you telling me when you decline to do something the only thought that runs through your mind "no"? If someone put my fav meal in front of me I'd turn it down right now bc I just ate and I'm full. If I didn't want to have sex with my chick there would be some reason. Especially it is was for weeks! I'm saying there has to be a reason besides simply "no". My mistake for thinking there's a reason for her saying no. I guess I'm one of those weirdos who has a reason for saying no to things. WOW.
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Sooooo you never felt like just not doing anything? Sheesh poor woman has to have an explanation for every time she utters the word no

"No, I don't feel like washing the clothes right now"
"Why not?"
"I just don't"
"NO! That is impossible, you have to have a reason why you don't want to wash clothes. It just doesn't make sense, why wouldn't you want to wash clothes?"

:lol: :smh:
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Sometimes saying "no I don't feel like it " is fine. I'm not saying you always need to communicate your reason, but there is one (in your example it could be bc it's not her job to wash clothes and she wants to sit around bc she's tired and he can do his own laundry). But at some point constant "no I don't feel like it" is unacceptable in life and shows an inability to communicate. This is obvious by her giving bs reasons, like watching re-runs of friends or not wanting to shower.

My point is that there's always some reason (communicated or not), chick is lying with her reasons :lol:

There's some deep reason for her not wanting to get down with her man that they need to figure out.

Feel free to disagree and think she was really watching that movie and couldn't pause it.
 
CJ003 said:
Feel free to disagree and think she was really watching that movie and couldn't pause it.
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That's not fathomable though? A person can't simply choose a show over sex? Of course she could have paused it, but she didn't because she didn't feel like it. Why her not feeling like it has to be some deep rooted issue about her possibly getting fat or cheating on her husband?

I don't get why ppl are so eager to give a psych evaluation based off minute things.
 
Women leave men over lousy sex all the time b.

Some women get with dudes for security and the passion was never there. Now if this woman went from 3 to 5 times a week to a frosty couple times a month, if that, then what caused the passion to dry up so abruptly? Stress can kill sexual desires, but if the lack of sex is due to stress, then she should have said that rather than the excuses she used. More important than sex and probably the most important component of a relationship is communication. Her communication is obviously lacking and she seems just as immature as her dude for putting their business on the internet, rather than talking to him when she gets back home.

I still think she's cheating. And I say that because I used to be Tyrone myself and all that "going to the gym" biz is a common alibi when women step out and cut the p off from their main. I've seen it a few times. :smh: Not bragging just saying why I think it's the case.

And as someone that used to be married and eventually filed for a divorce, things do change when you're with someone for a long time, but if the sex, respect or communication fall off, there's not much else to keep people interested in each other. Just ONE of those things can kill a relationship. These two are lacking all three.
 
am1x90xnike said:
ISU 42 said:
NTers think a wife should be a house keeper that sleeps with them on demand. I enjoy reading what young, non married guys think marriage is.
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So what is it? Like married dudes pop in and out of this thread "young dudes don't understand" "thats not what it's like" Well..tell us. I can tell you, every dude I know that talks about marriage talks about the bad for about twenty min...then says "It's not all bad though, there are some good things" but never say what they are, most can't even say regular sex, because they don't have it. I'm starting to wonder if I should even concern myself with the idea, I'm twenty-five and couldn't imagine being married. 

And, I know married people that are horrible raising with their kids, like shouldn't even have them, and I know divorced people who are way better (they respect each other but can't be together.) 
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I'm married... and I know well that I have sex much more than my single friends that claim they get yambs. :lol:
 
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Rell826 said:
you go boy said:
for the married folks out there why do i hear that when your married you have less sex than not being married? this one dude was complaining he didnt have sex with his wife for a year or two :smh:
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Same reason some women get comfortable and gain weight; they don't have to do what they needed to lock up a husband now that they have him
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heLiumcLinton said:
Any dude in here that expects their wife to suck and fu.. anytime they tell them to, like she can't have anything better to do .. clearly needs to buy a sex slave because you think you signed a legal document for a piece of property instead of a human.
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ok Drake.








not srs.
 
GInfante said:
 
Rell826 said:
 
you go boy said:
for the married folks out there why do i hear that when your married you have less sex than not being married? this one dude was complaining he didnt have sex with his wife for a year or two
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Same reason some women get comfortable and gain weight; they don't have to do what they needed to lock up a husband now that they have him
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so true
 
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