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Unless he planned on that being his wife she still belonged to the world.
Im not taking an L for any women not my wife, or wife to be. It's just not worth it.
Man stabbed 9 times after defending his girlfriend from a catcaller
Im not taking an L for any women not my wife, or wife to be. It's just not worth it.
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Either way, it is poor judgement by this guy. This guy already crossed the street with his girlfriend... and the catcaller didn't follow them across. For him to cross back to the other side to approach the catcaller, he is looking for a confrontation. You shouldn't expect the catcaller to apologize and back down. If he wanted to do something he could've stayed on the other side of the street and told him off, no need to deliberately get in front of his face to confront him.
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to be fair, dude had no idea he was going to get stabbed. however, i've never been to sf or the tenderloin for that matter, so i don't know how that hood is. but from what you guys have been saying, it def a part of town you want to keep it moving in.
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It said that the couple crossed the street then the catcaller crossed the street and kept following. That's why he got worried.
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if he kept it moving, he wouldnt have been cut up and almost died
i doubt the guy was from the city. knowing it's the TL and how folks get down in that area, I wouldnt just walk away, I wouldve grabbed her and RAN
i dont even think cabs roll around that part of town at 4am
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Damn 
If it was that extreme then dude just wanted to commit a crime
But it's hard to tell...could've been some high *** crackhead or something ...can't pay them mogs any attention
If it was that extreme then dude just wanted to commit a crime
But it's hard to tell...could've been some high *** crackhead or something ...can't pay them mogs any attention
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i haven't reread article, but what if he did say something from the other side of the street first and the catcaller said something back to him to then make him cross the street. or as he was on the other side of the street the dude might have been saying some grimey stuff to/about her and then calling dude out too. like fontaine said, sometimes your primal instincts kick in and you make bad decisions.
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Like....you think she begged him to stay with her n keep walking..OR..said go back overthere n fight for my feelings.
Real **** I just shiver thinking bout it being middle of the night and stepping over to the darkside..the moment my foot stepped of the curb I woulda dilibratly rooled my ankle or sum ****
Real **** I just shiver thinking bout it being middle of the night and stepping over to the darkside..the moment my foot stepped of the curb I woulda dilibratly rooled my ankle or sum ****
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The quote from the guy is ambiguous about this. He just said the guy kept following, but didn't say he followed them across the street. He also said he told his girlfriend to stay on one side of the street as he went to talk to the catcaller. He could've meant he told her to stay at one end of the street. But that would mean that they were at a far enough distance from the guy that they could've just kept it moving. Unless the guy was right next to them or immediately behind them, they should have kept it moving. Of course, if the catcaller was a couple steps behind them, then yeah, it's understandable.
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It's kinda ambiguous overall but they were clearly on the same street. He didn't cross to go confront him.
If he was close enough to both of them, maybe he was worried about both of them being attacked. He tried to get her away while he spoke to the guy. It wasn't the best move but in the heat of the moment, you're not gonna act perfectly. Especially in a weird situation like that. You can't really call the cops because a guy is following you in a sketchy neighborhood. I don't think this dude was trying to be a superhero or wanted to flex on a dude.
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They don't but no one in sf uses cabs anymore. I don't even understand why he was walking through the TL with his girlfriend at 4am? Bars close at 2. I know dude has Uber. There's no need to walk anymore. Dude thought he was in Paris.
That part ain't eeem that bad though....overall the the TL is the wild west. Still looks like The Taj Mahal from Jungle Fever
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Yeah and then you get stabbed 9 times
(or shot or beat the crap up) or maybe win and don't end up getting charged with assault. No hyperbole. Real life.I'm just saying a man shouldn't be letting his emotions make his decisions especially knee jerk reactions. Approach that **** with a rational mind and if you confident enough in yourself or got a weapon to punk a dude talking slick then make a move. This aint the past where dudes can have a dispute, fight it out and whoever loses would lose and that'd be the end of the story. Now a days wanting to be "manly" gets you killed.
