NT Call me bitter but now i know why a woman would cheat or go bad

:lol: Damn you're really not having a happy holidays.

Is this thread spurred on by that same "boyfriend" that had you make the last thread? :lol: :smh:

Anyway, I still think you have a penis and are lying for the most part until proven otherwise.
 
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Nothing but Ls all around in this thread.

SMH at dudes still posting when OP refuses to post a pic

OP is gonna end up battered or dead in the nightly news if she thinks she can play the "bad boy" game and get away with it talking bout lining up dudes as reserves on the side. A lot of guys will not take that lightly when they find out.


In parting OP. YOU ARE THE COMPANY YOU KEEP.
 
NT females are always comical. They come to the forum knowing its male oriented spewing feminine rhetoric about how guys are x y and z, then after a week or so, they bounce.

You say you're 26, and if you're just learning that men can be this way, let me go ahead and give you some advice. Strap yourself in babe; you're in for one hell of a ride.

What you need to realize is that you're doing yourself a disservice for thinking on such a mediocre scale. you ought to realize that people are self serving. Men and women. Every person experiences some sort of pain at the behest of another person. Your story is hardly any different from anyone else's.

Instead of embittering yourself, you ought to explore who you are, learn what you want. When you come across someone, you'll be better able to determine if they are in keeping with the things you want. It's not going to be a guarantee that you never experience pain, but you'd be better off than you are now.

Make sure a person is worth your time, because that is the only thing a person ever truly has in this life. Make someone earn it.

Post your picture.
 
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JohnnyRedStorm said:
i hope not. op pm me tagged pics of the box. thanks.
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You ain't gotta lie on the Niketalk forum, bruh.
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Is it possible that this is somewhat OP's fault? She seems to be attracted to a certain type of guy ("douchebag"), but then rants about it and continues along the same path.

So yes, there is some bitterness there, but I wouldn't wish the old cat lady lifestyle on any female.
 
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What were the red flags that came with the guys you dated? 
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They were all extremely insecure. Very bitter about women who'd done them wrong.

One to the point where I couldn't go 5 minutes without responding to his texts. He never went off on me. Just explained how much it bothered him. Respectively. I ended it soon after.

The last one was more evasive but also had a way of demeaning me. I guess, another form of insecurity. He wanted to prove that he was smarter. He just had a way of correcting me.

The last one was more obvious in cheating. Lied about dropping his mom off at the metro. It was closed that day.  I saw St. Ives lotion in his bathroom. He is incredibly white so the lotion, IDK. Also , St. Ives is a feminine brand. When I brought it up, he got defensive , made up some story to try and cover himself . Then got defensive , called me dramatic, the works.  We got into an argument a few weeks later, broke up. A week or so later, I see him with this girl, like in love with him based on their interaction.

There was a point where we reunited. I wanted to come over to see him . Like hookup. I asked spur of the moment . This was months before breaking up and he kept asking if I could do it some other time. RED FLAG.
 
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Since Op didn't post pics I don't care about (her)allegedly.... problems. Especially on Christmas. Heck no!!!
 
Kellyrep said:
 
They were all extremely insecure. Very bitter about women who'd done them wrong.

One to the point where I couldn't go 5 minutes without responding to his texts. He never went off on me. Just explained how much it bothered him. Respectively. I ended it soon after.

The last one was more evasive but also had a way of demeaning me. I guess, another form of insecurity. He wanted to prove that he was smarter. He just had a way of correcting me.

The last one was more obvious in cheating. Lied about dropping his mom off at the metro. It was closed that day.  I saw St. Ives lotion in his bathroom. He is incredibly white so the lotion, IDK. Also , St. Ives is a feminine brand. When I brought it up, he got defensive , made up some story to try and cover himself . Then got defensive , called me dramatic, the works.  We got into an argument a few weeks later, broke up. A week or so later, I see him with this girl, like in love with him by their interaction.

Theere was a point where we reunited. I wanted to come over to see him . Like hookup. I asked spur of the moment  months before and he kept asking if I could do it some other time. RED FLAG.
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Do you have any insecurities that couldve effected past relationships
 
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Do you have any insecurities that couldve effected past relationships
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I entered every single one of those relationships with arms wide open. I did not question or accuse anything until I was given reason to. I lost my virginity to  the last person I dated so I was very clingy. I was more afraid of losing him then the others. In that relationship, I was insecure but he initiated it. Also, it's not like he didn't know I was a virgin. He's probably the only one I can say I loved while I just cared for the others.

I have an attraction to broken men. :frown:
 
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You're 26 years old thinking like this? Its not too late I suppose, but you really don't want to be one of those 30 somethin year old women who's bitter. Its not a good look at all. Stay true to yourself, and accept responsibility of the things that happen to you over and over if you're the common denominator.
 
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I know I'll get some good advice here so let me go.

I've always been the good girl. Went to church twice a week and I lived doing the right thing. Not once in my life have I ever led a man on or lied to him. I was either home, at school, with my family or friends, or I was with him. I'm also not a superficial broad. I wanted smart men over athletic. I chose family oriented over other types. Honestly and truly. I also waited in choosing them to see that they were that way. I'm 26 and have dated only 4 men. Had a long term relationship with one and was intimate with one.  I waited until I was an adult to start seeing men.

The things that ended those relationships were lies.  Smart men do cheat and just because a man looks after his mother and takes care of her doesn't mean that he will be faithful. I've had men I loved look me in the face and tell me boldfaced lies when I knew the truth. Even when I told them I knew. They would even lie to the point of twisting things around on me. Again, not superficial but I'm athletic, in shape, and I'm a pretty girl. I'm not risqué but I think of myself as sexy. I've dated overweight, nerdy, and shy. That's what I chose.

I'm not saying I would sleep with multiple men at once. I'm just never going to have eyes for one again.  I'm just going to always be that person with someone else lined up.  It's too much time and energy wasted in the end to be alone and feeling the way that I do. It's  really hard to care at this point when you see men as threats. Instead of feeling protected and safe, you feel like they have everything it takes to hurt you.


And this isn't  the time for  jokes. Idk. Maybe it is. I'm feeling some kind of way.



I'm not posting a picture.
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LOCK IT UP!
 
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Guys , thanks for the advice. Like I said, it was just holiday blues. I feel much better.

I don't have the heart do what was done to me. Nonetheless, I understand people who GO bad. You get hurt bad enough, it makes me you question everything. Thanks again.
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I don't know if I have ever been cheated on because girls are good at covering their tracks but I had one ex who I strongly suspected. It's normal to be angry and bitter afterwards and maybe even feel a little bit of resentment for the opposite sex. At some point for your sake and no one else you have to let it go. Carrying around those negative feelings changes you for the worse and as a human being and you have decide what kind of person you want to be. I know a lot of people who cheat and the worst reason to cheat is because you have been hurt in previous relationships. Putting a new person through the kind of pain that made you suffer is completely unfair and it makes you just as bad as the people who hurt you. There good people who are honest and won't cheat. You just have to be patient.
 
i have an attraction to broken men
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Or maybe broken men have an attraction to you.
Tryin to fix these dudes wen you should be tryin to fix yoself.

26 years and only 1 real relationship Talkin bout you know why women cheat or go bad.

Ouchea ventin on jesus birthday rip.
 
Secure dudes wouldn't commit to a dude like kelly though.

So I guess being a ho is the only path left.
 
It seems that shawty's selection in men is terrible. I have the feeling she isn't as good looking as she claims, tho.
 
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