Thirsty NY Street Cats vol. Is it cause I'm ugly?!

BLASTERCOMBO said:
A girl got punched in the face for saying nothing? Either she walks around arkham asylum or she did something. That's WAY OD
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She said that she was on her way home from a friends house when she passed these two dudes chilling in front of a building. One of them asked for her number and she said no thanks and dude ran up to her and punched her and called her outside of her name.
 
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bilboshmangins said:
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sh0rtyy12 said:
 
:rofl:  my dude said "is it cause im ugly" LOL im not surprised that happens every day in the streets of NY or anywhere i feel like as long as no one is disrespectful you dont worry about and me personally if someone says hi i usually just smile back and keep it moving.
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wassup mami! hope your day is going well today.



that is all. (my pm is open btw) :wow:
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hey ma please reply....


what you think you're too good for me? you still fly tho.
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Damn .. she LOL'D you, she deserves a cold one to the eye now. How disrespectful of her.
 
heLiumcLinton said:
bilboshmangins said:
bilboshmangins said:
 
sh0rtyy12 said:
 
:rofl:  my dude said "is it cause im ugly" LOL im not surprised that happens every day in the streets of NY or anywhere i feel like as long as no one is disrespectful you dont worry about and me personally if someone says hi i usually just smile back and keep it moving.
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wassup mami! hope your day is going well today.



that is all. (my pm is open btw) :wow:
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hey ma please reply....


what you think you're too good for me? you still fly tho.
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Damn .. she LOL'D you, she deserves a cold one to the eye now. How disrespectful of her.
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Someone has to teach her some manners.
 






Not a "Dime" per se.... but clear skin, stays in shape, decent mass, nice taddies, and that hair
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she's a definite go
 
Elon James White @elonjames · 3h 3 hours ago

Why is the need to say "hi" more important to dudes than the need for Women to feel safe walking down the street?

:rolleyes if a simple "what's up?" from a male in broad daylight makes you feel threatened idk what to tell you
 
I wasn't aware saying "hi" made women feel threatened walking down a street..... Cmon man this has gotten ridiculous
 
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Im not a woman but I never saw or heard dudes verbally harassing women on the streets of NYC.
Im calling the whole thing staged.
 
I get that but at the same time, I'm sure its alot of married couples who met through a random chance encounter.

Besides online dating is more prevalent these days, If I was a woman, I would more iffy about the guy talking to me on match, eharmomy or tinder who might act like mr. Right on there but really be a total sociopath then some guy in a crowded public area trying to talk to me. I know not all women are on those dating sites, but I would think meeting someone off the Internet, which has become more common these days, would be a bigger risk then talking to some stranger on the street.
 
Cedric Ceballos said:
I get that but at the same time, I'm sure its alot of married couples who met through a random chance encounter.

Besides online dating is more prevalent these days, If I was a woman, I would more iffy about the guy talking to me on match, eharmomy or tinder who might act like mr. Right on there but really be a total sociopath then some guy in a crowded public area trying to talk to me. I know not all women are on those dating sites, but I would think meeting someone off the Internet, which has become more common these days, would be a bigger risk then talking to some stranger on the street.
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All friends people have were from random encounters to begin with, women act like they've never met men off of the street. I guess it's just the setting, really. You have a better chance talking to a girl in your class than on the street.
 
heLiumcLinton said:
Yall can't understand why a woman would possibly be scared of a stranger? Serious question
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My dude I feel you, but how as men are we supposed to know which women will feel threatened at basic social behavior? Should we take a guess? Avoid greeting them altogether? Adopt Saudi Arabian customs where we don't acknowledge them at all? Because from my point of view saying hi on the streets is basic human social behavior and if that threatens them something is wrong with them not the male party

I'm actually curious as to your response.
 
