Relationships : Whats "keeping them (your partner) in check" and whats "being too controlling/crazy"

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I hooked up with this girl like a couple days ago (Ive known her since 9th grade) . It was cool and all until today when we were walking around the plaza and she saw this dude and was like "damn he fine' then started staring the ***** down and ****
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 I ended it right there. I made a big scene too. She was saying she was sorry and he aint **** and all that.... But I wasn't having it. I kind of feel bad though, but I never stared at another girl since we hooked up. Is my pimp hand weak??? Does your girl stare at other dudes???? How do you handle it???

Is keeping your girl from staring at other dudes keeping them in check or is that being too controlling????? 

What about other things like telling them they cant hang out with their other guys friends, text other dudes, etc........???????
 
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Mine straight up told me the other day, "I know when ur checking out a girl, I can tell by the way u look at her and ur eyes."

We then talked about it, and it's obviously not a big deal unless what ur girl did... She was disrespectful with that.
 
You just hooked up with her a couple of days ago you shouldn't be trippin. Momma always taught me your single til your married. If yall were established than I think she shouldn't be telling you that. I wouldn't want my girl Tobe chilling with other dudes and if she wanted to than I'd dead her.
 
Ecook0808 said:
Mine straight up told me the other day, "I know when ur checking out a girl, I can tell by the way u look at her and ur eyes."

We then talked about it, and it's obviously not a big deal unless what ur girl did... She was disrespectful with that.
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I was bout ready to slap the S-Curl Texturizer out that ***** hair. Ol lightskinned butterscotch booty *** *****
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if it's only been a couple days ... that's a bit weak ... but that's also disrespect for her to be like DAMN SHE FINE ...

when i'm checking out other girls, i keep it to myself ... my chick caught me looking up some girls skirt the other day, it was in both our faces and i started mumbling my words ... we then laughed about it later ...

i told my girl at the beginning, we going to see attractive people all the time ... nothing wrong w/ looking ...

just set some ground rules and you'll be straight ...
 
Ecook0808 said:
Mine straight up told me the other day, "I know when ur checking out a girl, I can tell by the way u look at her and ur eyes."

We then talked about it, and it's obviously not a big deal unless what ur girl did... She was disrespectful with that.
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My girl usually points out other fine woman for me to check out, if she likes em, she knows I will.
 
I remember I got caught looking at some broad. Only reason why I was looking because she had some short *** shorts on and them cheeks was poking out.
 
My cousin was talking about that. He told me he wants to marry a foreign girl. He knew a guy, a black guy from the hood, who started his own business and made bread. Old dude converted to Islam, went to a regular Mosk, saw one of the girls there outside of her mask by accident, resolved he would get her. He would hangout around her all the time, take her parents out to eat, eventually, he proposed to old girl and put a down payment on her parents house, so they said yea. Now, I guess old dude gives the girl the credit card, she doesn't buy much cuz all she can wear is that mask joint, and he's had two kids with her and two outside kids that she pretty much raises, except she won't take them to Mosk because they don't look like her.

Long story short, foreign women are pretty easily controlled, it's like a cultural thing. I know mad dudes who marry Asian, Eastern European, Middle Eastern and south American women, and their family life is truly bizarre to me, I feel like these women are more domestic slaves than they are wives.
 
12 Million said:
I hooked up with this girl like a couple days ago (Ive known her since 9th grade) . It was cool and all until today when we were walking around the plaza and she saw this dude and was like "damn he fine' then started staring the ***** down and **** :stoneface:  I ended it right there. I made a big scene too. She was saying she was sorry and he aint **** and all that.... But I wasn't having it. I kind of feel bad though, but I never stared at another girl since we hooked up. Is my pimp hand weak??? Does your girl stare at other dudes???? How do you handle it???




Is keeping your girl from staring at other dudes keeping them in check or is that being too controlling????? 


What about other things like telling them they cant hang out with their other guys friends, text other dudes, etc........???????
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:lol: def not a pimp move to let a chick get you out of your element like that by staring at another dude, always gonna be someone out there that looks better then you, you shouldve laughed it off played it smooth & said "yeah hes a handsome dude, i cant lie" then took her home & smashed, & if she wanna hang out with guy friends & text other dudes, let her, shes grown you cant tell her what to do with her *****, either shes gonna give it up or she isnt, seems like you whipped already braxton, she probably didnt know you had feelings for her like that already since yall just hooked up, you showed your insecurities & she was probably just testing you to see how you would react :smh:

You need that stefan mentality when it comes to these females, always keep your cool no matter what

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Lol some NTrs kill me with your insecure talk. Dudes shorty obviously crossed mad lines.

But if that's the signal she gives off, I'll prolly do the same and relegate her to a jump off. I would also follow suite the whole time were out and check shorties and holler too. Yes I am insecure and childish.
 
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Lol some NTrs kill me with your insecure talk. Dudes shorty obviously crossed mad lines.

But if that's the signal she gives off, I'll prolly do the same and relegate her to a jump off. I would also follow suite the whole time were out and check shorties and holler too. Yes I am insecure and childish.
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Not like they were in a relationship if they just hooked up, he took her more srs than she did him obviously
 
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