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In the unlikely event that were to happen I would just have a bachelor party. No sense in staying home worrying about what she is doing. Go out with your guys for one last huzzah
Are Bachelor/ ette Parties Hypocritical?
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So going out with your boys and worrying about it is better?
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i trust my fiancee/soon-to-be-wife or i wouldnt marry her. my attitude towards cheating or things like that is... i hope she does it sooner than later if she does it at all. so if shes gonna while out and grab all the meat she can see...great! do it at the bachelorette party and save me the heartache of finding out shes a garden tool 5 years into the marriage. go head and get dancing beared up so i dont have to wonder why her and her coworker Bob keep giving each other that look at the christmas party.
but if u dont trust your fiancee to be good at a bachelorette party...why in the hell are you marryin her?
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Has nothing to do with trusting her man. Honestly, I wouldn't put ANYTHING past ANY human being. With that said, the whole, "If you trust her" card can't be used here man.
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It's all about trust...you mean to tell me that the trust factor is different for a bachelor's party than it would be for any other night out when hanging w/ your boys?
I didn't have bachelor's party because I didn't see the point. Neither of us saw the difference between me having a night out with my fellas before the wedding and me going up to AC for a different weekend to kick it w/ my boys. My girl had one, but it was no big deal to me. Her sisters were in charge and wanted to do it. Bottom line we trust each other.
I didn't have bachelor's party because I didn't see the point. Neither of us saw the difference between me having a night out with my fellas before the wedding and me going up to AC for a different weekend to kick it w/ my boys. My girl had one, but it was no big deal to me. Her sisters were in charge and wanted to do it. Bottom line we trust each other.
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View media item 1321939No...Your boy didn't appoint you "best man" I see?
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pics of her sisters?
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For my friends it's just an excuse to have a vacation with the guys.
Some friends we did the whole strip club thing, others we didn't. Ive been to one where it's a fishing trip and another where we toured a brewery and then went to a baseball game.
t's pretty much on the best man to plan something that the groom to be would want to do. The groomsmen split the cost of the thing, so the bachelor doesn't spend anything.
Some friends we did the whole strip club thing, others we didn't. Ive been to one where it's a fishing trip and another where we toured a brewery and then went to a baseball game.
t's pretty much on the best man to plan something that the groom to be would want to do. The groomsmen split the cost of the thing, so the bachelor doesn't spend anything.
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A lot of these wedding rules I am unfamiliar with man smh.
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Co-signAlways wondered this.
*Finds love of my life*
*Bangs whoever I can lay my hands on before spending the rest of my life with her*
**** makes no sense
Why would you find a wifey, stay faithful to her for 5-8 years, then propose and prepare to marry...only so the night before your wedding you can stick ya dirty **** in some dirty pum pum? And then go stand up in church the next day and act like it's all good?
**** makes no sense to me at all, B
Don't get me started on bachelorette parties
It's run by a bunch of the brides bitter *** friends who will never have or keep a man because of their ***-ish ways. Trying to ruin the union one last time.
Bachelor/bachelrotte parties were a cornerstone of the Jerry Springer show for a long time
Go to it with her.
I think he means going out with your boys and having fun and getting drunk so you don't worry about it cuz so much mass in your face your wife is off your mind.
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Well, if you're boy is good groom, he shouldn't be looked after in the first place. You're idea of what should be a traditional Bachelor party makes me question that **** even more.
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It's probably going to be the last time you all get to hang out together for a while.
I saved time, money, and headaches. My groomsmen (my brother and my best friend) and I just spent the night at our family cabin in Central Texas. We stayed up all night drinking and smoking cigars around a fire pit, created playlists for our music, and planned our meals ahead of time. We had such a good time that we ended up doing that for six years in a row. The older you get, the more you will appreciate how rare that is. Now we all have mortgages, kids, and careers.
I saved time, money, and headaches. My groomsmen (my brother and my best friend) and I just spent the night at our family cabin in Central Texas. We stayed up all night drinking and smoking cigars around a fire pit, created playlists for our music, and planned our meals ahead of time. We had such a good time that we ended up doing that for six years in a row. The older you get, the more you will appreciate how rare that is. Now we all have mortgages, kids, and careers.
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So how does the bachelor get crazy when the brides family members are at the bachelor party?
