Thoughts on random females/exes hitting you up out of the blue for sex?

freeze · Jul 25, 2014

Case in point, shorty hit me up, haven't spoken with her in 6-7 yrs...she hit me out of the clear blue...all on my ****...being all friendly and loving, talm bout let's hang out, wanting to take me to dinner n ****...then she starts randomly gassing herself (I didn't request any of this info) talm bout she's about to graduate..has her own car ( lol like thats something rare) goes to church...sings..dances..paints....a homebody... close to her fam, etc etc.....

son..the very next day....she shoots me a text about my thoughts on having random sex with people....I asked her if she wanted to ****. She said 'very much so'. Then starts going on and on about how she wants to duck my sick and swallow the seed. :nerd:

....

Now mind you, I'm a good looking dude, smart, funny, educated and successful in my career, in great shape, chocolately brown skin and pipe game is serious, no bromo...So I get why exes and old flames pop back up occasionally, it's happened before...but I mean...given these actions...one can deduce....she's clearly trying to infect me with aids or something else untreatable right?

I mean, shorty hella cute. I've always liked her. Great box. Having sex with her was always fun. She was my little bench player back in the day. Always had a fun personality...but...a brotha is just suspicious of old booty popping up trying to be new booty. Like...what aren't you telling me? Why all of a sudden, I popped in your subconscious? Smells like a setup.

Now, I'm not asking you guys to guide my actions, I know this is NT lol...I'm just asking for your opinions on the matter. What would you guys do if it were you?

inb4 sloots gonna sloot

*and no pix, all I have are ones of her face, since she sent me like 5 of them in one of her messages lol.

Here's a couple pics of large breasts for the beasts though

and one for my team big booty homies

who loves you baby.

coldcity · Jul 25, 2014

oh rly

double edged sword brodie

she could just want her bench slot back & to get smanged 2-3 weekly

other side of it she could be on bs BUT was she ever like that before? did yall break up messy? if not there should be little to suspect as far as her possibly living foul & setting you up for something....

I'd call her over (unless you moved since yall broke up & she dont know the new spot) , bang dem guts out & send her home before the street lights go off

sometimes the {} is solo domino easy & you straight out asking if she was trying to bang let her kno she could get exactly what she wants with no extra(actual feelings,relationship etc.) even tho she asked about taking her out it very well couldve been her cover so she doesnt seem too easy

T Lo Sweater · Jul 25, 2014

Me personally i wouldnt do it. **** ssounds od fishy. It's been years and all she wants to do is give up the box? And it was quick for her to offer it?

No thanks jeff/10

Since u look good you'll find a new bench player

Chopper · Jul 25, 2014

Nah fam; pics of the actual shorty.

Sir San Diego · Jul 25, 2014

Sounds super suspect.

6-7 years with no contact and all of a sudden you're on her mind? Why take that chance?

And you need to post a pic. This ain't your main girl. Stop being shook.

you go boy · Jul 25, 2014

she might just want you as a booty call and its convenient since your her ex

freeze · Jul 25, 2014

lol you guys can't peer pressure me into posting her pic. I'm not grimey like that.

but yea, that's what I'm saying. Surely she's found other dudes in the last 6 yrs. I'm a much better man now than I was in my early 20s, so there's that, but it still just seems sus.

Maybe I'll let her dome me, since she insists.. that couldn't hurt right?

je ne sais quoi · Jul 25, 2014

Magic Johnson would want you to hit.

cashbanks · Jul 25, 2014

i thought this was gonna be a ***** made thread based on title about still having feelings for her yadda yadda

but turns out

freeze is playa made and is just trying to avoid the monster

if it didnt end on a sour note i wouldn't worry too much feel her out (no pun intended) if you still feel iffy just move on

toast1985 · Jul 25, 2014

Did she move out of town?

Was she in a relationship?

Humbled · Jul 25, 2014

Same thing happened to me last year. Broad I dated for 4 years in HS hit me up outta nowhere 3 years later. horrible breakup :x (involved cops and Facebook :nerd:

) Chopped it up for like a week and she invited me to her spot. Seemed SUPER fishy but I was just like **** it because our sex was always unbelievable before. Did the dangerous thing and smashed raw for like two weeks :smh:

it was dope but the box fell off something serious. got tested like a week after that and luckily I was clean. Cut her off again a lil bit after that. She still hits me up every once in a while but I'm past that.

