Would you go to a club/bar alone?

Went to the club alone on Friday. Froze up when it was time to make my move on a few yambs. Eminem's Lose Yourself was on repeat the next day. :smh:
New Year's Day is when I redeem myself.
Went to the club one deep tonight...
Had the time of my life. I FLOURISHED (all caps for emphasis). Got a thick yamb possibly lined up for tomorrow. :pimp:

Two quotes I wanna leave y'all with:
"BElieve in YOUrself."
"Once you realize you're not as important as you perceive yourself to be, that's when you can truly flourish." - I created this one :pimp:
 
Never liked clubs even though I used to go at least once a week. I would hit a bar solo but not a club. Don't really care to ever hit a club again to be honest.
 
Never liked clubs even though I used to go at least once a week. I would hit a bar solo but not a club. Don't really care to ever hit a club again to be honest.

I stop going to clubs regularly at around 25 and all together at 27. The music changed for me and I can't get jiggy with **** they play these days

Bars/ lounge with good music is where its at
 
The ability to go anywhere by yourself at any given time is really slept on IMO. Until recently I didn't realize
most people prefer to do things with large groups of people, almost all the time. The best thing I even did
was venture out and experience life on my time. Once you do that a club, bar, whatever is nothing but a huge
social setting with so many variables it doesn't even matter. People are so worried about what other people
think about them they are rarely paying attention to you.
 
I stopped ******* with clubs when I got charged $20 twice.....and I was still outside :stoneface:

Bars is a field day solo. Clubs are for people with friends.
 
When I moved to Memphis by myself I learned the art of pilling the Solo Move to a club or bar.
Actually wasnt a even an issue picking up yambs either. Hitting a bar was even easier. Ended up meeting homies as well as yambs out there during solo moves.

I don't really get out by myself anymore now that I'm in a city that I know folks already, but when I do pull a solo mission it's a bit liberating to just get up and go and operate on my own terms. You'd be amazed how easy socializing is afterward.

I will say though, I was always weary about hitting the club as since I was solo, if ish got real then I wouldnt have any backup.
 
Yeah dudes are just scared. I'd like to see how they fare in a new city by themselves, probably become hermits.
 
Went to the club one deep tonight...
Had the time of my life. I FLOURISHED (all caps for emphasis). Got a thick yamb possibly lined up for tomorrow. :pimp:

Two quotes I wanna leave y'all with:
"BElieve in YOUrself."
"Once you realize you're not as important as you perceive yourself to be, that's when you can truly flourish." - I created this one :pimp:


Did you just quote yourself?
No wonder why you go to clubs alone.
 
Trying to get my mind right because this may be going down tonight if my boy cats on me. Almost wanna say I'm looking forward to the adventure, but then again it's cool to have a wingman... Will report back if I roll solo.....
 
Trying to get my mind right because this may be going down tonight if my boy cats on me. Almost wanna say I'm looking forward to the adventure, but then again it's cool to have a wingman... Will report back if I roll solo.....
I moved 1400 miles from home a month ago and don't know a single sole. Tonight will be solo dolo.
 
I could see going to the bar alone easily. I thought about going to the club alone but figured it'd be too awkward.
 
I could see going to the bar alone easily. I thought about going to the club alone but figured it'd be too awkward.

Bars would be awkward for me since I don't drink. I feel you have to have a drink in your hand at all times in a bar. Imo it's like going to a skate park without a board.

Dance clubs I can get away with cause there's dancing.
 
I could see going to the bar alone easily. I thought about going to the club alone but figured it'd be too awkward.

Bars would be awkward for me since I don't drink. I feel you have to have a drink in your hand at all times in a bar. Imo it's like going to a skate park without a board.

Dance clubs I can get away with cause there's dancing.
just order a club soda with a lime wedge.
 
I stopped ******* with clubs when I got charged $20 twice.....and I was still outside
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Bars is a field day solo. Clubs are for people with friends.
wtf smh.. 

ive been kicked outta the same club 3 times before.. place was a mess.. our group got the boot out the back for a scuffle, walked back inside the front like nothin.. 
 
Word.  I think that's just a part of human nature.  But there's levels to that fear, IMO.

If I wanted to do something or go somewhere, there's no way that what strangers may/may not think about me is going to stop me from doing what I want.  

Hell, I've learned that I'm not important enough to have strangers give a single **** about what I'm doing.  :lol:   Nobody is really paying attention even though we think they are.  
realest **** people may not realize :nerd:
 
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