Do more women hit on you when you're taken?

It makes you a more desirable mate, especially if the girl is fine. 

Women will tell you this straight up if you ask them 
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Girl I used to talk to told me if I didn't have any girls looking at me in public she wouldn't be with me.
She said it means I got da juice and she's not with a lame
 
Flyeed said:
On a serious note though, yes women gravitate toward men that are wifed up.

I joke around that they sense something chemically. I had a friend who literally wouldn't break up with his girlfriend that he'd constantly cheat on just because he felt like he'd get more girls that way :lol: :smh:

For myself, I think I carry myself differently when I'm taken. I give off more of a stable and mature vibe while also giving a vibe of not giving a ****, being relaxed, and comfortable.
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Flyeed said:
On a serious note though, yes women gravitate toward men that are wifed up.

I joke around that they sense something chemically. I had a friend who literally wouldn't break up with his girlfriend that he'd constantly cheat on just because he felt like he'd get more girls that way :lol: :smh:

For myself, I think I carry myself differently when I'm taken. I give off more of a stable and mature vibe while also giving a vibe of not giving a ****, being relaxed, and comfortable/secure. It also allows me to approach women with more platonic interests and be genuinely polite/friendly which some women appreciate and find attractive.
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Messed up the quote, all of this is true. We have a certain confidence about us that tells women "hey, we don't need YOU, I'm good over here" maybe they're attracted to that confidence. Plus most of us in good relationships are not "hunting" so we don't look all predatory or what they call "thirsty" so that always helps too.
 
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the real question is whether we say we're taken or not if there is a smash-able female in our purview
 
Yes,

But I've also noticed if you aren't checking for women, some reason they go out their way to get your attention or you'll catch them staring.
 
mALiZ said:
Yes,

But I've also noticed if you aren't checking for women, some reason they go out their way to get your attention or you'll catch them staring.
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This is 100% true.
Ignore a girl you tryna get with for 1 day, she will literally bust her *** to get your attention
 
Women hit on you more when your taken because women want a man that has been validated by other women. So, they wanna' know what's so good about you, that your wife had to have you.

When your single, your most likely not a desirable partner, therefore that's why your single.
 
I noticed when I was fresh in a relationship is when I got all the fly hunnies., some even hit me on Facebook like sheesh., it was that easy.. and basically to sum it up after the relationship I even got play but these days since I'm single I have no idea where to start when dealing with loving women. I think deep down I just want a friend and hopefully one day someone comes along.
 
Speaking of, an ex that KNOWS I'm in a relationship, has been blocked from my fb in the past and is now trying to hit me up. :smh:

This is the third female in the past few months I got a random "hey" fb message from.

Four kids y'all. Tryna scoop that old D new BD combo. Nah.
 
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She's pretty...but why post her picture on the internet to embarrass her like that for a hi? I understand where you're coming from . I just don't get with public humiliation.
 
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Not like I posted her name or location. No one here knows her so how is it humiliating? Then you quoted the pic while asking that? :lol:

*jagsfangif

This is NT. Pics are part of the culture. I've posted pics of myself, my kids, my ex-wife and gf. That's why people ask you for pics all the time.

Besides, she's not married like the other females who hit me up, so it's not gonna ruin her life. The other two females look better but I wouldn't share their pics because they have plenty to lose.
 
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Not like I posted her name or location. No one here knows her so how is it humiliating? Then you quoted the pic while asking that?
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*jagsfangif

This is NT. Pics are part of the culture. I've posted pics of myself, my kids, my ex-wife and gf. That's why people ask you for pics all the time.

Besides, she's not married like the other females who hit me up, so it's not gonna ruin her life. The other two females look better but I wouldn't share their pics because they have plenty to lose.
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You posted her face on the internet. Who cares if no one knows her (its a small world)...things can be done to her image, it can come up in image searches, in case someone does know her it IS public humiliation...because of one " hi". And just saying, I have reached out to exes on FB, not to get back with them, but to squash longstanding beef between us.
 
There was no beef.

She just wanted to fly me out. But you got it. If you really care unquote the pic and I'll remove it to humor your sincere concern.
 
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