What is love to you? Vol. I got girl problems, feel bad for me son. - Edit

ksteezy ksteezy

I recall you posting some time before that you broke up with your current wife for some time before getting back together. If you don't mind me asking, care to share a little more?
 
I ain't reading all of that.

But trust me, famb... As cliché as it may sound...

When you're in love... When you're TRULY in love, you'll know it...

It just feels different.

Hard to explain... Kinda like the feeling you get when you beat a really hard game...

And even the credits roll, you just sit back and like "yeah... I'm that *****"

Imagine that feeling but it comes whenever you make her smile or laugh so hard she farts.
 
ksteezy ksteezy

I recall you posting some time before that you broke up with your current wife for some time before getting back together. If you don't mind me asking, care to share a little more?

A chick from high school started baiting me, I fell for it hard and before I knew it I wanted out my relationship, I knew cheating was Innevitable so I just opted out and handled my biz with this other girl, that lasted about 3 months before it went sour, I then took the time to mess around, date other girls, it was a gamble but it was better than cheating I guess...eventually we linked up again, talk things over, decided to go all in and got married rigth away 0-100 real quick :lol:
 
ksteezy ksteezy

I recall you posting some time before that you broke up with your current wife for some time before getting back together. If you don't mind me asking, care to share a little more?

A chick from high school started baiting me, I fell for it hard and before I knew it I wanted out my relationship, I knew cheating was Innevitable so I just opted out and handled my biz with this other girl, that lasted about 3 months before it went sour, I then took the time to mess around, date other girls, it was a gamble but it was better than cheating I guess...eventually we linked up again, talk things over, decided to go all in and got married rigth away 0-100 real quick :lol:

Yeah I remember your post.... I think? :lol: This was back like in 08 or something right?
 
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Love for me is simple and effortless, saying a million things without saying a word...driving for hours in pure silence without feeling awkward.

I think that's more about comfortability, which is a factor/component of love. But I see what you're getting at.
 
Love is something more...than love songs, love poems and temporary highs,

Love is something more...than happy hellos and sad goodbyes,

Love is something more, than ups and downs and ins and outs,

Love is something more...it's what life is all about.
copy-pasta'd this to my girl...

Fee hours later, Facebook status:

"I love the **** outta that man. I promise I do"

:pimp: :pimp:

Good look, famb-o
 
Yall are romanticizing it way too much. Take it from someone who's had a couple of LTRs and been married a few years, all that fluttery butterfly feeling doesn't last. Eventually you become two people getting through life together, with all the ugly **** that comes with it. You find someone who's loyal, who you like to be with, and who you're attracted to, and you're good. If you want kids, on top of all those qualities, she's gotta be someone you want to be a mother to your kids. Nothing gonna mess a kid up more than a bad mother.

All these ideas of having this euphoric feeling and being with someone you feel this magical connection with... Listen, that's just that lovey dovey infatuation, and at the end of all that yall just irritate the **** out of eachother. In spite of that you can still get past it and be there for eachother.

Who do you want to share good news with first before anyone? Who do you want to be there with you when you have to bury one of your parents? Who do you worry about leaving behind if something happened to you? That's love. All that other idealism is temporary and interchangeable.
 
I honestly don't know how I feel about the idea of love at this point in my life. I've never seen a successful marriage, have been a scumbag in every relationship I've been in, etc. I don't know how to even go about it these days. Everything in life just seems so temporary. Like they say, "if nothing lasts forever, what makes love the exception?" :smh:
 
Yall are romanticizing it way too much. Take it from someone who's had a couple of LTRs and been married a few years, all that fluttery butterfly feeling doesn't last. Eventually you become two people getting through life together, with all the ugly **** that comes with it. You find someone who's loyal, who you like to be with, and who you're attracted to, and you're good. If you want kids, on top of all those qualities, she's gotta be someone you want to be a mother to your kids. Nothing gonna mess a kid up more than a bad mother.

All these ideas of having this euphoric feeling and being with someone you feel this magical connection with... Listen, that's just that lovey dovey infatuation, and at the end of all that yall just irritate the **** out of eachother. In spite of that you can still get past it and be there for eachother.

Who do you want to share good news with first before anyone? Who do you want to be there with you when you have to bury one of your parents? Who do you worry about leaving behind if something happened to you? That's love. All that other idealism is temporary and interchangeable.

Of course, but you have to get to that comfort feeling with someone you truly love and care for.

The feeling part i think most are referring to also encompasses the feeling when you share good news w/ that person... or when they share good news w/ you...

You know more than me, famb... but who would want to go through life getting uneasy every time you get around someone. :lol:

I think the "damb... this person is the ****" feeling allows you to get to know whether or not she has the motherly characteristics, her drive, etc.
 
Naw forreal, are yall serious about having sex while a girl is on her period? :smh:
 
Naw forreal, are yall serious about having sex while a girl is on her period? :smh:

I did when I was living with my ex of 3 years.

Shoot up the club already filled dead bodies. I ain't mopping the chit up though.

Nasty? Yep!


I'm a grown booty man!!!!
 
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