Relationships : Whats "keeping them (your partner) in check" and whats "being too controlling/crazy"

What she did wasn't cool and clearly crossed lines

But I'm the type to handle that in private. One to not make a scene. Second to give me time to calm down
 
she crossed no lines, y'all ain't bf/gf.

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 @ you causing a scene. 

everyone looks at other people when they're in a relationship.

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 @ you catching feelings after smashing.

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 beta

I say this with love though.
 
...Now I sit all alone, wishing all my feeeeeeelings was goooooooooooonnnnnnneeeeeeeeeeeee
 
Yeah Bruh that's that young boy ****. :smh:

Either you didn't smash or didn't put it down, cause it's seems fishy you hit and she checking out guys right in front of you
 
i look at females when im with my girl
i dont be all crazy with it though
i do the look ahead of them so they walk into my line of vision move
or the hey u like her pants or shoes or shirt u want some like that type of thing
i dont really trip or get jealous is my girl looks at dudes
she dont really or at least i never notice her looking
she did go see trey songz at this club this past weekend with her friends
i was a lil jealous i cant front
but i beat her p out the frame when she came back home
and after that i wasnt trippin :lol:
 
I would of just pointed out a girl and made a comment to return the favor. There's no way a chick I just hooked up with a few days ago is going to have me react in public :lol:.

As soon as we went our separate ways I would of text her like "you mention another dude in front of me again it's over for you"
 
I hooked up with this girl like a couple days ago (Ive known her since 9th grade) . It was cool and all until today when we were walking around the plaza and she saw this dude and was like "damn he fine' then started staring the ***** down and **** :stoneface:  I ended it right there. I made a big scene too. She was saying she was sorry and he aint **** and all that.... But I wasn't having it. I kind of feel bad though, but I never stared at another girl since we hooked up. Is my pimp hand weak??? Does your girl stare at other dudes???? How do you handle it???




Is keeping your girl from staring at other dudes keeping them in check or is that being too controlling????? 


What about other things like telling them they cant hang out with their other guys friends, text other dudes, etc........???????

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Nah bro. You don't get to talk about pimp hands when you're causing a scene over nothing over a girl you "hooked up" with a couple of days ago.

There's literally too many good looking people in the world for you (or your partner) to be tripping about checking someone out. If you're that insecure, jealous and petty about her thinking someone else is attractive, you need to work on yourself. You def have no right to be "acting cool" about it. This was you catching feelings, being a beta, and flipping out over nothing.

For actual relationships (not betas potentially lying about hooking up with a girl once) - If you have to set ground rules for the opposite gender (no guy friends or she doesn't let you have girl friends), you might want to reconsider how much you trust them. If someone told me I'm not allowed to text or have friends that are girls, I'm going to assume they don't trust me at all. What's the point in having a relationship with that little trust?
 
OP you ain't wrong for feeling that way but making a scene in public wasn't a good move. Don't think that was grounds to end whatever y'all had either. Have you spoken to her since?
 
Mine straight up told me the other day, "I know when ur checking out a girl, I can tell by the way u look at her and ur eyes."

We then talked about it, and it's obviously not a big deal unless what ur girl did... She was disrespectful with that.

:lol: This.

I remember my girl telling me "I know when you see an attractive girl"

I was like "How?"

She says "Because you get kind of get clingy as if you feel guilty that you're checking out another girl in front of me"

I was like :wow: and then we both laughed it off!
 
OP you weren't wrong with how you felt but how you conveyed it. Woman will test how secure you are with yourself all the time. It's cool to show them you care once in a while (if you care that is) but you do it too much then they know they got you whipped. You should of just texted another chick in front of her immediately after she popped that off
 
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You already lost for making a scene and being emotional about it.

Cut her off. BF/GF or not that was mad disrespectful.

That's some friendzone, platonic friend, treating you like you like wee wees type ****.

She don't respect you whoadie.

I woulda been like "Oh word? Go see if homie will take you home."

And then shmoney danced all the way to the food court to cop me a cinnamon Auntie Anne's.
 
OP, read your sig and let it marinate, then ask Meth to delete this weak *** thread.
 
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OP, This is what really happened

Ya girl was checking out a guy while ya'll were walking in the mall. They made eye contact and the vibe was right. Ol'boy than walked up to you and stated the following

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I think that's about right.
 
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 You hooked up a few days ago and the title of your thread reads, "Relationships:..."

Your "Ex" dodged a bullet. You a STAGE 5 clinger, b. 
 
she crossed no lines, y'all ain't bf/gf.


:smh: :smh: :smh:  @ you causing a scene. 


everyone looks at other people when they're in a relationship.


:x  @ you catching feelings after smashing.


>D  beta


I say this with love though.


For real, though.

OP sounds beta as hell.
 
I hooked up with this girl like a couple days ago (Ive known her since 9th grade) . It was cool and all until today when we were walking around the plaza and she saw this dude and was like "damn he fine' then started staring the ***** down and **** :stoneface:  I ended it right there. I made a big scene too. She was saying she was sorry and he aint **** and all that.... But I wasn't having it. I kind of feel bad though, but I never stared at another girl since we hooked up. Is my pimp hand weak??? Does your girl stare at other dudes???? How do you handle it???

Is keeping your girl from staring at other dudes keeping them in check or is that being too controlling????? 


What about other things like telling them they cant hang out with their other guys friends, text other dudes, etc........???????

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OP, This is what really happened

Ya girl was checking out a guy while ya'll were walking in the mall. They made eye contact and the vibe was right. Ol'boy than walked up to you and stated the following

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I think that's about right.

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