Low Maintenance vs. High Maintenance Chick? VOL. Kellyrep plz respond!

All I'm saying is, I get my fresh hair cut once a week, bust my *** 6 days a week at the gym

Is that high maintenance for a dude?? I thought that was routine? I might go two weeks without a fade if Im growing my beard...
 
All I'm saying is, I get my fresh hair cut once a week, bust my *** at the gym 6 days a week, have a sense of style (both formal and casual), have the jaw line of captain America, the facial symmitry of a cartoon hero, have my degree, got my career, got my house with the ram truck, and the sexual energy of a 17 year old. Ain't NO way my girl gonna be anything less than that.

And if you think that's ****** up **** you.

Can I get an amen from team handsomepapi??

Dont be like superb b

Ima need pics of ur house, pecs, hemi engine, and something to show u got sexual energy(but it has to be NT friendly, like a pic or ur girl)
 
So after a first date I had the other day and seeing this thread, I think I found one way that I can differentiate between low and high maintenance chicks. I always go to similarly rated restaurants on first dates and the difference between the low and high maintenance chicks is always found in them making the offer to pay (which I never accept) and their attitude post-dinner. Most high mainentance chicks treat nice dinner dates like they do that M-F and lower mainentance chicks are (genuinely) appreciative. Nothing wrong with that and it makes sense but just an observation
 
So after a first date I had the other day and seeing this thread, I think I found one way that I can differentiate between low and high maintenance chicks. I always go to similarly rated restaurants on first dates and the difference between the low and high maintenance chicks is always found in them making the offer to pay (which I never accept) and their attitude post-dinner. Most high mainentance chicks treat nice dinner dates like they do that M-F and lower mainentance chicks are (genuinely) appreciative. Nothing wrong with that and it makes sense but just an observation
You'd feel like going to dinner was a 9-5 too, if it took 2.5 hours out of your day to get ready and you spend another 1-4 hours  wearing uncomfortable clothes and 6 inch red bottom heels, while carrying that heavy *** LV bag and trying to eat a burger without messing up your nails...

That's why low maintenance >>>> 
 
What's the word on high maintenance chicks being good prospects for motherhood??
 
From my experience most high maintenance chicks sex game is wack. They don't know how to move or give good head. They're too pretty to get down :smh:
 
From my experience most high maintenance chicks sex game is wack. They don't know how to move or give good head. They're too pretty to get down :smh:
Nope, those r usually the biggest hos

Or mmaybe they just get nasty for some guys
 
What's yall take or standards between the two?

Some of my boys are always praising about having low maintenance girls and/or try to low key clown me for having a "high" maintenance girl...

No disrespect to them, but I've seen their girls... no way in hell I could be with a girl that doesn't take care of herself or goes out to eat or shop in basketball shorts.
I just saw this.

Well... I can say the same about the man I'm with. I will never ever date a man who regularly gets his eyebrows and nails done. He can get away with getting pedicures and an occasional facial, maybe even highlight his hair but if he dips into my stash , that's it.

I get what you mean though. As far as my personality, I do like dressing up, doing my hair , nails, etc for going out. I don't expect that from men but I FREAKIN hate dressing up to go somewhere bogus.

However, all of  this is based off me. Some women are not like that. If me and my man go out, I'm going to make sure I keep his attention. He's going to notice other guys and women looking at me. I don't play glancing across the room at some other chick. It's also important because it sends the message that going out with your SO means something to you.

Be back after I read through.
 
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You'd feel like going to dinner was a 9-5 too, if it took 2.5 hours out of your day to get ready and you spend another 1-4 hours  wearing uncomfortable clothes and 6 inch red bottom heels, while carrying that heavy *** LV bag and trying to eat a burger without messing up your nails...

That's why low maintenance >>>>
Wait. Wrong. If a woman genuinely loves to dress up, none of that is uncomfortable. You can wear comfortable heels that are affordable. You all are stereotyping. The women who dress up can go either way. It can be work or it can be an EVENT to do something fun with your guy.

If a man showed up on my date in sweats, whether we have been together 5 years or just met each other, it sends a clear message. You don't have to dress to the 9s  for a burger

BUT you can throw on some earrings and bangles because of who you're WITH.

I do my own nails but even that makes no difference.
 
i'll take high maintenance female, i'm high maintenance myself. need someone to match my lifestyle.

This and all of this

High Maintenance girls are a headache at times but I love that kind of headache
 
 
I prefer chicks that

don't get plastic surgery

don't wear much make up 

don't tan

don't get fake nails (but can paint their own)
don't dye their hair (maybe every now and then)
don't need designer clothes or obsess over them

don't act stuck up

doesn't take an hour to get ready

doesn't have picky eating habits

so yes for the most part i like low maintenence
Cute (as opposed to video vixen bad bishhh )
clean and moisturized 
shaved
and can dress well with normal stuff

but does have a sarcastic B mode to ward off thirsty dudes
This is my woman. I'm ******* blessed.
 
Im not attracted to chicks who wear 

weave 

contacts

long fake nails

1.Those women take way too long to get ready

2. They don't have fun at pools and beaches because of the ton of accessories they wear on thier body will be ruined

3. The idea of nasty stank mildew weave in my face in the morning is a huge turn off

4.All those accessories are like monthly unnecessary expenses that im not gonna support imo 

Give me a naturally beautiful woman who is somehow athletic and can be tomboyish with outdoor activities

but can dress it up real nice in the right settings

You guys can keep the high maintainance Nicki Minaj barbie wanna be girly girls

Women obessed with vanity have never been anything worthwhile in the soul in my experience
 
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All I'm saying is, I get my fresh hair cut once a week, bust my *** at the gym 6 days a week, have a sense of style (both formal and casual), have the jaw line of captain America, the facial symmitry of a cartoon hero, have my degree, got my career, got my house with the ram truck, and the sexual energy of a 17 year old. Ain't NO way my girl gonna be anything less than that.

And if you think that's ****** up **** you.

Can I get an amen from team handsomepapi??
Yo drive a ram truck? Gimmie dap [emoji]128074[/emoji]
 
All I'm saying is, I get my fresh hair cut once a week, bust my *** at the gym 6 days a week, have a sense of style (both formal and casual), have the jaw line of captain America, the facial symmitry of a cartoon hero, have my degree, got my career, got my house with the ram truck, and the sexual energy of a 17 year old. Ain't NO way my girl gonna be anything less than that.

And if you think that's ****** up **** you.

Can I get an amen from team handsomepapi??
 
All I'm saying is, I get my fresh hair cut once a week, bust my *** at the gym 6 days a week, have a sense of style (both formal and casual), have the jaw line of captain America, the facial symmitry of a cartoon hero, have my degree, got my career, got my house with the ram truck, and the sexual energy of a 17 year old. Ain't NO way my girl gonna be anything less than that.


And if you think that's ****** up **** you.


Can I get an amen from team handsomepapi??
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:smokin

Also thanks for replying Kelly.
 
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