Originally Posted by UrBetterthenME
Pretty much. I mean she wants a confident man, in shape, good looking, has a good income, his own home, yet she wants him to have a sexual ancestory of a nerd. She wants a perfect person who has all the postives or a jock but also the positives of a nerd.
I don't believe what she's asking for is all that unreasonable. It isn't the norm in this day and age, but there are dudes that are physically fit, handsome, ambitious, and provide for themselves that are guided by a different moral compass than others. I know guys that get attention from women that only have three notches on their belt. It isn't the most common thing in the world, but those fellas do exist. She just has to be willing to accept the fact that what she wants won't be the easiest to obtain. If she's cool with that, more power to her.
Originally Posted by Offset POW CLOW
Putting sex on a pedestal is very childish
I disagree. I believe it's still the most intimate thing two people can share. I believe our views on sex have been distorted to where we look at it through this obscure lens.
Granted I'm a hypocrite, in a sense, because I've been promiscuous and my number would probably send kellyrep running for the hills. But I still believe it's worthy of being placed on a pedestal, albeit I have a proclivity for knocking it off said pedestal when it's feasible for me.