What would you have done in this situation?

Maybe he confused pumpkins with watermelons but since he mentioned Cinderella I have no clue what he could be referencing unless yall were dressed a certain way or maybe he was reaching by saying yall work for some poor white woman that gets classy on the weekends :lol:
 
Usually it means like go to sleep.

Like "I turn into a pumpkin after 2am so we better go"


So I have no idea wat he meant lol
 
Looked up that pumpkin comment.

Seems like he was saying "I thought you'd be sleeping by now" or something. Maybe you looked young.
 
Master Zik said:
No he didn't mean it in an encouraging way if he did when OP said to run that by him again he would've said what he said again and elaborated instead of nothing and telling him to leave.

So the **** what if it was a snarky joke? I'm tired of ppl using the word snarky as a pass to be disrespectful like it's some new trendy word that should be accepted at all.

He didn't choke him :lol: He grabbed him by the collar and it was nothing wrong about it. Some ppl just need to be checked.

Then here comes the ignorance :smh: Now you're accusing him of being amongst a group of abusers :smh: AND assuming he's black. Says a whole lot more about you than him :stoneface:
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THIS. I feel like SFB has to be trolling with that comment. Especially since they went out of their way to place it as a solitary paragraph so nobody could miss it.

Sometimew when you're a conscientious person it gets to be too much. If you generally live by a set of rules and principles on how to treat people, try to be aware of your space and surroundings, you're doing something to better yourself, etc you are probably fairly sensitive to the needs of others. That sensitivity can backfire if one of your principles is violated. I get that impression from OP, especially since it's still on his conscience and he made this post. If he was truly that aggressive he wouldn't give it a second thought. Would probably go back to the same subway the next day and try to punk dude for extra cheese no charge.

I had similar ep a few years ago. I'll preface it by saying this... I was bent. Walking home from the bar. It's no excuse but it explains my hypersensitivity and my lapse in judgement. Me and wifey are crossing the street and before we get the other foot off the curb this car speeds up and cuts us off in the crosswalk so he didn't have to wait for us to cross. Traffic was backed up crazy, he was gettin in there for a good minute anyway. Wifey cursed at him and flipped him off and walked behind the car.

My dumb *** walks around the front of the car, stops, and double-fist hulk-smashed the hood of his car. Dude looked exactly like "I feel sorry for your mother..." He rolls his window down and shouts out something to me. I walk back up like "oh I KNOW this dude ain't just roll his window down on me..." We get to jawing back and forth while I'm standing at his window, and he just says something like "You stupid!" I don't know why that pushed my buttons but in the blink of an eye I literally kufi smacked him. Like 2 seconds before he had on a hat. I just remember the sound of my hand upside the back of his head and when I looked his hat was gone. Dude just got quiet and shook. Some nosey dude tried to take a pic all stealth, but when I looked at him he just tucked his phone and walked off.

The driver just sat in his car staring at the steering wheel say "I sorry. I sorry". I walked off. Wifey was shook the whole way home. Thought someone called the cops, I said it was like a 20 second exchange. We got home and she went straight to bed. Said she was scared to talk to me. Like I hit her or something.

Once I got home and calmed down I felt bad. Dude was wrong for driving that way but I let my emotions and Hennessey get the best of me. I feel bad but I'd like to think if any good came of it, is that dude is more careful around crosswalks now trying to avoid another nutjob like myself. He legit almost hit us. If it was kids there they'd have gotten hit he gave no dambs.
 
DH1Water said:
you spitting at people but complaining about being disrespected...
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According to his story he spat in dude after he felt he was disrespected.

Granted I know to many spitting on another person is like the highest form of disrespect (and is categorized as assault in some states).
 
Master Zik said:
According to his story he spat in dude after he felt he was disrespected.

Granted I know to many spitting on another person is like the highest form of disrespect (and is categorized as assault in some states).
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so spitting at someone is okay to you?
 
PanaRicanRetro said:
Master Zik said:
No he didn't mean it in an encouraging way if he did when OP said to run that by him again he would've said what he said again and elaborated instead of nothing and telling him to leave.

