The Feels She Just Put Me Through Vol. So Unnecessary

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I saw her callin late Friday but she calls a lot for nothing and I was with this yamblet so I ignored her.

I wake up to a tex sent around 3 that morning saying she was @ the hospital, some ***** just beat her up.
I honestly don't want my daughter to go through that man.

Seein your mom beating is not a good look.

But then she tells me my daughter was at a slumber party so she wasnt there.

So after I get  I get caught up on the situation and let it soak for a few minutes, I realize I've been tellin ol girl bout her mouth for years.

We had a few domestic situations but I never beat her, but I couldnt help the feel of "I told you so"
Literally told her moms on many occasions another ***** gone knock her out.

So I meet up with her to grab my daughter for the weekend that morning
Face looked like RiRi's, all be it, she's extremely light skinned.

She was was super embarrassed and started explaining herself.
Couldn't help it, I got love for my BM.

So we start talking about the process of going to the police yada yada.

She tells me she will, she just needs to get her head together.

Sunday she calls and ask me to go to church.
***** you know better, tryna trick me off these trix.

Its late Sunday evening when she comes to pick up baby girl and I ask how everything went, she says she took off Monday to handle everything.

I know how this **** works lol.

@ the time I'm asking her why she didnt call the police as soon as it happened or why she hasnt been yet, she hits me with the I just been in bed.

Now I'm really starting to lose sympathy for her *** and I see where this is going.

So yesterday I shoot the text and get a responses like

"Why do you care so much?"

"I'm not gonna let this break me"

"I'm strong, I'm not gonna let no ***** keep me down"
I'm like what the **** is she talkin about.

You the one told me all this.

You put me in your business.

Then she says, she aint got time to be going through court and the police for any lame *** *****.

Mind you she put me on child support (court) off strength when I was already doin what was needed and more.

Shes also called to police on me twice during our relationship over petty ****. 

Over the past year she has been constantly dragging me back into her life and I'm getting tired of it.

She been tryna get back with me and everytime we get cordial she tries the "why cant we be together" dance.

I would like to have a decent relationship with her but I'm getting tired of this BS.
 
Keep your head up playa. If I were you, I would back up all of the texts/phone logs/etc and give some serious thought to petitioning for more custody. There is no way that I would want my child to be growing up in that type of environment.












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Keep your head up playa. If I were you, I would back up all of the texts/phone logs/etc and give some serious thought to petitioning for more custody. There is no way that I would want my child to be growing up in that type of environment.
I'm giving it a serious thought.

I can't trust those decision making skills.
 
Yeah man having your kid around violence like that isn't good. What did your BM tell your daughter happened to her face? Did you talk to your daughter about it? This kinda thing could leave an impact on your daughter later down the road on her ability to build a relationship with a man
 
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Don't have children with women like that smh

Fax B

OP, is your babymova West Indian? She sound like she is.

Irregardless, she's ya ex for a reason. Keep her to a distance. Just wish the best for her and keep it moving. You already told her what she should do as far as going to the police...if she don't wanna do it, then that's on her. She's being stubborn
 
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Keep your head up playa. If I were you, I would back up all of the texts/phone logs/etc and give some serious thought to petitioning for more custody. There is no way that I would want my child to be growing up in that type of environment.
I'm giving it a serious thought.

I can't trust those decision making skills.
Yeah is right.

Especially since you have a daughter, she gonna emulate her mother's behavior, that's just how children work.

Petition her for custody, use the texts about not going to police as evidence of poor decision making as need be.

Be very up front about what happened when your girl called the cops on you.

Provide receipts that show how involved you are with the child not to mention the fact that you CAN provide for her.

Talk about how often you have the kid and what do you guys do together, what kind of people the child is around when she's with you and the decisions you make vs. the decisions of the mother.

Furthermore do you live in a better area? Stressing things like school district as a thing you can provide for her (unless you going private/parochial school anyway) can be a boost.

