How long did it take you to realize he/she was crazy?

mangudai954

mangudai954

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So often I hear from friends and acquaintances about crazy ex bf or gfs and I always ask the same thing. "Did you know they were crazy before you made them your S/O? Some people say no, and others say there were signs which they chose to ignore.

What are the signs? Any dudes here dealt with women who would literally try to fight you?
 
Crazy yambs are the best dude !!!!! keep them crazy yambs around.....


its easy to see the signs just test them out. don't answer your phone...play with your phone around her
 
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We'll start with her agreeing with me & us coming to a consensus on things...just to have it flip because she didn't actually agree...then getting mad & holding it against me that she wasn't happy with what she agreed on.

There's asking the most obscure & random questions & expecting to get some answer she thought would make sense, then getting up in arms if the answer was actually something she didn't wanna know after asking the question & making you answer.

& being held accountable for what she thinks your reaction is to what she's going through...but you have no knowledge of the situation at all to have any reaction to anything, THEN being judged based on your reaction to her having a reaction to you being confused by what the hell just took place.

I'll add in wanting someone to be more spontaneous & wanting to do things to show feelings/affection, but then get upset with you for trying to do something as small as surprise her with her favorite drink between busy parts of her day just so she can smile about something...THEN getting upset with me because I didn't get over the situation less than 2 hours after getting played like that(basically I went out my way to go to her place & give her this drink she had really been wanting but couldn't get while she was getting ready for work. I get to her place & she's inside but won't open the door AT ALL...never did open the door either...then got pissed at me for being upset still less than 2 hours later, mind you I was in the middle of something & don't live exactly around the corner from her).



I'd say those were some of the signs that showed something was crazy/wrong, I saw it before but tried to ignore it because I still cared about her. Just something you do I guess lol, but you can definitely find signs whenever you look for them.

If I can give a tip though: don't go looking for signs of her craziness, you can always find whatever it is you're looking for...instead look for signs of pure happiness. If they're scarce then take that as a hint that the situation itself is crazy & leave it at that. No need in throwing mud at the ground you walk on yourself.
 
I told my girl something funny I found on NT (I know, I ****** up) and she went and did her own investigation online and we went on a break over some of my posts... there were signs before that but I was blind.

She made me cut off my female best friend at the time who lived in FLA (peep my location) cause she thought we had something going on.

She had a problem with giving head........ that should have been it right there.

She was mad at me cause my mom gave me the money to get Doernbecher 3s a few years back for Xmas, cause I was unemployed and I knew I couldn't get her much.

She claimed I used a family members wake as an excuse to go hang out when she was the one that ended up going out and not coming home that night and didnt come to the wake because she said her mom wanted her home for dinner. (that was the last straw for me)


It was a long 2.5 year life draining relationship for me... too many problems with this chick (yes she was Puerto Rican and had daddy issues)

I ultimately broke up with her... come to find she turned Lesbian after our break up.
 
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I had this chick get mad at me and she started jumping up and down on my playstation. UP and DOWN, UP and DOWN, UP and DOWN.  Crazy as hell, great snatch but in the end it aint worth it fellas.
 
Joepac12 said:
Lawd Charles. But find a better chick and you be ard
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I look at it as a learning experience, this **** I put up with in that relationship taught me everything I need to know bout relationships... I was young and really was in love. But I know I aint never letting a girl treat me like that again.
 
When I think about it they were never really crazy though I called them that. Trust issues, woman logic, lack of the proper respect due on my part can be a potent mix.
 
I knew she was crazy when she locked me in her bathroom till I agreed to talk about our problems.

I knew she was crazy when she wouldn't let me leave ...locked a tight grip on my left leg and allowed herself to be dragged down a flight of stairs.

I knew she was crazy when she stabbed me with a pair of scissors in front of my grandma.

I knew she was crazy when she said I needed to pay her back for the B-Day gifts she got for my son. Yea..ok b****h.
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I knew she was crazy when she stood on top of the new chicks car  with a blade and waited on her to come outside.

I really knew she was crazy the way she cried when we smashed and left that soaked spot on the mattress. #CrazyYambs

(This girl was mexican and black).
 
^and you didn't crack the bishes jaw when she had the scissors in her hand?

Y'all dudes allowing disrespect. :smh:
 
When she was waiting outside my job because I didn't answer the phone (no service) .. changed my provider shortly after that :lol:
 
I knee she was crazy when she flipped out for me NOT meeting up with a chick. Me and my boy went out to a bar and I invited her, she never came but text me the next day apologizing.

I knew she was crazy when I felt that box smh lol...

I knew she was crazy when I met her...

My ***** crazy
 
Im not going to say crazy but i have a few loose screws so I kinda need to someone crazy...I knew my ex was crazy when she threw hot soup in this guys face for trying to holler at  her...I guess he got kinda disrespectful smh lmao
 
Tetsujin23 said:
^and you didn't crack the bishes jaw when she had the scissors in her hand?

Y'all dudes allowing disrespect.
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Nah not at all. The details that led to that would have sent me to jail without question. You know if the laws come for anything physical its wrap city for your record.

Nah man...I get paid to well to lose it all that behind some p****y.

For the record she didn't come straight on with em. I had NO CLUE she had them nor was I facing her at the time.
 
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til after we broke up. I like crazies though 
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Brb she does something
Brb i get upset
Brb Troy why u overreacting
Brb i do the same thing sometime later
Brb end of the world
Brb
 
When she told me she sees astro spiders and how her tartat cards tells her what to do what I should do, also when she tells me to play fantasy games I'm her naughty grandpa and she the quit depressed granddaughter
 
That chick you guys love so much, well she told me she would burn my xbox360 and my shoes cuz anything that takes my attention off her isnt good haha wtf.   That's the first thing that came to mind when just seeing this thread lol
 
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