So the **** what if it was a snarky joke? I'm tired of ppl using the word snarky as a pass to be disrespectful like it's some new trendy word that should be accepted at all.

He didn't choke him :lol: He grabbed him by the collar and it was nothing wrong about it. Some ppl just need to be checked.

Then here comes the ignorance :smh: Now you're accusing him of being amongst a group of abusers :smh: AND assuming he's black. Says a whole lot more about you than him :stoneface:
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THIS. I feel like SFB has to be trolling with that comment. Especially since they went out of their way to place it as a solitary paragraph so nobody could miss it.

Sometimew when you're a conscientious person it gets to be too much. If you generally live by a set of rules and principles on how to treat people, try to be aware of your space and surroundings, you're doing something to better yourself, etc you are probably fairly sensitive to the needs of others. That sensitivity can backfire if one of your principles is violated. I get that impression from OP, especially since it's still on his conscience and he made this post. If he was truly that aggressive he wouldn't give it a second thought. Would probably go back to the same subway the next day and try to punk dude for extra cheese no charge.

I had similar ep a few years ago. I'll preface it by saying this... I was bent. Walking home from the bar. It's no excuse but it explains my hypersensitivity and my lapse in judgement. Me and wifey are crossing the street and before we get the other foot off the curb this car speeds up and cuts us off in the crosswalk so he didn't have to wait for us to cross. Traffic was backed up crazy, he was gettin in there for a good minute anyway. Wifey cursed at him and flipped him off and walked behind the car.

My dumb *** walks around the front of the car, stops, and double-fist hulk-smashed the hood of his car. Dude looked exactly like "I feel sorry for your mother..." He rolls his window down and shouts out something to me. I walk back up like "oh I KNOW this dude ain't just roll his window down on me..." We get to jawing back and forth while I'm standing at his window, and he just says something like "You stupid!" I don't know why that pushed my buttons but in the blink of an eye I literally kufi smacked him. Like 2 seconds before he had on a hat. I just remember the sound of my hand upside the back of his head and when I looked his hat was gone. Dude just got quiet and shook. Some nosey dude tried to take a pic all stealth, but when I looked at him he just tucked his phone and walked off.

The driver just sat in his car staring at the steering wheel say "I sorry. I sorry". I walked off. Wifey was shook the whole way home. Thought someone called the cops, I said it was like a 20 second exchange. We got home and she went straight to bed. Said she was scared to talk to me. Like I hit her or something.

Once I got home and calmed down I felt bad. Dude was wrong for driving that way but I let my emotions and Hennessey get the best of me. I feel bad but I'd like to think if any good came of it, is that dude is more careful around crosswalks now trying to avoid another nutjob like myself. He legit almost hit us. If it was kids there they'd have gotten hit he gave no dambs.
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Damn.

A bit more understandable that you prefaced this with you being bent. I can see how wifey felt some kind of way. There'll be times I'm with friends all high or drunk and when we interact with a bunch of other drunk ppl friendly at first there's that one friend that isn't even known for being violent while drunk that'll just snap and do something excessive in a conflict and then makes everybody ******* quiet like damn ***** you scary. Just going off your story that the dude you hit was shook, the dude who tried to take a pic got shook when you looked at him and your girl was shook the whole rest of the night should let you know you gotta try your best to control yourself in those situations but hey being impaired like that erases all of the inhibitions.
DH1Water said:
Master Zik said:
According to his story he spat in dude after he felt he was disrespected.


Granted I know to many spitting on another person is like the highest form of disrespect (and is categorized as assault in some states).
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so spitting at someone is okay to you?
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No. Not really. It'd really depend on the situation but going off his story that wasn't one of them.

I'm just saying he felt disrespected and it's common for ppl to return that disrespect in w/e agitated state they're in. It's not like he up and spat on dude for no reason. Plus like he also said he was high too (probably about to get drunk since he in a liquor store) and ppl don't make the best or even okay decisions while on something.
 
