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NT fam..I need some help.
I'm Jamaican & Guyanese, my girlfriend is Haitian.
For those that don't know, Haiti among the peoples of the english caribbean is often looked down upon. Furthermore, Jamaicans and Haitians stereotypically dislike
each other.
My mother, the Jamaican one, is having trouble stomaching the fact my girl is Haitian. Now everything I do is because of "my Haitian girlfriend." She is acting petty
about everything and has been disrespectful to my girl to her face on numerous occasions.
I'm not expecting her to let go decades of unprecedented bigotry just like that but I at least expected her to behave cordially.
And not that I've met her but my girl assures me that if I were to meet her mother she would at least act civil.
How do I get my mother to act civil and get her head out her ***?
I'm Jamaican & Guyanese, my girlfriend is Haitian.
For those that don't know, Haiti among the peoples of the english caribbean is often looked down upon. Furthermore, Jamaicans and Haitians stereotypically dislike
each other.
My mother, the Jamaican one, is having trouble stomaching the fact my girl is Haitian. Now everything I do is because of "my Haitian girlfriend." She is acting petty
about everything and has been disrespectful to my girl to her face on numerous occasions.
I'm not expecting her to let go decades of unprecedented bigotry just like that but I at least expected her to behave cordially.
And not that I've met her but my girl assures me that if I were to meet her mother she would at least act civil.
How do I get my mother to act civil and get her head out her ***?
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