AZwildcats said:
 
heLiumcLinton said:
Yall can't understand why a woman would possibly be scared of a stranger? Serious question
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My dude I feel you, but how as men are we supposed to know which women will feel threatened at basic social behavior? Should we take a guess? Avoid greeting them altogether? Adopt Saudi Arabian customs where we don't acknowledge them at all? Because from my point of view saying hi on the streets is basic human social behavior and if that threatens them something is wrong with them not the male party

I'm actually curious as to your response.
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catcalling isn't basic social behavior though. whould you cat call if you where walking somewhere with your parents?
 
bilboshmangins said:
 
AZwildcats said:
 
heLiumcLinton said:
Yall can't understand why a woman would possibly be scared of a stranger? Serious question
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My dude I feel you, but how as men are we supposed to know which women will feel threatened at basic social behavior? Should we take a guess? Avoid greeting them altogether? Adopt Saudi Arabian customs where we don't acknowledge them at all? Because from my point of view saying hi on the streets is basic human social behavior and if that threatens them something is wrong with them not the male party

I'm actually curious as to your response.
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catcalling isn't basic social behavior though. whould you cat call if you where walking somewhere with your parents?
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The tweet/quotes is about literally saying "hi" to someone. Yes, I would say hi to someone if I was walking with my parents. Might even get frisky and say hey. This is honestly ridiculous. If you're scared because someone says hi to you, then thats your issue.
 
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Calypso Chanta said:
Historically and socially speaking, hasn't it always been the guy goes and speaks to the female most times?


Trying to initiate a conversation with a stranger that you find attractive on a respective level usually always starts with simple manners, "hello, how are you?" From the female a simple, "no not interested" or "I'm well" and keep it moving is really all it takes. It's simple etiquette. Misinterpreting non-invasive greetings for harassment isn't going to get this cause any positive attention. Especially since remaining silent is a rude response to a respectful greeting. 

Are there inappropriate advances in the video? Yes.
Is this video the best way to showcase this? No.

Additionally, your not going to find support on this issue when someone essentially has a problem with being told that they look nice too much. Comparatively you have the digital age of ego self masturbation where people do so much to receive a 'like' on a multitude of different social media platforms and don't know how to handle the pseudo-celeb attention that comes with that in real life.  

Is this an issue for women? Yes, but with a caveat of women having to accept that social norm of when a man finds a woman attractive, most times he's is going to speak. The line of whether the words spoken are subjectively appropriate or not is too slippery of a slope to get a universal standard behind.
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This is not and should not be accepted as a social norm. As a man in his mid-20s, I have never said anything to a woman on the street in passing. It doesn't matter that you think you are being friendly bycomplimenting someone. Walking down the street is not the same as being in a social environment like a bar or a club where your objective in being there is assumed to be social in nature (wanting to talk to people, meet new people, have fun). It is also not the same as posting photos on a social media network where the entire point of the process is to project your image to others for comment. There is no good reason for you, as a grown man, to comment on a complete stranger's looks in the middle of the street. If that is how you think men should treat women and if you think that's a good way to "pick up women" then you have some serious growing up to do.
 
LuckyP824 said:
 
bilboshmangins said:
 
AZwildcats said:
 
heLiumcLinton said:
Yall can't understand why a woman would possibly be scared of a stranger? Serious question
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My dude I feel you, but how as men are we supposed to know which women will feel threatened at basic social behavior? Should we take a guess? Avoid greeting them altogether? Adopt Saudi Arabian customs where we don't acknowledge them at all? Because from my point of view saying hi on the streets is basic human social behavior and if that threatens them something is wrong with them not the male party

I'm actually curious as to your response.
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catcalling isn't basic social behavior though. whould you cat call if you where walking somewhere with your parents?
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The tweet/quotes is about literally saying "hi" to someone. Yes, I would say hi to someone if I was walking with my parents. Might even get frisky and say hey. This is honestly ridiculous. If you're scared because someone says hi to you, then thats your issue.
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but the discussion is not about saying hi. its about dudes going out of there way to get someones attention. no need to play dumb on this one.
 
Is it wrong to strike up casual conversation with a female you're waiting in line with? If you're both sitting in the doctor's lobby are you in the wrong for saying hey?

Is it only offensive when the woman is in an environment that she deems unsafe? Serious question.
 
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