How hard is it to find a chick who....

That's why you don't ask, some chicks don't usually leave until new dude is established. That's how you're surprised she moved on so fast.

I broke up with one of my exes and 10 months later she hits me up letting me know she just had a baby

Bruh ..

That hurts like hell

I would be laying in the dark for like 3 days off of that

It actually didn't.

Our relationship wasn't good at the end (or the middle) and I was actually content with it ending with the next chapter of my life (med school across the country) approaching. I had no idea if she officially cheated or not but by the time she told me I had been moved on and it didn't hurt, it just taught me a lesson.
 
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She wasn't claiming it was mine. She called to let me know she had a baby with her next bf. For some reason she thought I wanted to know
Happy for you.

It could've been you, young doctor. Then you'd know where that post-med school money's going.

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@Kellyrep

you're welcome papi. 
Looks would be subjective .

I don't know any women low in number who are below a 3 and not very religious. And some of the very religious still lie about how many men they have been with. I read the first page. Will say this. I was a late bloomer, a misfit in school, up until a certain point in college. Was disinterested in dating until well after school . I would be an anomaly though because I still don't care for dating. I don't care about settling  down and still feel too young to marry and have children. I would like to move around, travel, find out more about myself and that may take a while if I ever decide to settle.

I don't think it's  that hard what you're looking for.  Just the "number" will be hard.

Those I know tend to already be married. My experience at my age with guys my same age is has been that guys don't really want good girls right now.
 
Wait didn't even notice the virgin part. Good luck with that stage 1 clinger then after you take it.
It actually does happen.

If he's a legit person, he'll be fine. Anyone who sleeps with a virgin and expects to treat her like he would a one night stand  is a creep.

Don't do that OP.
 
My girl turned 25 a few months back. I'm 33. She has ALL of those attributes you listed. Met her randomly at a bar. We never fully discussed the body count issue but at this juncture in my life it doesn't really matter as I'm 100% my body count was exponentially lower than hers. Also, imo, you don't want a girl who's 25+ and still a virgin. That sets off all kinds of red flags. She'll either suck in bed or there's some other crazy reason why she hasn't been laid in 25+ years.

Those girls ARE out there. You just have to be patience and keep your eyes open and not be afraid to take your shot when you have it.

You may also find them in diff places: Yoga classes, volunteer centers, running clubs, ect.

She isn't all of those things homie...your just seeing stars right now.
 
Religious but not hyper religious. Christian but went out, drank a little etc. Just wanted to wait till marriage

If they believe in a great flood, a zombie hippie and also choose to abstain from sex until marriage then you can't trust their decision making.
 
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That's why you don't ask, some chicks don't usually leave until new dude is established. That's how you're surprised she moved on so fast.

I broke up with one of my exes and 10 months later she hits me up letting me know she just had a baby

I'll never trust that hovering dude, learned that at 16. "It's my brother's stupid friend, always bothering me. I can't stand him".
 
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My girl turned 25 a few months back. I'm 33. She has ALL of those attributes you listed. Met her randomly at a bar. We never fully discussed the body count issue but at this juncture in my life it doesn't really matter as I'm 100% my body count was exponentially lower than hers. Also, imo, you don't want a girl who's 25+ and still a virgin. That sets off all kinds of red flags. She'll either suck in bed or there's some other crazy reason why she hasn't been laid in 25+ years.

Those girls ARE out there. You just have to be patience and keep your eyes open and not be afraid to take your shot when you have it.

You may also find them in diff places: Yoga classes, volunteer centers, running clubs, ect.

She isn't all of those things homie...your just seeing stars right now.

*exponentially higher than hers....

And she is, why's that hard to believe? And we've been together for over a year, fam. Far past the honeymoon "seeing stars" phase.
 
[emoji]128514[/emoji][emoji]128514[/emoji] I use to think my girl was everything on that list, body count excluded. 2 years go by and She's not those things anymore... But still the one for me. We never will find the perfect person but I feel like I found the person that came as close as possible to my demands in a woman. I'm far from perfect myself and have found myself changing these last 4 n a half years.
 
I think the most important thing is a woman that loves herself just as much as she loves you. When you have a girl who consistently tries to be a better person everyday as well as thinks the world of you, then everything else will follow....
 
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