Stephen A. Smith Apologizes about Domestic Violence Views

lakersman3000 said:
I have dv on my record. I don't care that I'm judged. I got hit over the head with an iron. I retaliated by tossing the female . She went flying . Cops showed I'm bleeding. She's crying. I go to jail.

no matter what i fd up but never have i hit a female with a close fist.
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Smh that ain't right. It's like you need a bullet wound to escape jail.
 
:lol: at the analogy that women are like kids & must be punished like them, too...yikes
 
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^^took me to the county hos. Then I went to jail.

. She lied and said I hit her first then she hit me with an iron in self defense. They believed her. It is what it is.


reason I have a big problem with females. I can't lie. Yeah not every female did that to me but I gives no Fs. Just that they have that power to lie and get you in trouble. I have very little love for females . I just want to smash... It is what it is.
 
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Beadle getting no love on sites besides the coddled kids on here. If you ever had a social life you've seen the chicks SAS was talking about. Demographic doesn't matter cause they come in all colors/size/financial backgrounds
 
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Jesse Palmer had to apologize for doing a Horns down sign :lol:??? How pathetic. If they suspended everybody on ESPN for simply making fun of and taking shot at other players and teams, ESPN would only have Sage Steele and Mike Berman. They just slandered Steve Nash for being a decrepit corpse, will anyone be getting suspended or fired today? His feelings may be hurt :wow: someone please help
 
lakersman3000 said:
^^took me to the county hos. Then I went to jail.

. She lied and said I hit her first then she hit me with an iron in self defense. They believed her. It is what it is.


reason I have a big problem with females. I can't lie. Yeah not every female did that to me but I gives no Fs. Just that they have that power to lie and get you in trouble. I have very little love for females . I just want to smash... It is what it is.
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Curious, did she ever apologize for putting you through it?
 
Yeah she kissed my *** cuz I broke up with her for a minute , at the time.
that's the mother of my kids I shouldn't have forgiven her taken her back but I did. Regrets.....FDB . I shoulda known the way she ished on me at the time...
 
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SurgeV1 said:
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at the analogy that women are like kids & must be punished like them, too...yikes
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is not having temper tantrums, kicking and screaming, throwing things and destroying stuff not a way children typically respond in a disagreement or when things dont go their way?
 
lakersman3000 said:
^^took me to the county hos. Then I went to jail.

. She lied and said I hit her first then she hit me with an iron in self defense. They believed her. It is what it is.


reason I have a big problem with females. I can't lie. Yeah not every female did that to me but I gives no Fs. Just that they have that power to lie and get you in trouble. I have very little love for females . I just want to smash... It is what it is.
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I feel you on so many levels. I caught a case years ago due to some nonsense with my bm's. nowhere near the level of what you been through, I remember you posting your situation on here before and damn I felt bad for you.

The one thing ill say is that I'm glad my situation happened a while ago and I was able to move past it where it doesn't have an impact on me.

Stuff made me a helluva lot more level headed and composed though, I got a ton of restraint in situations alot of dudes probably wouldn't these days which I'm glad for.
 
Mr Marcus said:
Beadle getting no love on sites besides the coddled kids on here. If you ever had a social life you've seen the chicks SAS was talking about. Demographic doesn't matter cause they come in all colors/size/financial backgrounds
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Agreed. I've seen the reckless irrational behavior from the white wiminz around the beach areas around here and seen the exact same behavior from the black and spanish wiminz in inglewood and cities like that as well.

That reckless behavior comes in all shapes, colors, sizes, and social status.
 
My had a knife thrown at him he left to call the cops . They took him to jail because the bm was crying about what he told.....on some verbal assault ish
 
One thing I will say about NT, we have a LOT of people with a lot of different live experiences. So when someone uses the, "You should never _____" it is always refreshing to see what we deem EXTREME situations to be put on the table.

Tough stories above man.

And Ceballos, you spoke a lot of truth in this thread too. I meant to point that out.
 
shoelyesses said:
 
is not having temper tantrums, kicking and screaming, throwing things and destroying stuff not a way children typically respond in a disagreement or when things dont go their way?
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Would a grown person doing all that justify you hitting them tho
 
There is ALWAYS a justification though. Justification = Reason why. That isn't for YOU to determine if something is justified. That is up to that individual to determine if it was justified.

Justification for ME isn't the same as justification for @MeanGene

Stop using those conditional words as if there is ONE meaning that everyone agrees with
 
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WillzWay26 said:
 
Would a grown person doing all that justify you hitting them tho
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no and neither would i a child, and i have two girls. thats my point.... at least the child/children have a understandable reason for acting the way they act. they truly dont know any better.... so as i said earlier anyway you spin it you are essentially whooping them/hitting them for doing something they dont even realize is wrong. yet wont hit a women who knows what their doing is wrong and is doing it intentionally. 

Thats like saying if someone not knowingly accidently bumps into you, you would hit them (aka like a child), yet if someone had the full intentions of hitting you and came up and start wailing on you, you would try to walk away, or restrain them (aka a woman)
 
And didn't we all learn that there's a double standard with women when we were like four years old tho, when we had to let them go first for certain things and seeing people open doors for them and stuff like that.  Didn't realize that somewhere in your childhood that females had certain priveleges?  So why is it that now as adults men are suddenly surprised that there are double standards for women?  All these issues with child support, custody, women's right, Kobe in Colorado, etc, and NOW men are mad over the fact that you cant hit women regardless of the circumstances.  Yall cant be that naive

Just to stay on topic, what SAS said didn't sound harsh to US, but to a woman it's saying that if a man does put his hands on you, it may be justified if you "provoke" it.  How can you be surprised he got suspended when he's basically defending dv offenders (at least to a degree)?  In this day and age where people are sensitive about race and civil issues, how can you be surprised he's getting punished for this?

