After failed 1st dates or relationships, do any of you go back to her and ask why? Should I?

DatZNasty said:
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Just wanted to know why she wasn't into me

And yes I think she was just too nice to tell me forget she exists at the end of the date so she head nodded me and siad hit me up, but again it didn't seem like she really meant it. Could have been a misread on my part but I doubt it
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I think it was definitely a misread on your part. It sounds like you didn't give yourself a chance. You were too worried about your boots and weight and insecurities. It happens. On her end, she told you to hit her up whenever (she could've said nothing), she stayed with you until the end of the date (seemed like a long date, she could've left whenever) and she never rejected you.

It sounds like you had confidence issues back then and didn't give yourself a chance to get truly rejected. If you liked her, DONT hit her up asking why she didn't like her. Just ask her out again. You didn't end badly. Nor did she ever reject you. If you hit her up like that, she's going to be very confused bro.
 
AdobeCS4 said:
Same boots CJ copped from Binco.
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Truballa101 said:
My guy tried to pick up a shorty with them Tomb Raider boots.

Where they do that at?
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sckid20 said:
Text her a pic of some wheat timbs and tell her youve changed.
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mgrand15 said:
I'm confused. She said to hit her up whenever... you never hit her up but you think she didn't like you? Can you explain more?

Did she officially say she wasn't interested? Or did you guys break up? Or did you never hit her up because you thought you failed?
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She said to hit her up but didn't give off the vibe at all she meant it, was probably just too nice to be more direct. Like who says goodbye to someone at the end of a date from like 10 ft away, and since when do chics headnod dudes? Obviously not when they want to see or her from you again, or at least that was my assumption. Plus it started to rain on me the second I stepped over the threshhold to outside so that was just Jesus'n'em continuing to poop on me that night, so many Ls in one night.
 
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Brolic Scholar said:
Bruh, you really think it was your boots or 40 lbs?

Stop beating yourself up over it. At this rate you're going to see her at that spot and come off as insecure. It doesn't matter what shoes you had on or how much you weighed because she accepted the date. Your game was off and it came from the inside my dude. Just chalk up the L and stop putting so much on it.
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Co-sign. Also try not to give a **** about your appearance or else you'll be taking yourself too seriously but don't try too hard or you'll end up giving too much ***** about not giving a ****.
 
I used to date a lot. If I ain't feelin you I ain't feelin you lol simple as that. However with my exes..... Idk, I don't know if I wanna know
 
Brolic Scholar said:
Beyond too much. It's dangerously close to maxing out and making a fool of yourself.

This chick has probably done so much in 8 months that she would have to balance her actual body count versus the one she tells dudes to remember if she even let you catch a whiff of the jelly roll. Even asking her why within the week that she left you hanging would have been a bit much, but 8 months later? She'll be so gassed up that she won't need another compliment for the rest of the year.

There is no why. It just didn't click. Let it go and move on.
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You could've asked a few weeks later, but 8 months? That's way too much time to let pass. Move on.
 
lol, like I'm going to post it. I know how NTers like to do. I've really probably already given too much info out. By the way, I have on Eggplant Cole Haan Morris Chelsea Wingtip boots right now. I hope they meet with nT's approval.
 
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You're aren't in that bad of a situation bro. Look for the thread where after 2 dates dude became a stalker :lol:
 
Act like if yall was females y'all wouldn't have given it up if I showed up in this except I ironed it first
edit: pic removed. :x
 
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