If you do smash, strap up. I got lucky.

freeze · Jul 25, 2014

toast1985 said:
Did she move out of town?

Was she in a relationship?

nah at the time of our original situation I had a girl, but I met this one at work and we connected and she was cool with playing the sideline. Can't be mad at that right? So then she ended up leaving the job after a while, we kept in contact, but grew a part and ended up losing contact due to life and such. Never any bad feelings or words said between us, it was always peace and love. A brotha just been watching too many movies I guess, can you really trust em?

a rubber for head though? I'll never bust like that lol.

fontaine · Jul 25, 2014

The funniest thing is her look when you reach for the condom before y'all smash...

:lol:

That's kills the ex's.

360waves · Jul 25, 2014

Simple,
Best case scenario you have care free unlimited buns with no attachment/ strings

Worst case scenario you get aids

acericoescobar · Jul 25, 2014

Look

freeze
Have a real serious conversation with this girl and ask her why the sudden interest? Tell her why you're skeptical, and if you really wanna be on the safe side take that girl to the clinic with you. I don't care how whack that sounds I used to take all mains to the clinic personally before I smashed raw continuously. I used to take em to get the shot (birth control) and get checked. Of course you don't wanna do all this for a sideline thot but man a clear conscious is priceless. Some girl I F'd wit a year ago told me she caught the lower case "h" and she told me she told dudes she was active with at the time and these grimey ninjas still wanna smash :smh:

. So when she told me I was thankful cuz even tho I had no intention of ever smashin again, sh-it happens. So yea man remember precaution and prevention is waaaay better than a cure my dude. But other than that oh girl just sounds low key desperate and like she just ain't had no good D or just been dawged by dudes in general

thestranger · Jul 25, 2014

adasda

mr jordan04 · Jul 25, 2014

Brolic Scholar said:
Sounds super suspect.

6-7 years with no contact and all of a sudden you're on her mind? Why take that chance?

And you need to post a pic. This ain't your main girl. Stop being shook.

Deleted member 107398 · Jul 25, 2014

360waves said:
Simple,
Best case scenario you have care free unlimited buns with no attachment/ strings

Worst case scenario you get aids

#ntextremes

al audi · Jul 25, 2014

I usually do.....hell I just got home and a ex said she is coming here now. I hit that before July 4th.

6-7 years too long though

tripda6 · Jul 25, 2014

Fkdkdkkdksks at aids...
Chick I used to **** out back in 06/07 hit me up on fb about a year ago at like 230 am :nerd:

I hit her up when I woke up and she was roundabout as ****, I'm like "you ****** or what?"

Went to her crib that Saturday night, her cousin and some ****** were there :stoneface:

she got mad I was leaving and kissed me but kept backpedaling on giving up the p, so I went home.

Next day, she asked me to take her to the movies... I hung the phone up on that stupid *** *****.

Dont reply when old news hits you up b

heliumclinton · Jul 25, 2014

Depending on which ex I'm immediately thinking she wants to kill me

Brownstone · Jul 25, 2014

heLiumcLinton said:
Depending on which ex I'm immediately thinking she wants to kill me

This reminds me of a time one of my boys was out and told me how this one chick told him that she knew me and I was a really coo dude.

I asked him what her name was and he couldn't remember.

I immediately told him I def didn't hit if she still thinks I'm a cool dude.

bawsesauce · Jul 25, 2014

Je Ne Sais Quoi said:
Magic Johnson would want you to hit.

Lol bruh

nikekidwonder · Jul 25, 2014

She wants a baby or just some quick and easy sex ... its that simple.

Some girls don't want one night stands with new people , so they usually use the ex until they can get into another real relationship.

Also when a chick (especially in her late 20's to early 30's)is begging for sex randomly it can also mean her biological clock is ticking and she is trying to get pregnant.

Either way , if you decide to hit it, wrap it up lol

PRIME · Jul 25, 2014

Blatant humble brag thread.

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Thoughts on random females/exes hitting you up out of the blue for sex?

freeze

coldcity

T Lo Sweater

formerly troyd

Chopper

Sir San Diego

formerly brolic scholar

you go boy

freeze

je ne sais quoi

cashbanks

toast1985

Humbled

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freeze

fontaine

360waves

acericoescobar

thestranger

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