What are you thoughts on women that aren't affectionate?

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fdub

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Maybe it's just me, but i think it's a turn off. I mean, if the lady is not affectionate, wouldn't that mean she is flat out cold? To think outside the box, maybe it was just how she was raised? How do you guy here on NT (That are mature lol) feel about that?
 
Everybody is different. Doesn't necessarily mean she's cold.

I love affection though, I couldn't deal with that. Them snuggles lead to that morning wood getting polished nomsaiyan?
 
RIP sleazyy said:
Everybody is different. Doesn't necessarily mean she's cold.

I love affection though, I couldn't deal with that. Them snuggles lead to that morning wood getting polished nomsaiyan?
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This x100

I get pissed if I'm with my girl and we don't kiss

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Physical >
 
Usually she opens up when you break through the guard she's putting up and when you lay proper D. If she still frigid after that then nah.
 
I love my wifey to death, but am almost at the brink of ending it because she is a germaphobe that isn't affectionate ... So that means no kissing because of saliva ... :smh:

Thank you for this thread, I thought I was the only dating a chick like that.

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akuratl02 said:
I love my wifey to death, but am almost at the brink of ending it because she is a germaphobe that isn't affectionate ... So that means no kissing because of saliva ... :smh:

Thank you for this thread, I thought I was the only dating a chick like that.

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Kissing is a pretty nasty act when you break it down. But I understand why It would be an issue in a relationship.

I prefer women who are affectionate as well; some just aren't. Some hold back, while with some its just not part of their personality. Not all woman fit the stereotypical mold of femininity just like not all men fit the stereotypical mold of masculinity.
 
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Gotta find balance.

I'm good on kissing with tongue.

I'm also not huge on cuddling.

I need my space when I sleep for the most part.

Ex used to make me hold her sometimes smh.
 
Mangudai954 said:
Kissing is a pretty nasty act when you break it down. But I understand why It would be an issue in a relationship.

I prefer women who are affectionate as well, that not the case with all women. Some hold back while its just not part of their personality in other instances. Not all woman fit the stereotypical mold of femininity just like not all men fit the stereotypical mold of masculinity.
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Agreed fully with the whole post .... But ****, nothing like a chick grabbing the dragon while kissing .... Automatic fire starter :smokin
 
My last chick was like that straight was lacking in that department was a huge turn off like how are you going to snuggle up with that booty on me and not let me slide in and when i addressed it she always had an excuse about how her old boyfriend used to do her and i mean thats cool and all and understandable but if my actions are going to be related back to what you old ***** used to do then your not ready to move on
 
akuratl02 said:
I love my wifey to death, but am almost at the brink of ending it because she is a germaphobe that isn't affectionate ... So that means no kissing because of saliva ... :smh:Thank you for this thread, I thought I was the only dating a chick like that.

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A girl that doesn't like to Tongue kissing is a deal breaker to me! I know this might be a bit harsh, but if it's a lady I have interest in and I come to find out that she doesn't like to kiss, I would not be dating/being in a relationship with her. Cold, but it is, what it is..
 
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had a fling a few years back who was just NOT into cuddling at all.  Sex was amazing, passionate kisser, etc. but once it was done she did not want any parts of being touched.  She went to her side of the bed and that was that. 
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 Threw me off the first few times. 
 
I'm having the same issue, although i brought on to myself, got caught with my old Facebook open 
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 This was two years ago and still feeling the affects from that deal. But we been together almost 10 years, i have been trying to find a way to break that barrier down, trust is lost i guess. She has her moments where we get back to the old us but overall it just isn't the same. 
 
Hell nah b. Run! Non affectionate women is like wifing r2d2. Its the worst. I was with this valdictorian/ basketball playing/ dime piece.
Trophy broad, but that chick was hollow. Not shallow, hollow *****. No insides. I midas well be going out wit a dead body man.
You don't know how to treat a *****, ma? **** I gotta do, put some money on ya paypal so you ca download some cot damn emotions?
***** really had a battery in her back son, literally. Like, where you come from forreal. But yea, thats a no go.
 
KingofNE said:
 
I'm having the same issue, although i brought on to myself, got caught with my old Facebook open 
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 This was two years ago and still feeling the affects from that deal. But we been together almost 10 years, i have been trying to find a way to break that barrier down, trust is lost i guess. She has her moments where we get back to the old us but overall it just isn't the same. 
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breh...she been giving you the cold shoulder for two years? This does not sound like an ideal situation at all. 
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DH1Water said:
 
breh...she been giving you the cold shoulder for two years? This does not sound like an ideal situation at all. 
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not exactly like that, just saying it isn't what it used to be. Plus our work schedules and kids get in the way as well. 
 
I'm affectionate and thankfully my girl is too. Couldn't imagine it any other way
 
FDUB said:
A girl that doesn't like to Tongue kissing is a deal breaker to me! I know this might be a bit harsh, but if it's a lady I have interest in and I come to find out that she doesn't like to kiss, I would not be dating/being in a relationship with her. Cold, but it is, what it is..
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******* thread is taking all my reps .... Word.

I can't believe this thread is so mature .... You know we all flirt with chics on the side, well when I tell them that she doesn't, they start laughing and ask how am I still with her. It's difficult, because she has everything else, but the affection department was something that I thought may develop more so over time ....

We was all chilling last week with her family and her cousin saw her give me a tap kiss and she said "give him a real kiss, that's your man" ... my girls tells her "you know I am not into kissing" ... Her cousin "WHAT! so how do ya'll get it started" .... Me |I

I really don't want to end it based on this affectionate **** though, it will be sad.
 
DH1Water said:
had a fling a few years back who was just NOT into cuddling at all.  Sex was amazing, passionate kisser, etc. but once it was done she did not want any parts of being touched.  She went to her side of the bed and that was that. :lol:  Threw me off the first few times. 
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I'm so jealous of you and your good sex!!! I swear lol
 
akuratl02 said:
DH1Water said:
had a fling a few years back who was just NOT into cuddling at all.  Sex was amazing, passionate kisser, etc. but once it was done she did not want any parts of being touched.  She went to her side of the bed and that was that. :lol:  Threw me off the first few times. 
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I'm so jealous of you and your good sex!!! I swear lol
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Bad sex that doesn't improve is an absolute deal breaker
 
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