Long Distance relationship.. Really that difficult?

Peep Game · Jul 27, 2014

BLASTERCOMBO said:
Man, a 30 min drive is far enough for me

That's what I gradually learned. After awhile, 6 hour drives just to see somebody for 3-4 days starts to be a burden instead of excitement and anticipating. It became a job more than anything.

DCAllAfrican · Jul 27, 2014

JJs07 said:
Easily doable. If you (and her) think it's worth it, things will work out.

You make it sound so simple. They can think it is worth it and it can fail.

Hell, anybody that tried AND failed probably thought it was worth it.

Sir San Diego · Jul 27, 2014

Why though?

There are women in every city.

combo gd · Jul 28, 2014

It is doable, but highly unlikely to work out.

fontaine · Jul 28, 2014

How far is DC and NY?

My main yamb is 2 hours away...

I think that the perfect distance is 45 minutes travel time

iheartboost · Jul 28, 2014

Yes.

Did it, we hated it. She ended it.

Did it again (another realationship), hated it. We moved in with each other a few years ago. Now im tired of seeing her all the damn time :lol:

rck3sactown · Jul 28, 2014

bhergh said:

@bhergh sorry champ

heliumclinton · Jul 28, 2014

Freeze said:
BLASTERCOMBO said:

Man, a 30 min drive is far enough for me

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This. I was seeing this chick that was 45 minutes away for a minute. That got old fast. I only want local ladies.

Damn, any of yall live in NYC? A ride from the Bronx to Brooklyn or Queens is already 45 mins :lol:

blastercombo · Jul 28, 2014

Fontaine said:
How far is DC and NY?

My main yamb is 2 hours away...

I think that the perfect distance is 45 minutes travel time

Give or take, about 5 hours

Coromanti · Jul 28, 2014

heLiumcLinton said:
Freeze said:

BLASTERCOMBO said:

Man, a 30 min drive is far enough for me

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This. I was seeing this chick that was 45 minutes away for a minute. That got old fast. I only want local ladies.

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Damn, any of yall live in NYC? A ride from the Bronx to Brooklyn or Queens is already 45 mins

If you on the train 1.5 hours easy.

sunsetcity · Jul 28, 2014

Ecook0808 said:
I just got into one 2-3 weeks ago... It's tough but if you communicate well, very doable.

im in same exact situation. Im in OC shes in SF... book southwest.com

アミーゴ · Jul 28, 2014

sunsetcity said:
im in same exact situation. Im in OC shes in SF... book southwest.com

Yeah sw and jetblue are cash. Fly out of SNA or LB.

teamjordan79 · Jul 28, 2014

past like 40-50 years old, i want all my relationships to be long distance. A chick in every city that i visit.

Long distance international relationships are underrated IMO

nazdrowie · Jul 28, 2014

my mother lives in chicago and my father lives in MD...they see each other every other month or so...seems to work for them theyve been doing it for the better part of 10 years or so...

DCAllAfrican · Jul 28, 2014

NazDrowie said:
my mother lives in chicago and my father lives in MD...they see each other every other month or so...seems to work for them theyve been doing it for the better part of 10 years or so...

Define "works" though?

Mark Antony · Jul 29, 2014

Brolic Scholar said:
Why though?

There are women in every city.

I think folk are simplifying this too much. In general? naw, skip it. But if this is the woman you intend to spend the rest of your life with? go for it.

carver · Jul 29, 2014

You can try to master the art of that far away love.. but only so much can keep a woman warm.

We've been living in a cold, cold world.

sportsjunkie · Jul 29, 2014

Phen0m said:
DC to NY. Very cool chick, probably an 8/10. You all could see each other every weekend if you wanted to(bus up, bus down).

Could you do it? And for how long if so. Both of your careers are keeping you in your respective areas for the foreseeable future.

DC to NY isnt bad at all. Because they can see each other every weekend.

miamiboy · Jul 29, 2014

Carver said:
You can try to master the art of that far away love.. but only so much can keep a woman warm.

We've been living in a cold, cold world.

Ok Abel.

suberzat1 · Jul 29, 2014

I maybe on that DC to NYC love life

carver · Jul 29, 2014

MiamiBoy said:
Carver said:

You can try to master the art of that far away love.. but only so much can keep a woman warm.

We've been living in a cold, cold world.

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Ok Abel.

First thing I thought of when I seen this thread

tero · Jul 29, 2014

Suberzat1 said:
I maybe on that DC to NYC love life

thats only a 3 hour drive with da EZ Pass my G :smokin

aint nothing to it

blastercombo · Jul 29, 2014

Man more like 4 if you leave in the middle of the night

suberzat1 · Jul 29, 2014

Tero said:
thats only a 3 hour drive with da EZ Pass my G

aint nothing to it

Already know son

If I dont get a chick in the DMV, im picking one up in Soho

Yea @BLASTERCOMBO 4 hours does sound about right.

hennessy · Jul 29, 2014

Phen0m said:
DC to NY. Very cool chick, probably an 8/10. You all could see each other every weekend if you wanted to(bus up, bus down).

Could you do it? And for how long if so. Both of your careers are keeping you in your respective areas for the foreseeable future.

I'm doing this right now. It's not bad at all. I'm in DC she's in NY. Lives in NYC but goes to school upstate near my parents home so I visit them if she's busy or something. Don't see eachother for two weeks or so but when we do we spend a whole weekend or more together without any distractions. Just time for us to be together and enjoy ourselves which is nice. When we are apart we still talk every day but I can focus on myself, career, gym, and save money. I actually prefer it this way at this point in my life. Nice change of pace after just getting out of a two year relationship where I saw the girl almost every day.

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