Admitting that you cheated vol. the right thing to do or selfishly ridding yourself of guilt
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At least he had a conscience. He was man enough to know she deserved the truth and not continue living a lie.Dude is dumb for even telling at that point... over 10 years, already married with 2 kids.
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Not everyone believes ignorance is bliss. Most people would want to know the person they love is who they think they are.
Dude is dumb for even telling at that point... over 10 years, already married with 2 kids.
At least he had a conscience. He was man enough to know she deserved the truth and not continue living a lie.
Oh miss me with that...
So after 10 years, he suddenly is a man because he admitted a mistake he make when they were just dating?
He suddenly has a conscience now? Again, go somewhere with that.
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Well, all I can say is that I hope I never run into a man like you.
Just dating? Any man I'm just dating or seriously dating would face the same consequences, because to me it seemed like both parties knew it was during a serious stage in their relationship, if it bothered his conscience and if it was enough for her to end it
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Unless I'm mistaken prenups don't prevent child support. Either way she was getting paid.
He was a dumbass. 10 years of marriage and 2 kids and he bring up something that happened back when they were dating.At least he had a conscience. He was man enough to know she deserved the truth and not continue living a lie.Dude is dumb for even telling at that point... over 10 years, already married with 2 kids.
I don't condone cheating, but my opinion still stands. Sometimes you have to keep something like that to yourself, even if it did kill you inside.
Think about the kids, think about the sacrifices they already made, the money, the house.... the KIDS!!!!
Now his children had to suffer through their divorce because he made a mistake BEFORE they were even born.
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Even if i was on camera b it wasnt me
But for real man up and tell her if she asks. If you were man enough to slay another womans yambs then you should be man enough to tell the truth. Unless we in court its ok to tell the truth b
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The ppl that don't believe ignorance is bliss are the ppl that got told the truth and know they can't go back
No it aint.
This is some flawed reasoning.
No matter how much your significant other tells you that is not a guarantee that you'll truly know them. You'll just know a lot about them to an extent you're comfortable and think you know everything about them.
What kind of conscience has you snitching on yourself 10 year after the fact? Not even some long lasting omission like he got a baby she don't know about or something. Some fling that would eventually be forgotten.
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If she ain't see it, I didn't do it
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I'm just trying to understand why you think sex changes the person from who you "think" they are
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The ppl that don't believe ignorance is bliss are the ppl that got told the truth and know they can't go back
No it aint.
This is some flawed reasoning.
No matter how much your significant other tells you that is not a guarantee that you'll truly know them. You'll just know a lot about them to an extent you're comfortable and think you know everything about them.
What kind of conscience has you snitching on yourself 10 year after the fact? Not even some long lasting omission like he got a baby she don't know about or something. Some fling that would eventually be forgotten.
This man broke this woman's trust and put her at risk for disease.
I'm done. This is why most women don't accept cheaters back. They're only clean or sorry when they get caught. They don't understand the moral underpinings of their actions and they will continue because of that.
Thankfully once I felt something wasn't right I completely broke off those relationships and spared myself.
Cheaters cannot be reasoned with. To go sleep with other women and sleep with another you say you love is some slimy mess.
Say whatever you want. I'm not going to respond. You confirmed everything I thought I knew.
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The only way a prenup won't work on child support is if the child is on state assistance.
BEFORE my uncle and auntie married, they did a prenup that started when she moved in with my uncle back in the 70's, 2 years before they got married.
The prenup spelled out everything. If there was a divorce, children would be joint custody, alternate holidays/weekends.
They would halve the refund from claiming kids yearly. It spelled out who would pay transportation should one parent move. Meaning the reciveing parent would pay any expenses or time for visitaitons. Any joint property/accounts would be sold and/or placed into children college funds. NO alimony for either spouse. If child support was needed it would be based on what the lowest earner could afford.
They both signed it. Even though they divorced after all the kids were gone, they said the prenup was the best thing they did for the marriage. They both knew exactly what they would get if there was a divorce. They both worked really hard for the 26 years they were married and neither lost nothing.
The prenup was done very early in the relationship and not much had been invested in the relationship.
Now they have this wierd sex-buddy relationship. They've been divorced about 10 years and have been caught cheating with each other 3x's.
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Where is the proof of this? Do you know who he cheated on her with? If you want to go down this route of hyperbole every time you have sex you're at risk of disease.This man bThe ppl that don't believe ignorance is bliss are the ppl that got told the truth and know they can't go back
No it aint.
This is some flawed reasoning.
No matter how much your significant other tells you that is not a guarantee that you'll truly know them. You'll just know a lot about them to an extent you're comfortable and think you know everything about them.
What kind of conscience has you snitching on yourself 10 year after the fact? Not even some long lasting omission like he got a baby she don't know about or something. Some fling that would eventually be forgotten.roke this woman's trust andput her at risk for disease.
We've already established he broke trust. No need to repeat it.
Then leave.
So?
If you got it you got it, if you don't you don't.
That's on you for getting with a dude with sociopathic tendencies
Kick this hogwash to somebody who cares.
This is not about you dude.
Stop trolling.
Yes they can but if you have flawed reasoning don't expect it to work.
Not if you're not dedicated to the concept of monogamy.
I don't believe you.
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Truth and Honesty can not be beat. Its painful very painful but necessary. No way around it.
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I would never cheat. If I did, I would tell her. If she has, I would want to know ASAP
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Truth and Honesty can hurt as well.
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Damn i must be tired.
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