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So no extra mouth fluids when she does it. Dry head
What are you thoughts on women that aren't affectionate?
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It wouldn't last for me
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Lol x2
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Prideful women are like this... or if you dont hit them back up, they dont wanna hit you up for fear of rejection.Going through this BS right now, actually. Shorty will sometimes not respond to my texts in a timely manner. To maker herself seem not thirsty or super busy.
But let them hit you up and you not reply, theyll be mad as ****
All true. And theyre the worst! Steer clear of them trust.
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i dont mess with chicks who arent into affection. i also dont mess with chicks who arent freaks. i need both
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If we're just having sex, then I prefer that.
But if I'm gonna be committed to you and eventually start a family down the road, [Future] I need love and affection [/Future]
But if I'm gonna be committed to you and eventually start a family down the road, [Future] I need love and affection [/Future]
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Daddy issues
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Actually now that I think about it the only thing I can relate to when I think of this one past experience was this chick who was really standoffish about affection and touching. Like she wanted to have sex at times where the only thing touching was genitals. Didn't work as a relationship but she wanted FWB.
The main thing I'd have issue with is you know right when you get your nut and you just want to get a few more strokes in to get it all out and lay up in it for a minute just to enjoy that feeling after you done? She was not having that at all. She'd be ready to push me off once she thought I was done or once she got hers One time hopped off me and I was spraying everywhere :x No types of touching let alone cuddling was allowed with her I didn't mind but after awhile I just assumed she must've been abused or something when she was young cuz she'd immediately want to bounce when it was over. The definition of hit it and quit it.
The main thing I'd have issue with is you know right when you get your nut and you just want to get a few more strokes in to get it all out and lay up in it for a minute just to enjoy that feeling after you done? She was not having that at all. She'd be ready to push me off once she thought I was done or once she got hers
One time hopped off me and I was spraying everywhere :x No types of touching let alone cuddling was allowed with her I didn't mind but after awhile I just assumed she must've been abused or something when she was young cuz she'd immediately want to bounce when it was over. The definition of hit it and quit it.
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^^ went throught it twice.
first time... I just said okay I'll show affection and this person will change or so I thought. Didn't work out like that...
.. The last girl I was with didn't like affection at all.... She didn't like sucking my d
.... She wasn't good at it to begin with... Didn't like to be touched or hugged after we finished chick was cold AF... So I was even colder to her....
i didnt like it at all... Wasn't into her much so didn't care much which I why I was able to be cold to her..
couldn't have a ltr with a person like that....
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first time... I just said okay I'll show affection and this person will change or so I thought. Didn't work out like that...
.. The last girl I was with didn't like affection at all.... She didn't like sucking my d
.... She wasn't good at it to begin with... Didn't like to be touched or hugged after we finished chick was cold AF... So I was even colder to her....
i didnt like it at all... Wasn't into her much so didn't care much which I why I was able to be cold to her..
couldn't have a ltr with a person like that....
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Man, some chicks are SUPER cold..smdhActually now that I think about it the only thing I can relate to when I think of this one past experience was this chick who was really standoffish about affection and touching. Like she wanted to have sex at times where the only thing touching was genitals. Didn't work as a relationship but she wanted FWB.
The main thing I'd have issue with is you know right when you get your nut and you just want to get a few more strokes in to get it all out and lay up in it for a minute just to enjoy that feeling after you done? She was not having that at all. She'd be ready to push me off once she thought I was done or once she got hers
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This just seems mad awkward.....
I actually prefer women that aren't all that affectionate. I have a FWB that legitimately HATES hugging people and cuddling after sex.
It's awesome for me because I don't really like cuddling or being all that emotional. When she comes over for movies, I give her some pillows and she watches the movie on her side of the bed and I watch it on my side. I have a king size bed so you can imagine the gap between us. When we have gone out, you won't see us holding hands or anything of that nature. Honestly, I'm not good at all that affectionate stuff.
I like the set up her and I have because it is some amazing sex and there aren't really all these cuddling and emotional needs required.
