What are you thoughts on women that aren't affectionate?

KingKoopa said:
Gotta find balance.

I'm good on kissing with tongue.

I'm also not huge on cuddling.

I need my space when I sleep for the most part.

Ex used to make me hold her sometimes smh.
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this.
 
akuratl02 said:
I love my wifey to death, but am almost at the brink of ending it because she is a germaphobe that isn't affectionate ... So that means no kissing because of saliva ...
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Thank you for this thread, I thought I was the only dating a chick like that.

Repped OP
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Through them in the bushes unless she's a friends with benefit type thing

Hard or too serious women are wack. I need a women who gets giddy when she sees me. I'm not too affectionate myself so I need that kind of attention constantly.
 
As long as she was born a female, looks good, etc. she's getting smashed. I'm not particularly big on kissing anyway, it's sort of take it or leave it with me. Cuddling isn't a must either, especially post-coitus.

Being non-affectionate can be a plus at times in a relationship and is something I could deal with. Doesn't necessarily mean she's cold OP.
360waves said:
I would want an affectionate mother to my children.
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This is a good point and important for a family though.
KingofNE said:
I'm having the same issue, although i brought on to myself, got caught with my old Facebook open :smh:  This was two years ago and still feeling the affects from that deal. But we been together almost 10 years, i have been trying to find a way to break that barrier down, trust is lost i guess. She has her moments where we get back to the old us but overall it just isn't the same. 
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10 years? and for the past 2 she basically shut you down and it hasn't been the same? May be time to cancel that. If the trust is gone, it's gone. If you can't recapture it or make it better than it was before doesn't make sense to just be together out of routine.
DonRe said:
Through them in the bushes unless she's a friends with benefit type thing

Hard or too serious women are wack. I need a women who gets giddy when she sees me. I'm not too affectionate myself so I need that kind of attention constantly.
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Pull ya skirt down b.

You basically sound like you want to be put on the pedestal :lol:
 
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if shes my girl she gotta atleast show me some love

if shes a friend or side chick idgaf
 
@Master Zik
Good points, but there are legit reasons as to why, I work 14 hours a day, well night, i work nights, she works days, 12 hour days, our careers have also been in the way to be able to get that connection back. Also with two kids it just makes it difficult to connect like we used to. We are both so busy with our work and kids that it is hard to find the time to connect like that again. Then you throw in my screw ups and the broken trust. just makes it that much harder. We get along great, have great conversation, everything is good she just is not as affectionate as she once was. She is also become very insecure about her body from having kids, so it's a bunch of variables as to why it is this way right now.
 
I think it's very few people born who are just cold 24/7.  Those are sociopaths.

With my GF for example she used to be kind of closed off and now she hate when I gotta go (whether that mean leave the skype call or when I'm with her and I wanna go visit my friends in the same city)

Just need to break down the walls some times.
 
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Going through this BS right now, actually. Shorty will sometimes not respond to my texts in a timely manner. To maker herself seem not thirsty or super busy.

:rolleyes
 
DipsetGeneral said:
Going through this BS right now, actually. Shorty will sometimes not respond to my texts in a timely manner. To maker herself seem not thirsty or super busy.

:rolleyes
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Brah it ain't that bad, don't be the dude expecting texts back every 15 or 30 minutes. Gotta have the mindset do you and then she will respond eventually. In a LDR right now and it's so tough, sometimes got days me and my girl can't text for like 7-8 hours but that's life. Like I say... I'll see you when I see you :smh:

LIONBLOOD said:
KingKoopa said:
Gotta find balance.


I'm good on kissing with tongue.


I'm also not huge on cuddling.


I need my space when I sleep for the most part.


Ex used to make me hold her sometimes smh.
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I had to really train myself to be ok with sleeping with someone else in my bed. :lol: How the hell is this little woman taking up 3/4 of my king sized bed, leaving my big ***** on the edge of the bed.
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My situation, when me and my girl sleep together we are always on a damn twin sized bed. I'll hold her for a bit and try to fall asleep, if not, ill turn around and she knows I face that wall I want nothing to do with her :lol:

Definitely an acquired skill.
 
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Offset POW CLOW said:
Aint no limits to savage life

No f's given when you in the moment :pimp:
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Dont know how yal brothas do it. Even if ma just get out the shower...
My brain cant even link the two parts ( mouf 2 butt) together. That part of the body is for waste tho.
Im sure chix get turned up/out/on wit it, since it an untouched/ infrequently touched place, but still...

Do yall eat in the bathroom??
 
KingofNE said:
@Master Zik


Good points, but there are legit reasons as to why, I work 14 hours a day, well night, i work nights, she works days, 12 hour days, our careers have also been in the way to be able to get that connection back. Also with two kids it just makes it difficult to connect like we used to. We are both so busy with our work and kids that it is hard to find the time to connect like that again. Then you throw in my screw ups and the broken trust. just makes it that much harder. We get along great, have great conversation, everything is good she just is not as affectionate as she once was. She is also become very insecure about her body from having kids, so it's a bunch of variables as to why it is this way right now.
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Well I can understand a bit more given this situation but if you can still sense she's feeling some type of way like that spark of being together has diminished due to w/e you did on FB to lose her trust you gotta address that. Cuz when a woman's fed up.... you know the rest. I mean you add on work, kids, etc. that'll wear both of you down it makes thing tough. You need to find out when she got a day off, take the day off yourself, get the kids a sitter/drop em off by ya mom's house and try your best to fix that problem. Ksteezy da butt all day if you have to.

Don Adidada said:
I think it's very few people born who are just cold 24/7.  Those are sociopaths.
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Well even they're smart enough to adopt normal behavior and for those they care for a.k.a. obsess over/grow attached too they'll even try a bit harder and actually make an effort to feign emotion and empathy. If that don't work they'll probably kill you/ruin your life. To ppl they don't care about they'll just be labeled as antisocial or introverts :lol:
DipsetGeneral said:
Going through this BS right now, actually. Shorty will sometimes not respond to my texts in a timely manner. To maker herself seem not thirsty or super busy.

:rolleyes
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That don't got nothing to do with affection Dipset. She's just being any ol attention ho, probably getting impaled by Tyrone.
 
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HTG Designs said:
Dont know how yal brothas do it. Even if ma just get out the shower...
My brain cant even link the two parts ( mouf 2 butt) together. That part of the body is for waste tho.
Im sure chix get turned up/out/on wit it, since it an untouched/ infrequently touched place, but still...

Do yall eat in the bathroom??
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Man eat the booty with a cold tongue

You the real mvp im telling you :pimp:
 
Master Zik said:
Well I can understand a bit more given this situation but if you can still sense she's feeling some type of way like that spark of being together has diminished due to w/e you did on FB to lose her trust you gotta address that. Cuz when a woman's fed up.... you know the rest. I mean you add on work, kids, etc. that'll wear both of you down it makes thing tough. You need to find out when she got a day off, take the day off yourself, get the kids a sitter/drop em off by ya mom's house and try your best to fix that problem. Ksteezy da butt all day if you have to
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I feel you on the work grind, makes it crazy hard. We bout to get to the bottom of this Saturday, both got it off, first Saturday off in Months. bout to go down 
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 We will get through it. Thanks for the feedback man. 
 
If she isn't affectionate at least when it's just us then it's not gonna work.
I'm not gonna be trying to persuade chicks to sit closer and snatching reluctant hugs. I'm pretty distant already. If a woman doesn't act like she wants to be around I'm going to drift away pretty fast.
 
Kind of in the same situation now...

But it's weird because when she wants to cuddle, I'm busy or want to be left alone..and vice versa
 
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