Admitting that you cheated vol. the right thing to do or selfishly ridding yourself of guilt

If you love them, you'll tell the truth.

Even if you say nothing, it's even worse because you're living a lie. Not being who she thinks you are.

Don't cheat. Break up.

So her I'm educated, financially stable, great father, take care of my family .. changes if I cheat?
 
One of my exes from about 4-5 years ago cheated on me with her cousin. (Like really?)

Right after she confessed I told her I had cheated on her as well with a ***** she couldn't stand, multiple times. Them **** were pretty much enemies. Felt good man.
 
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One of my exes from about 4-5 years ago cheated on me with her cousin. (Like really?)

Right after she confessed I told her I had cheated on her as well with a ***** she couldn't stand, multiple times. Them **** were pretty much enemies. Felt good man.

Her cousin? :smh:
 
If your married or living with your girl, yous a dumb **** b.
If your just dating and get caught just admit to it with a dead pan face on and walk away. It is what it is. The thrill of getting new p >>>>>>>
 
When you do confess do you expect them to stay?



I mean it seems like one would tell because they know there girl is weak and will stay.


Im guessing if you know what type of girl you are dealing with you would confess
 
I hate the fact that people attempt to put love in a box, or make love an either/or scenario. 

Like when people say... "If you cheat on your partner, you cannot possibly love your partner."

It is not that simple. 

Love might be the most complex and multifaceted "thing' on this planet. 
 
SRS u admit to it and she takes u back just know what's coming one day. Women never forget and are scarred from **** like that. The opportunity comes and she will go with it. ******* never forget they get even. Might not be tomorrow or the day after. They the type 4 years later get mad and don't talk to u one day because they thought about what u admitted to 4 years ago. If u love her lie unless u can't.
 
SRS u admit to it and she takes u back just know what's coming one day. Women never forget and are scarred from **** like that. The opportunity comes and she will go with it. ******* never forget they get even. Might not be tomorrow or the day after. They the type 4 years later get mad and don't talk to u one day because they thought about what u admitted to 4 years ago. If u love her lie unless u can't.
If that's a worry, it's not a relationship you should keep. Be honest and let the chips fall where they may. If you feel like you'll always have to worry about her getting even, let it go.

Gotta deal with the consequences of your actions, not hide from them.

That's my opinion, at least.
 
 
I hate the fact that people attempt to put love in a box, or make love an either/or scenario. 

Like when people say... "If you cheat on your partner, you cannot possibly love your partner."

It is not that simple. 

Love might be the most complex and multifaceted "thing' on this planet. 
Sounds like something a cheater would say.
That probably is something a cheater would say. 

Were you trying to make a statement or a point? 
 
I knew a dude who cheated on his wife when they were dating. Over 10 years ago, they became happily married and had 2 kids. Him cheating was eating him inside ever since he did it and he eventually came out and told her.

she flipped out and they eventually divorced, she couldn't see her self being with a liar and she ended up taking the house, pretty much all his money. He ended up living on his sisters couch. Dude had a nice house also. I don't know what happened to him since then. But i felt bad for him.
 
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I knew a dude who cheated on his wife when they were dating. Over 10 years ago, they became happily married and had 2 kids. Him cheating was eating him inside ever since he did it and he eventually came out and told her.
she flipped out and they eventually divorced, she couldn't see her self being with a liar and she ended up taking the house, pretty much all his money. He ended up living on his sisters couch. Dude had a nice house also. I don't know what happened to him since then. But i felt bad for him.
Good for her
 
One time I believed the truth will set you free.

BS when I told her what I did she got even clingier and made things much worse. Keep it to yourself.
 
I knew a dude who cheated on his wife when they were dating. Over 10 years ago, they became happily married and had 2 kids. Him cheating was eating him inside ever since he did it and he eventually came out and told her.
she flipped out and they eventually divorced, she couldn't see her self being with a liar and she ended up taking the house, pretty much all his money. He ended up living on his sisters couch. Dude had a nice house also. I don't know what happened to him since then. But i felt bad for him.
See that's just stupid. Him and her. After 10 years he should've kept his mouth shut and she shouldn't have reacted like that.
 