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Really all that needs to be said.
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Crazy thing is she was a good kisserMan, some chicks are SUPER cold..smdhActually now that I think about it the only thing I can relate to when I think of this one past experience was this chick who was really standoffish about affection and touching. Like she wanted to have sex at times where the only thing touching was genitals. Didn't work as a relationship but she wanted FWB.
The main thing I'd have issue with is you know right when you get your nut and you just want to get a few more strokes in to get it all out and lay up in it for a minute just to enjoy that feeling after you done? She was not having that at all. She'd be ready to push me off once she thought I was done or once she got hers
and that would have you fooled in to thinking she was really passionate. Nah, all lust with her.I use to think separate twin beds for married couples was weird but for some it works and just makes sense.I actually prefer women that aren't all that affectionate. I have a FWB that legitimately HATES hugging people and cuddling after sex.
It's awesome for me because I don't really like cuddling or being all that emotional. When she comes over for movies, I give her some pillows and she watches the movie on her side of the bed and I watch it on my side. I have a king size bed so you can imagine the gap between us
I like the set up her and I have because it is some amazing sex and there aren't really all these cuddling and emotional needs required.
This just seems mad awkward.....
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not that uncommon bro. my parents have been married happily for the past 40 years and have had seperate bedrooms for the past 10 years or so....Crazy thing is she was a good kisserand that would have you fooled in to thinking she was really passionate. Nah, all lust with her.
I use to think separate twin beds for married couples was weird but for some it works and just makes sense.
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Most of the time it stems from their parent's relationship
One of my exes had issues expressing her emotions
She was affectionate in the kissing // touching aspect but the verbal aspect was difficult for her
She grew up without her mother and her father was not an emotional guy so that explained everything to me
One of my exes had issues expressing her emotions
She was affectionate in the kissing // touching aspect but the verbal aspect was difficult for her
She grew up without her mother and her father was not an emotional guy so that explained everything to me
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I require a lot of attention or I get disinterested, so if it's my gf, I want her to be affectionate. if it's not a gf, then it doesn't matter.
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I was talking specifically when I'd see those black and white 50s shows and movies and the married couple has twins. It use to have me thinking what the ****?not that uncommon bro. my parents have been married happily for the past 40 years and have had seperate bedrooms for the past 10 years or so....Crazy thing is she was a good kisser
I use to think separate twin beds for married couples was weird but for some it works and just makes sense.
Are all these dudes gay and just have families as beards?
I'm sorry but this **** sounds so funny to me
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Are Tyrone jokes still allowed?
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I knew my girl was the one when after I nutted I didn't hate her guts. I don't like all that affection for real and only initiated when I wanted sex. But with wifey its different. We spoon, kiss, touch, sloppy messy head for both parties, and I eat DA butt. I legit love this girl man. I cheated on every girl I ever had cuz that's all I saw growing up, my married pops taking me over all his Jo/ side ******* cribs. She knows my pops and knows how I was brought up and sat me down and told me she wanna work wit me to help my infidelity bros. Real trooper and I jus love grabbing her by the mass n sticking my tongue down her throat. Almost 5 years and a kid I just know its time to get my **** together man
No more cheating, no more even entertaining these ****, I see it's some cold females out here
No more cheating, no more even entertaining these ****, I see it's some cold females out here
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When she said she wanna work with your infidelity did that lead to 3sums?
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Had an overly affectionate doormat and she pissed me off more often than not. There wasn't any substance, she was just an emotion machine. So I felt I needed the opposite, someone headstrong to challenge me, that ***** just pissed me off too.
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Yeah the best combo is affectionate but still independent/strong. Wants you but doesn't need you.
My girl is very affectionate when we're together but she doesn't want constant contact when we're not
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yea, when they are overly attached (especially early on in whatever form of relationship we have) it tends to lead me to losing interest asap. fine line i suppose, b
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This.
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maybe theyre not interested in you or growing up they weren't giving affection so they don't know how to display. which is y u smash and go. if they don't display any affection for you, what makes you think they will give any affection to youre kids