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Aint like they in a small room watching each other's movements like a stalker. Aint like the father of the bride is thereSo how does the bachelor get crazy when the brides family members are at the bachelor party?
It'll be a long night of drunkenness and debauchery, if the relatives of the bride are getting lap dances or topped off by the minibar what's to stop the groom from getting some in the bathroom? or the adjacent hotel room?
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I think you guys are reading into the whole situation a bit too much. As it was stated before, the idea of a bachelor or bachelorette party vastly different from a night out or any time you went a strip. It's mainly the fact that all of your closest friends are present. You've likely found yourself in similar situations before that and will likely find yourself in similar situations afterwards.
It all comes down to trust. Your wife-to-be WILL have other "Girls Night Out"s or trips to visit friends so if you can't trust her at a bachelorette party then you might never be able to trust her
It all comes down to trust. Your wife-to-be WILL have other "Girls Night Out"s or trips to visit friends so if you can't trust her at a bachelorette party then you might never be able to trust her
I can't make anything out of your post. Please elaborate!
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You ask yourself if this is the person I should be marrying, that's how you handle it. I'd imagine this conversation should be explored before you even pop the question. JJ seems to have handled it just fine so I'd say it really boils down to the couple.
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I've been to bachelor parties where people have gotten rowdy and i've been to watered down ones for my conservative friends that are getting married
I think it depends on who the person is and what type of person they are. For mine it was always about just hanging with my boys and doing something we'd probably never do together because my friends are so scattered we barely see each other as it is.
mine was over a weekend in LA
first day/night
check in
eat at hooters
watch skyfall
go to lakers game
do a bar crawl
first night was great, i have 3 very close friends from HS and besides the best man(20 yrs of friendship) i hadn't seen them regularly, first night everyone was ripped, and coming from a christian HS, i just appreciated that my 2 other conservative friends got ripped with me and the best man(they never drink) but they were stumbling, with us too. they even tried some herb, I mean thats NEVER going to happen again, and honestly it was one of the best weekends I've ever had. I wasn't about smashing chicks that weekend, but i did want to freely check out other women, that was about it
I feel like mine was tame by most standards but i still had a blast
I think it depends on who the person is and what type of person they are. For mine it was always about just hanging with my boys and doing something we'd probably never do together because my friends are so scattered we barely see each other as it is.
mine was over a weekend in LA
first day/night
check in
eat at hooters
watch skyfall
go to lakers game
do a bar crawl
first night was great, i have 3 very close friends from HS and besides the best man(20 yrs of friendship) i hadn't seen them regularly, first night everyone was ripped, and coming from a christian HS, i just appreciated that my 2 other conservative friends got ripped with me and the best man(they never drink) but they were stumbling, with us too. they even tried some herb, I mean thats NEVER going to happen again, and honestly it was one of the best weekends I've ever had. I wasn't about smashing chicks that weekend, but i did want to freely check out other women, that was about it
I feel like mine was tame by most standards but i still had a blast
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Damb, I wrote that on my mobile when I was still half asleep this morning. That was terrible
. What I was getting at was that bachelor/bachelorette parties aren't too much different than a night out when you go to a strip club or night club. In my opinion, the real purpose of a bachelor party is to get your closest friends together one last time before you have significantly greater responsibilities and won't be able to go out to night clubs and strip clubs anymore. In the last part I was just hitting on the fact that if you can't trust your significant other at a bachelorette party, then you clearly have trust issues with that person because it's not like it'll be their last time going to the club.
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these dancing bear videos scare me man for real i gotta find a chick with some tame friends that don't like d's flopping around in their face
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This. Man. Knows. I've gone to bachelor parties where we've gotten bottomless bottles then hit the strip club with thousands in $1 bills and I've also been to bachelor parties where we spent a day paintballing, going on a brewery tour then catching a baseball game and hitting a local bar. Both were enjoyable to me because the groom is most important and in each scenario they were happy. If you're not about that going to the club and blowing lines off stripper's areolas then your bachelor party will likely reflect that as your groomsmen should know your personality.
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I don't know what a dancing bear is and after reading that post, I'm not sure I want to google it either....
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Basically a room full of women and a couple of males in bear costumes that get sexual with the wiminz. Comes off as a bachelorette party/*** shindig.
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I just assumed those were staged.
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let's just hope they are.
