Would you go to a club/bar alone?

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Just having this convo with my boy. Apparently he was supposed to meet up with some girl at a club last night but she never showed up. Long story short, he still stayed at said club even though the girl was a no show. Me personally I would have dipped.

Unless I was new to an area and tryna meet new people, I can't see myself going to a club by myself. Aint tryna look like a looser in front of a crowd
 
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No to club, but no one would even notice , too much going on. Smh at that last line.
 
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I've done both. it's not too fun, unless there's a dancefloor, then you can have some drinks and have fun.
 
You're that worried about what strangers think of you, OP? Damn shame.

Clubs are boring by yourself. Bars are another story.
 
You got it twisted, bruh. You'll only look like a loser if you're just sitting there in the corner sipping your drink, on your phone, being anti-social e.g. 25% of girls who go out :smh:. I prefer to go dolo to bars when I'm on the prowl for P; the rush of going after multiple bitties and not having to worry about lame friends is :smokin. I usually chat up the guys there first and ask how the skins are looking to warm up and find a social group, which is great, when girls ask who I'm with. Then, find my target and socialize with her group and see if she's about that life :evil:. This keeps the night focused on me. I can dip out whenever I want, meet new peeps, and it beats standing around bored all night looking at my boys who don't approach girls, get them on the dance floor, or try to smash em :stoneface: Going dolo works out great if you're generally outgoing/ extraverted, new in town, gives no dambs, etc.

Truth-Serum said:
Just having this convo with my boy. Apparently he was supposed to meet up with some girl at a club last night but she never showed up. Long story short, he still stayed at said club even though the girl was a no show. Me personally I would have dipped.

Unless I was new to an area and tryna meet new people, I can't see myself going to a club by myself. Aint tryna look like a looser in front of a crowd
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I went to a bar alone to watch a game and ended up sitting and drinking with a girl that was there until we both rolled out. It was cool.

Club.. I wouldn't eem go to a club so eh.
 
RIP sleazyy said:
I went to a bar alone to watch a game and ended up sitting and drinking with a girl that was there until we both rolled out. It was cool.

Club.. I wouldn't eem go to a club so eh.
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I wanna do this but most of my neighborhood bars are filled with neck bones.
 
Of course .. I don't need someone to accompany me every where I go ... Wtf do u go to a club ? I mean I go to dance drink and enjoy my night .. I can do that with a friend or by myself .. Plus I'm not cheap so that help gets girl around me then I don't have to worry about their friends liking my friends .. Its just that one girl and me if we click we out ...

But o can understand if u the one with 6 dude to one bottle .. I'm just not that dude .. Even with just my wife we buy two bottles and end up drinking half and inviting cool people around us to drink and just bug out ... Its not that serious and people ain't looking at you cause you are no body but another person in the club ...
 
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Don't get it twisted fam. We all have that innate fear of people looking at us and judging us
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Word.  I think that's just a part of human nature.  But there's levels to that fear, IMO.

If I wanted to do something or go somewhere, there's no way that what strangers may/may not think about me is going to stop me from doing what I want.  

Hell, I've learned that I'm not important enough to have strangers give a single **** about what I'm doing.  
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  Nobody is really paying attention even though we think they are.  
 
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Truth-Serum said:
Don't get it twisted fam. We all have that innate fear of people looking at us and judging us
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Word.  I think that's just a part of human nature.  But there's levels to that fear, IMO.

If I wanted to do something or go somewhere, there's no way that what strangers may/may not think about me is going to stop me from doing what I want.  

Hell, I've learned that I'm not important enough to have strangers give a single **** about what I'm doing.  :lol:   Nobody is really paying attention even though we think they are.  
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I realized that at a pool party in Vegas. People just wanna get drunk have fun and ****.
 
superblyTRIFE said:
Word.  I think that's just a part of human nature.  But there's levels to that fear, IMO.

If I wanted to do something or go somewhere, there's no way that what strangers may/may not think about me is going to stop me from doing what I want.  

Hell, I've learned that I'm not important enough to have strangers give a single **** about what I'm doing.  :lol:   Nobody is really paying attention even though we think they are.  
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but most importantly .. If they are? Who gives a ****? They are just as unimportant ...
 
I sometimes go to the bars or lounges downstairs if I'm staying in a hotel alone... I don't think it's a huge deal to be honest.
 
The only time to go to a club alone is if you go to serve some clientele and ONLY if you go with the blickie
 
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PatentBoy23 said:
You got it twisted, bruh. You'll only look like a loser if you're just sitting there in the corner sipping your drink, on your phone, being anti-social e.g. 25% of girls who go out :smh:. I prefer to go dolo to bars when I'm on the prowl for P; the rush of going after multiple bitties and not having to worry about lame friends is :smokin. I usually chat up the guys there first and ask how the skins are looking to warm up and find a social group, which is great, when girls ask who I'm with. Then, find my target and socialize with her group and see if she's about that life :evil:. This keeps the night focused on me. I can dip out whenever I want, meet new peeps, and it beats standing around bored all night looking at my boys who don't approach girls, get them on the dance floor, or try to smash em :stoneface: Going dolo works out great if you're generally outgoing/ extraverted, new in town, gives no dambs, etc.
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My man knows whats up!
 
i went solo to a bar when i was in sf for work, had a good time actually. ended up talking to the girl right next to me and had good conversation of things to do in the city
 
Went to the club alone on Friday. Froze up when it was time to make my move on a few yambs. Eminem's Lose Yourself was on repeat the next day. :smh:
New Year's Day is when I redeem myself.
 
Never saw the problem with going to a bar, out to eat, the movies, etc. alone.  Also never understood why people were so timid to do these things alone.  If it's your scene or you want to go for whatever reason, just go.  I've been to bars solo countless times, and you always end up finding someone to socialize with for the time you're there, be it a new chick, the bartender, an old man watching the same game as you...it's always someone.  It can be a good time.
 
DH1Water said:
Never saw the problem with going to a bar, out to eat, the movies, etc. alone.  Also never understood why people were so timid to do these things alone.  If it's your scene or you want to go for whatever reason, just go.  I've been to bars solo countless times, and you always end up finding someone to socialize with for the time you're there, be it a new chick, the bartender, an old man watching the same game as you...it's always someone.  It can be a good time.
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This, at times it's more social than when you're with your people. The last time I did that I ended up meeting some of Tessane Chin's crew.
 
There was this creepy dude at this bar who would always come dolo and just dance by himself with the most intense passion, he would command the floor each time but dude was strange as hell...but I guess he was enjoying himself so who's to say
 
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