I knew a dude who cheated on his wife when they were dating. Over 10 years ago, they became happily married and had 2 kids. Him cheating was eating him inside ever since he did it and he eventually came out and told her.

she flipped out and they eventually divorced, she couldn't see her self being with a liar and she ended up taking the house, pretty much all his money. He ended up living on his sisters couch. Dude had a nice house also. I don't know what happened to him since then. But i felt bad for him.
If she left over something he did 10 years ago then she can go **** herself. Get mad but taking all his **** over it is insane. He should've kept that **** to himself. Nothing worse than a scorned ***** especially when you marry the *****
 
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I knew a dude who cheated on his wife when they were dating. Over 10 years ago, they became happily married and had 2 kids. Him cheating was eating him inside ever since he did it and he eventually came out and told her.

she flipped out and they eventually divorced, she couldn't see her self being with a liar and she ended up taking the house, pretty much all his money. He ended up living on his sisters couch. Dude had a nice house also. I don't know what happened to him since then. But i felt bad for him.
Oh he's stupid for that. That's so far back in a different life with no residual. He should've known there would be no separation of timeline in her mind, let that go daddy. Ironic though, admitting that was probably the apex of his realization of the love he has for her, only to lose it all.
 
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So whos gona post a plies video?




But nah,



I would never cheat on my girl. I know what i have waitin for me at te end of the day. I have cheated on previous girls, but ive kept it 100 with this chick from the begining. Sometimes, you find a chick you wana give your all, and some you give maybe 50-60% of you and can care less.

I understand why dudes cheat, wether it be they just that playa type, or the chick frustrates them and they smash some other chick. Or tey were cheated on si cheated to get back.


***** bad eiter way.


Bottom line, if you know you gona continue playin the field, dont lead the chick on. Justdo you since thats all you care about anyways.
 
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I knew a dude who cheated on his wife when they were dating. Over 10 years ago, they became happily married and had 2 kids. Him cheating was eating him inside ever since he did it and he eventually came out and told her.

she flipped out and they eventually divorced, she couldn't see her self being with a liar and she ended up taking the house, pretty much all his money. He ended up living on his sisters couch. Dude had a nice house also. I don't know what happened to him since then. But i felt bad for him.
Sorry, but I'm having a hard time believing this story as is. He cheated while they were dating (ie. bf/gf) and she got everything? Are you saying she got everything because of the cheating while they were bf/gf.


There has to be more to this story or the story is suspect.
 
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I knew a dude who cheated on his wife when they were dating. Over 10 years ago, they became happily married and had 2 kids. Him cheating was eating him inside ever since he did it and he eventually came out and told her.

she flipped out and they eventually divorced, she couldn't see her self being with a liar and she ended up taking the house, pretty much all his money. He ended up living on his sisters couch. Dude had a nice house also. I don't know what happened to him since then. But i felt bad for him.
Sorry, but I'm having a hard time believing this story as is. He cheated while they were dating (ie. bf/gf) and she got everything? Are you saying she got everything because he cheated while they were bf/gf.


There has to be more to this story or the story is suspect.
Obviously there's more to a 10+ year relationship, c'mon buddy. I'm sure that was an easy jumping off point. And women have their way in court.
 
I hate the fact that people attempt to put love in a box, or make love an either/or scenario. 

Like when people say... "If you cheat on your partner, you cannot possibly love your partner."

It is not that simple. 

Love might be the most complex and multifaceted "thing' on this planet. 

I agree with you. After 6 years in the Navy "Love" is translated in many different ways among generations and cultures.

I dated a Japanese girl when I was in Japan and I saw her dad out in town with a woman that wasn't her mother. I told her and she said she knew and the whole family knew. She knew they were sleeping together. Lots of Japanese men had side pieces as long as they weren't in love it wasn't considered cheating.

Look at ****holds, they allow their wives to sleep with other men, but they aren't in love with other man, they are just having fun.

Love doesn't always translate in two people only sleeping with one another.
 
 
 
I knew a dude who cheated on his wife when they were dating. Over 10 years ago, they became happily married and had 2 kids. Him cheating was eating him inside ever since he did it and he eventually came out and told her.
she flipped out and they eventually divorced, she couldn't see her self being with a liar and she ended up taking the house, pretty much all his money. He ended up living on his sisters couch. Dude had a nice house also. I don't know what happened to him since then. But i felt bad for him.
Sorry, but I'm having a hard time believing this story as is. He cheated while they were dating (ie. bf/gf) and she got everything? Are you saying she got everything because he cheated while they were bf/gf.


There has to be more to this story or the story is suspect.
Obviously there's more to a 10+ year relationship, c'mon buddy. I'm sure that was an easy jumping off point. And women have their way in court.
Pretty much this. Especially if she has kids for a guy.
 
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