Get character witnesses, especially the relatives and friends of baby moms if you can. Those carry extra weight cuz its her own fam backing you to be the main guardian.

Get the department of child support enforcement of your state involved. They can back you cuz they have both your information as well.

When giving testimony make it 65% why you're the better parent, 35% why she falls short.
 
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Yeah man having your kid around violence like that isn't good. What did your BM tell your daughter happened to her face? Did you talk to your daughter about it? This kinda thing could leave an impact on your daughter later down the road on her ability to build a relationship with a man
She's 3 and I'm not sure what she told her but she never asked me about it.
other ***** actin like that cant learn a lesson from this
What exactly be learned from this?
 
 
Don't have children with women like that smh
Man ****

Can't predict the unpredictable.

Females are random as hell at times,
I feel ya 

hopefully she chill keeping them type of ****** around yall daughter 
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Man U gotta get ur kid
My bm is dumb as ******* rocks
After we broke up I made sure my kids was coming with me
I know the little dance she putting u through man
It only gets worse if u don't have ur kid
Luckily she didn't have anything to hold over my head
Since the kids live with me so all that foolishness stopped
Been 6 years bm stress free
Only time we every converse is when she wants to come get the kids
Crazy thing is me and her FAM is super cool
Her brother and me are tight
Her sisters and nephews and nieces are all cool with me
But I can't stand her ***
Them damn green eyes of hers had me sprung :smh:
Black females with REAL different colored eyes are always crazy :smh:
 
Do what you need to do for your seed.  If that means (as has been suggested already) filing for more custody or full custody, you have to do it.  It doesn't seem like your BM really wants to take steps to do what is best for her and your offspring.  The whole 'I'm just going to sleep it off' attitude is not going to stop dude from putting paws on her again.  And I can't imagine having to explain to your child why mom keeps getting beat up. :frown:  Best of luck
 
Yeah man having your kid around violence like that isn't good. What did your BM tell your daughter happened to her face? Did you talk to your daughter about it? This kinda thing could leave an impact on your daughter later down the road on her ability to build a relationship with a man

She's 3 and I'm not sure what she told her but she never asked me about it.
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other ***** actin like that cant learn a lesson from this
What exactly be learned from this?
Well for starters dudes need to learn to stop letting the woman get the upper hand
Start taking control of the situation
If ur MORE than capable more men should start taking custody of their kids
Also there's a few ways to get around that child support
By providing more than 50% for ur kid child support is EASILY averted
Even though my kids live with me
I have EVERY SINGLE receiptsince they were born if it was for them
From diapers from target to now with the food I make for their lunch at school.
Anything having to do with them keep them receipts
Cause if or when u go to court
A judge gonna ask for them receipts
U pony that up and it's more than 50%
And it's been consistent u can get outta child support
And even though my kids live with me I keep em just in case
Cause u never know what's gonna happen
Shiiiiit u could end up getting child support urself if u wanted
I know I could but she got her own kid now
And me and my girl make more than enough to provide for our fam so I don't see the need
 
KOOPA GET YOUR KID, B !!!!!!!!!

After reading Don Adida post, he's speaking all Fax, B.

Your seed doesn't need to be around that. She's gonna grow up to be just like her moms and think it's ok to get beat by a man. Get her out of that situation B. It's time to get full custody
 
You should definitely try to get custody of your daughter.

Luckily she wasn't there this time but what if she is next time? The fact that she won't go to police means he's probably back in the house again.

So many children are killed by their mother's bf or husband who want nothing to do with her kids but mom thinks an abusive man is better than no man. :smh:

Best of luck to you and your daughter.
 
Real talk I wouldn't even rust my seed around that dude, fam.

Step fathers be doing all kinds of ruthless ****. I'll be damned if a baby mothers boyfriend lays a finger on a daughter :smh:

**** gets me mad just thinking about it yo
 
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