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Well, laws still exist that say same sex isn't legal, for various reasons (promotin of family, state mores, pro creation [all legal reasoning, check the cases]) so I'm still not seeing why who one sticks their penis in is a choice in one sense and not in the other.
If y'all concede who you have sec with is a choice, then I've nothing else to argue, as that is my point. Whether they should have rights is a different case, and, I believe they should have every right that anyone else does (before we confuse my questions).
yes, the act of having sex is a choice, and who you have sex with is obviously a choice, too. i don't think anyone disagrees with that.
but being gay is not simply about a sexual act. it's an identity. an orientation. it's finding yourself attracted to members of the same sex through no will of your own. it's something you can't explain anymore than my straight friends can explain why they're attracted to girls. it's something you're born with, NOT a choice.
so what would you have me do?