Is height an essential component in exuding confidence

You can say height don't matter but some women just will not date a short dude. They feel like they can't wear heels or whatever. Why they think like that I dunno but I've heard it straight from them. That kinda stuff would put a chip on my shoulder. Obviously if you look like ryan gosling or whoever they wanna make exceptions but its still playing the game with a handicap in my opinion.

But hey everyone has their dis-qualifiers, according to statistics a lot of chicks pass on black men, so just be happy with whatever handicap you don't have. There's a lot of fish in the sea. If you aren't reeling them in, get new bait. Hop out of a Lotus  Elise that a tall dude can't fit in. See who the girls eyeball then. C.R.E.A.M.

I'm 6'1".  I would probably get a little confidence boost with 2 more inches though (visible or non-visible
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) anything over 6'3 needs to be in a sports arena imo. No place in society for that kinda tall.

PS. Don't get into the whole lifting debate guys. I have a tall slender build. It's so difficult for me to get any type of visible gains, I almost totally gave up. Even when tall dudes get in the gym, they gotta be really diligent to get those muscles stacked like shorter dudes.
 
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Tall wins, no doubt. You may catch her attention when you walk through the door. You may have the courage to approach her and spark up a genuine conversation with her, even get a laugh or two. She may shoot you the number when you're done. But to know all of this will happen, when you stand at 5'9" >* Can't tell you how many women have told me that I'm the shortest guy that they've dated/thought they'd ever get with I literally sit back and him them with the [emoji]128527[/emoji].
 
Damb I'm hurt. 5'7 (on my license). I think I'm really 5'6. Girl I just started talking to is 5'7 /5'8.

She always was conscious about her height. She revealed yesterday to me that she really was about to not give me a chance because she has always been self conscious about her height and always dealt with dudes 6ft plus...

Kind of hurt. But at the same time I was like aight. I still pulled her tho.
 
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Peteweezy said:
Im assuming you're not looking like a football player and I don't get why the tall don't lift cats try to throw that insecurity on short dudes. That stuff is just as funny to me. Bomani that you? Height has little to do with confidence . It helps but no more than the other things like having your life together, not looking dreadful, etc you'll be ok. Also I notice dudes pay attention to stuff girls say like its gospel smh. These chicks will talk to almost any dude that is taller than them.
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You seem hurt

Over or under 5'7?
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Over but why would I be hurt you just said something I see a lot of tall dudes say and they all happen to be frail nothing more nothing less. You think cause I quoted you in another thread I'm hurt? This just Internet fam and you saying stuff I disagree with right now and if it was opposite I'd give you props too.
 
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Over but why would I be hurt you just said something I see a lot of tall dudes say and they all happen to be frail nothing more nothing less. You think cause I quoted you in another thread I'm hurt? This just Internet fam and you saying stuff I disagree with right now and if it was opposite I'd give you props too.
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You acting like its no truth that short dudes hit the weights to make up for their lack of height
 
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Peteweezy said:
Over but why would I be hurt you just said something I see a lot of tall dudes say and they all happen to be frail nothing more nothing less. You think cause I quoted you in another thread I'm hurt? This just Internet fam and you saying stuff I disagree with right now and if it was opposite I'd give you props too.
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You acting like its no truth that short dudes hit the weights to make up for their lack of height
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Of course some do but I try to stay away from lazy generalizations. Why do tall dudes do it then? To make up for something they lacking too? That's why I can't co sign that a lot of people lift weights regardless of height.
 
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Love tall women.
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Word? DO you know why?
How tall are you?

I dont discriminate, I love all women ( besides big chicks).
But I like when chicks are shorter than me. Im 6'1' so it
happens often. Chicks my height are cool too. Never dealt
wit a chick taller (that I can remember)
 
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Short dudes have to try harder in life cause they know from height alone people don't take them serious
 
Casper said:
Short dudes have to try harder in life cause they know from height alone people don't take them serious
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:lol:

I'm short (5'8") and this statement is ridiculous, I've never had a hard time with ladies and never felt less of a man. Where do yall come up with this stuff :smh:
 
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DLee23 said:
You can say height don't matter but some women just will not date a short dude. They feel like they can't wear heels or whatever. Why they think like that I dunno but I've heard it straight from them. That kinda stuff would put a chip on my shoulder. Obviously if you look like ryan gosling or whoever they wanna make exceptions but its still playing the game with a handicap in my opinion.
But hey everyone has their dis-qualifiers, according to statistics a lot of chicks pass on black men, so just be happy with whatever handicap you don't have. There's a lot of fish in the sea. If you aren't reeling them in, get new bait. Hop out of a Lotus  Elise that a tall dude can't fit in. See who the girls eyeball then. C.R.E.A.M.

I'm 6'1".  I would probably get a little confidence boost with 2 more inches though (visible or non-visible :evil: ) anything over 6'3 needs to be in a sports arena imo. No place in society for that kinda tall.

PS. Don't get into the whole lifting debate guys. I have a tall slender build. It's so difficult for me to get any type of visible gains, I almost totally gave up. Even when tall dudes get in the gym, they gotta be really diligent to get those muscles stacked like shorter dudes.
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Fam you don't get to use the too tall to get muscles excuse you gotta be taller than that for that to hold any weight. I know plenty of dudes your height or even taller that get good visible gains. Gotta find another excuse :tongue:
 
5'9 here. Tall for an Asian I have been told lol. I can't eem lie if I could I would be 6'5. Perfect height to be a 2 guard or wide receiver in the NFL.

But height is all preference. I usually date women around 5'3-5'6. I had one chick who was clearly 6 feet. We smashed but that didn't last long. Lol
 
Man height doesn't matter ,

If you're handsome , know how to dress , have a swag

You can bag these chicks no problem

Im 5'7 and have absolutely no problem with women whatsoever

Females also told me short dudes have sex better :lol:

I been called short from women , and I still smash :pimp:

It's all in your demeanor and personality
 
Short dudes are the reason chicago is so messed up. Theyre woat tbh
 
6'2. Was always tall in high school but I was goofy and skinny. Still pulled chicks with ease

6 years later still slightly goofy but I hit the gym on the regular. No issue at all getting pretty much any chick I want.

Most of my friends are short but they are super cocky and they pull bittys with ease.

Nature has a way of working itself out and giving you the things you need to survive.
 
It probably affects who I date more than anything, I'm a short guy (5'9) so I go after short girls, My last couple of gfs are 4'11 5'0, 5'3. I feel like it'd be weird to have my girl looking down at me 
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 But as far as confidence, nah I'm probably overconfident as is, I'd be unbearable if I were 6'0
 
^ You do know 5'9 is like an inch off of regular height right? Internet got cats on some if I'm not 6 something I'm a ******.
 
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