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DH1Water said:
you spitting at people but complaining about being disrespected...
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I said I overdid with the spitting but like I said, I took it as a racist comment and dealt with it accordingly. If he meant anything other than how I took it then he could have explained it better. 2 young black dudes and a old white dude say you turn into pumpkins after a certain time? He didn't know us
 
Just a general comment:

Violence never solves anything. Nor does responding to ignorance with ignorance.

Try to curb your ego and let these fools have their way with their words. Don't waste your time and your energy stooping to their level. That's what they want you to do. They want you to act like the animal they're unfairly labeling you as.

Nothing pisses off an ignorant loudmouth more than a smile that shows you weren't affected by their ignorance.
 
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GrimlocK said:
I say this with all due respect SFB, but please ****.

Like I said before you know when someone is talking greazy to you. In fact I actually took courses on verbal and nonverbal language but besides having that knowledge if your raised in a big diverse city like NYC then you know what people are really trying to say when they say something.

Thanks for the generalization that I also beat girls. I wanna say your one of the intelligent female posters on NT...but with comments like this I rather not.

For those wondering what I do for a job, I have no job at the moment because i'm between semesters of graduate school for speech-language pathology.

I've already made up my mind on this situation. I'm not going back there, and i'm def. not issuing no ******* apology. Out your god damn mind. I realize I shouldn't have let the comment get to me like that but what's done is done. I learned from it from reflecting on it and it's time to move on.

I'll do better next time. I practice Zazen. It says to be authentically who you are and in that situation I was. To be honest even though the collar grab was bad i'm glad I caught myself and let go so quick. People making it out to seem I legit choked the guy.
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What is that blocked out word.


What did you just type to me






*Yokes your polo collar*
















But those are tendencies of Women beaters though
To get aggressive for something so silly
I didnt say you do it.


I just hope you do better next time.
 
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Def trolling. Getting aggressive isn't a tendency of someone likely to commit domestic violence. It's usually more control issues and insecurity, and even then you still don't always know.
 
Master Zik said:
No he didn't mean it in an encouraging way if he did when OP said to run that by him again he would've said what he said again and elaborated instead of nothing and telling him to leave.

So the **** what if it was a snarky joke? I'm tired of ppl using the word snarky as a pass to be disrespectful like it's some new trendy word that should be accepted at all.

He didn't choke him :lol: He grabbed him by the collar and it was nothing wrong about it. Some ppl just need to be checked.

Then here comes the ignorance :smh: Now you're accusing him of being amongst a group of abusers :smh: AND assuming he's black. Says a whole lot more about you than him :stoneface:
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Words should not bring you to act physically
There is no excuse.


Instead of keeping it real with OP you guys are sugar coating stuff .He grabbed the collar of an elderly man for words.


Just picture how crazy he looked to the patrons who were around, I know people make mistakes and get heated

Dont touch anyone who doesnt touch you.



Forgive me I got grimmlock confused with a blinkin I though he was black.
 
Im not saying he is a women beater.

Im sayng that getting mad over silly things are tendencies that many women beater possess


But that comment was a joke anyways
 
You don't joke domestic abuse. What's done is done. Women beaters are also sometimes alcoholics. There's a lot of different factors that come into play. Flipping out on someone once when you were trying to buy a sandwich and go about your day happens because you're caught off guard by the rudeness and sheer lack of reason that comes alongside an unnecessary petty comment.
 
DH1Water said:
Master Zik said:
According to his story he spat in dude after he felt he was disrespected.


Granted I know to many spitting on another person is like the highest form of disrespect (and is categorized as assault in some states).
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so spitting at someone is okay to you?
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If some said something racist then I wouldn't be mad at anybody spitting.

But that pumpkin comment didn't sound racist :lol: honestly don't know what it even means
 
First off I would've went to a real deli instead of subway, Team Boars Head

But if I was willing to subject myself to subpar cold cuts and found myself in that situation, I would've laughed it off and thanked him for the advice. Can't entertain the trolls, should've learned that from NT
 
What a barbaric thing to do, if that was my old man I would have bodied you.


What he said may have been wrong but you have no right to put your hands on ol boy That's foul
 
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