You guys keep arguing the concept of the parameters of the variables of when it is or isnt ok to hit a woman, but just doing it is WRONG and btw ILLEGAL.  So God forbid a man slaps your mother, or your sister, or your wife, or your daughter, and she tells you, instead of retaliation the first thing in your mind is gonna be "well damn what did you do to make him so mad?"  THATS the first thing thats gonna go thru your head forreal?!?!?!?
 
shoelyesses said:
no and neither would i a child, and i have two girls. thats my point.... at least the child/children have a understandable reason for acting the way they act. they truly dont know any better.... so as i said earlier anyway you spin it you are essentially whooping them/hitting them for doing something they dont even realize is wrong. yet wont hit a women who knows what their doing is wrong and is doing it intentionally. 

Thats like saying if someone not knowingly accidently bumps into you, you would hit them (aka like a child), yet if someone had the full intentions of hitting you and came up and start wailing on you, you would try to walk away, or restrain them (aka a woman)
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this ***** is dropping gems...

Repppppped.
 
Fontaine said:
this ***** is dropping gems...

Repppppped.
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:lol: It is funny because it can be head scratching because you didn't know WHERE he was going when he started out. I was like, "Is this fool advocating the use of corporal punishment on kids." Funny dude
 
WillzWay26 said:
And didn't we all learn that there's a double standard with women when we were like four years old tho, when we had to let them go first for certain things and seeing people open doors for them and stuff like that.  Didn't realize that somewhere in your childhood that females had certain priveleges?  So why is it that now as adults men are suddenly surprised that there are double standards for women?  All these issues with child support, custody, women's right, Kobe in Colorado, etc, and NOW men are mad over the fact that you cant hit women regardless of the circumstances.  Yall cant be that naive
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Nobody is surprised man. Not sure where you are getting that from. Folks are simply discussing the double standard honestly. Nobody is shocked.
 
shoelyesses said:
 
no and neither would i a child, and i have two girls. thats my point.... at least the child/children have a understandable reason for acting the way they act. they truly dont know any better.... so as i said earlier anyway you spin it you are essentially whooping them/hitting them for doing something they dont even realize is wrong. yet wont hit a women who knows what their doing is wrong and is doing it intentionally. 

Thats like saying if someone not knowingly accidently bumps into you, you would hit them (aka like a child), yet if someone had the full intentions of hitting you and came up and start wailing on you, you would try to walk away, or restrain them (aka a woman)
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Yeh so whether or not a woman knows what she's doing, that doesn't give you a right or reason to hit her.  Bottom line.  (I put right or reason because justify is too broad a term)

"Oh I slapped her because she dont know any better" 

or

"Oh she know better than that, she keep playing with me I had to slap her" 

FOH.  If a grown woman is acting like a kid, that's grounds for hitting her like a kid tho?
 
WillzWay26 said:
Yeh so whether or not a woman knows what she's doing, that doesn't give you a right or reason to hit her.  Bottom line.  (I put right or reason because justify is too broad a term)

"Oh I slapped her because she dont know any better" 

or

"Oh she know better than that, she keep playing with me I had to slap her" 



FOH.  If a grown woman is acting like a kid, that's grounds for hitting her like a kid tho?
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You completely missed his point.
 
WillzWay26 said:
 
And didn't we all learn that there's a double standard with women when we were like four years old tho, when we had to let them go first for certain things and seeing people open doors for them and stuff like that.  Didn't realize that somewhere in your childhood that females had certain priveleges?  So why is it that now as adults men are suddenly surprised that there are double standards for women?  All these issues with child support, custody, women's right, Kobe in Colorado, etc, and NOW men are mad over the fact that you cant hit women regardless of the circumstances.  Yall cant be that naive

Just to stay on topic, what SAS said didn't sound harsh to US, but to a woman it's saying that if a man does put his hands on you, it may be justified if you "provoke" it.  How can you be surprised he got suspended when he's basically defending dv offenders (at least to a degree)?  In this day and age where people are sensitive about race and civil issues, how can you be surprised he's getting punished for this?

You guys keep arguing the concept of the parameters of the variables of when it is or isnt ok to hit a woman, but just doing it is WRONG and btw ILLEGAL.  So God forbid a man slaps your mother, or your sister, or your wife, or your daughter, and she tells you, instead of retaliation the first thing in your mind is gonna be "well damn what did you do to make him so mad?"  THATS the first thing thats gonna go thru your head forreal?!?!?!?
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actually can somewhat relate to this as my sisters ex-husband had hit/beat her up one time..... And seeing that overall he is a decent standup kinda guy i did ask/wonder why he hit her...and i didnt just go off the handle and whoop his axx... Come to find out my sis thought he was cheating and antagonizing him, and as my nephew/niece had told me momma (my sister) went off the deep end and threw hot cooking oil on him. In that case, understanding why he snapped and slapped the crap outta her, if nothing else but sheer reaction to hot vegetable oil on your body. So tbh i wasnt even mad, and for awhile she was pissed at me and said i shouldve stepped in, stood up for her etc...To which i was like nah i understand why he did what he did. 
 
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