Do men compare themselves to other men?

Kellyrep said:

Not sure what that means.

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a blinkin said:

Yes, we do. No need for us to go into some long drawn out spiel on the topic.

What did you tell the guy for him to be officially done?

At face value, it seems that it had to have been something substantial that cut him deep. If that's the case, then you don't need to worry about that man or how he chooses to live his life subsequent of you. Instead of concerning yourself with how the new girl looks, you should wonder what she does for him, or how she treats him that makes him look beyond the superficiality of her appearance. You yourself claim to be attractive and ended up losing the one man you've been intimate with. Fix yourself, b.

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a blinkin said:

Yes, we do. No need for us to go into some long drawn out spiel on the topic.

What did you tell the guy for him to be officially done?

At face value, it seems that it had to have been something substantial that cut him deep. If that's the case, then you don't need to worry about that man or how he chooses to live his life subsequent of you. Instead of concerning yourself with how the new girl looks, you should wonder what she does for him, or how she treats him that makes him look beyond the superficiality of her appearance. You yourself claim to be attractive and ended up losing the one man you've been intimate with. Fix yourself, b.

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Willchamberlain said:

Look ma, obtuse back put it on son plain n simple. U was a virgin, I'm 90% sure u do t know how to work that thang. If she ugly as u say she know she got a lot to prove to these dudes. U know who pinky is? She probably give that pinky dome. Sex just way better and she probably don't nag and bug him while he on the beach with his peoples. Don't complain about HIS crib or nothing, just shut her mouth and enjoys her man

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Kellyrep said:

a blinkin said:

Yes, we do. No need for us to go into some long drawn out spiel on the topic.

What did you tell the guy for him to be officially done?

At face value, it seems that it had to have been something substantial that cut him deep. If that's the case, then you don't need to worry about that man or how he chooses to live his life subsequent of you. Instead of concerning yourself with how the new girl looks, you should wonder what she does for him, or how she treats him that makes him look beyond the superficiality of her appearance. You yourself claim to be attractive and ended up losing the one man you've been intimate with. Fix yourself, b.

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a blinkin said:

Yes, we do. No need for us to go into some long drawn out spiel on the topic.

What did you tell the guy for him to be officially done?

At face value, it seems that it had to have been something substantial that cut him deep. If that's the case, then you don't need to worry about that man or how he chooses to live his life subsequent of you. Instead of concerning yourself with how the new girl looks, you should wonder what she does for him, or how she treats him that makes him look beyond the superficiality of her appearance. You yourself claim to be attractive and ended up losing the one man you've been intimate with. Fix yourself, b.

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Of course. This is why I'm posting.

But more to it. I invited him places. I was openminded. I asked him about himself. I expressed how I felt. I fell in love with him.

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sckid20 said:

I guarantee illuminati body had dat crazy sex game

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a blinkin said:

You fell in love with him and still found it appropriate to berate him? And after said berating,[COLOR=#red] you are ready to reconcile [/COLOR]

I don't understand women that do this type of stuff.

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a blinkin said:

You fell in love with him and still found it appropriate to berate him? And after said berating, you are ready to reconcile

I don't understand women that do this type of stuff.

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a blinkin said:

You fell in love with him and still found it appropriate to berate him? And after said berating, you are ready to reconcile

I don't understand women that do this type of stuff.

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JayPiff said:

Men do compare ourselves to other men. Most do it as a way to critique themselves for self-


OP you lost your virginity to this guy so your box game was probably trash

& then you threw shade on his house, b.


His new piece can probably throw that *** in a circle & cleans his house for him

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sooperhooper said:

I think people in general do this when they feel that they've been "replaced".
You seem very proud of your accomplishments/physique, which is good, but those things don't mean everything. The guy may not be very superficial and he and the other girl may have a lot in common, along with overall chemistry.

It seems that the dynamics that you mentioned (looks /accomplishments/sexual experience) are what you're using to measure the quality of a mate, when in actuality, those are minuscule when it comes to day to day interactions with a person. They may have the same humor and be from the same hometown.

You shouldn't have a hard time finding another guy. If your description is true, post a pic and guys on here will have an engagement ring ready.

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DCAllAmerican said:

Of course we do. Anyone that says otherwise is in denial

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DatZNasty said:

I doubt he was really that broken up emotionally that you said his house wasn't clean. Keep it 100, you said something about his penis size or even worse, "is it in yet," and coming from a virgin that had him ready to slit his wrists every time he sees you now so he just moved on.

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Kellyrep said:

I could but I waited for a reason.

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