Originally Posted by Me Love Nutella
For those comparing greetings, the point is what is the purpose of the Hi. Me, walking in my neighborhood and saying hi to others who live in my neighborhood is not because I deem them appetizing and trying to see if I can score and get them in bed. Most of these men when they cat-call are trying to pick a girl up.
A woman or anyone for that matter should not feel uncomfortable for being harassed with unwarranted cat-calls and hollering because they are being preyed on as a piece of meat.
So some of you would accept this if it was your mom or sister being cat-called?
I feel you, I'm trying to look at everything from your perspective. If your out an about and some dude follows you around, and doesn't get the hint, be it you ignoring him (he's not entitled to a response) or telling him your not interested, he's being an unnecessary problem. Same if his approach is over the top raunchy. Its one thing to talk a certain way to a girl I'm comfortable with on that level, but to make sexual related remarks to a random stranger that's not cool.
However, if I saw you, or any female in general walking down the street, and I found you attractive, maybe I liked your outfit, or I noticed you reading something I found interesting, I think I'm well within reason to make an attempt to start a conversation.
Alot of women are receptive if you don't come at em on some "mami what's good" "ay red shorts with the big butt lemme get your number" type approach
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take or however that saying goes but come correct or don't come at all.