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I don't know, but I'm having one of those moments again. Like, it's this girl I've been hanging out with/talking too since March (Knew her since 2011), but I get so paranoid that all of this invested time could go to waste. What is crazy is, everything is going well such as, she calls me just about everyday during her lunch break and always text me good morning to start off the day, so you might ask, why am I getting paranoid and feeling insecure? Well, earlier this year, I was somewhat in the same boat, but the chick just stop speaking to me after her and I was hanging out and even kissed. She just left me hanging. I honestly don't want that to happen again with this girl i'm speaking. The signs are there as far as a potential relationship down the line, but I'm just paranoid that the same thing could occur again. I'm tired of getting taken for granted and I don't want that same scenario to happen again. I guess it's just me putting my guards up. The thing about thsi girl I'm talking to is, she is very attractive and a lot of dudes always want to talk to her and she doesn't seem to pay them any mind, but I think she likes the attention, but who knows. She is very suportive, but this is my first time really dealing with a girl that SOOOOOOOOOOO many dudes want to holler. I think that's where why my insecurity comes to play, but I am trying to fight it! How do you guys deal with this although, nothing is wrong, yet.