FTR, only instinct I know about is self preservation. This aint a family man we talking about. Aint no "my yambs" or "your yambs" yambs is everywhere, up the block and/or around the corner. Can't be wasting no time on some stranger who you'll forget in minutes if not seconds.
If he kept it moving there wouldn't even be a thread. We'd have to wait until DC overheard some mailmen discussing this hypothetical situation while he was in line at the post office.
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Mayyyyyyyybeeee what really happened...he was trying to buy some dope right! Giggling...goes across the street n pulls a I got these cheeseburgers and I'll suck yo..... Then you kno what happns next.
ER-stabbed 9 times smh
What better excuse to use...he was catcallin my chick.
ER-stabbed 9 times smh
What better excuse to use...he was catcallin my chick.
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Yeah and then you get stabbed 9 times
I'm just saying a man shouldn't be letting his emotions make his decisions especially knee jerk reactions. Approach that **** with a rational mind and if you confident enough in yourself or got a weapon to punk a dude talking slick then make a move. This aint the past where dudes can have a dispute, fight it out and whoever loses would lose and that'd be the end of the story. Now a days wanting to be "manly" gets you killed.
FTR, only instinct I know about is self preservation. This aint a family man we talking about. Aint no "my yambs" or "your yambs" yambs is everywhere, up the block and/or around the corner. Can't be wasting no time on some stranger who you'll forget in minutes if not seconds.
If he kept it moving there wouldn't even be a thread. We'd have to wait until DC overheard some mailmen discussing this hypothetical situation while he was in line at the post office.
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Gotta pick your battles.
If you don't have a strap on you, or if you live in a state like New York where its arguably not worth the trouble that would come from defending yourself, just let it go. You got more to live for then they do and putting hands on them isn't going to teach them a lesson if their already screwed up.
Aside from that, while being strapped is a good trump card to have since allowed you to control the situation. Its probably not a warranted response to use a gun to respond to a cat caller unless they physically touch you though.
If you don't have a strap on you, or if you live in a state like New York where its arguably not worth the trouble that would come from defending yourself, just let it go. You got more to live for then they do and putting hands on them isn't going to teach them a lesson if their already screwed up.
Aside from that, while being strapped is a good trump card to have since allowed you to control the situation. Its probably not a warranted response to use a gun to respond to a cat caller unless they physically touch you though.
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Pick your battles/ be realistic. This ain't dbz, you aren't gonna get mad then all of a sudden have the power of 1000 suns. If you didn't know how to fight before, you won't know after
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I dont know why cats dont know how to play it cool and turn something like that into a compliment.
Seriously, how would you feel if NO ONE wanted you're girl?
Seriously, how would you feel if NO ONE wanted you're girl?
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finding someone attractive is fine. she's walking with her bf, why feel the need to make a comment loud enough for them to hear ? if you say something like props bro, you got a good looking girl or something along those lines it's fine. but if dude says something like, i wanna tap that etc., how can you just take that as a compliment and feel good about it ?
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Aint that what youre doing doe? Aint that why you even approached her?
Thats like wanting to fight someone because they said they'll drive the breaks off your Ferrari.
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tr1ll, if dude sees you holding hands with a girl or acting like a couple and think she's attractive, why make a comment loud enough for the guy to hear if its something disrespectful ? he can just think it and keep it to himself. i was at the mall once and as me and my gf walked by this dude said, do your thing playboy and give me a dap. this is an example of giving a compliment to the girl while respecting your presence.
i'm not a gangster or anything close by any means, but sometimes natural instincts kicks in and you'll just say something back to the person as a reflex.
i'm not a gangster or anything close by any means, but sometimes natural instincts kicks in and you'll just say something back to the person as a reflex.
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the problem here is that you care what he's saying. Keep it moving, what are you proving by standing there and arguing or getting into a physical altercation?
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