Beefing with siblings UNAPPRETIATION..

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Any of y'all have a dysfunctional relationship with your sibling(s)? Swear mines is the absolute worse...smh, I finally spoke with my older brother for the first time in FIVE years, and all that came to fruition from the convo is me cursing him out, him insulting Me, and both of us threatening each other. Smh, I feel bad for reacting the way I did, but homie has been ignoring me the past couple years, apparently due to his own personal problems...its a shame that the next time, if ever, we meet we're going to end up hurting each other. Any of y'all have similar problems with their fam or any helpful advice?
 
I don't talk with my bro that much since he moved out but everything is all gravy.

I don't know that feel.
 
Sucks.

I thank god I don't have this problem with my brothers nor have I ever had this kind of issue. Couldn't even imagine it.
 
My brother was borderline abusive to me when we were growing up. Not even just sibling fisticuffs, but he did some really messed up things to me when we were younger.

We're not as close as most siblings are, but we've been trying to mend our relationship for the past few years.
 
my adopted sister and i did not get along until right before she left after joining the Army...i have no issues with her

haven't seen or spoken to her in almost 2 years since she left for duty in Alaska, heard she recently got engaged and is PCS'ing to Hawaii, sent her a congratulatory text on the engagement, but didn't get a response, so iono maybe feels a certain way...
 
I don't talk to my oldest brother at all and I plan to keep it that way. Have 4 sisters and another brother as well as a dozen other cousins get along fine with all
 
I'm 11 years older than my little bro. No issues, love the kid 
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Yes, I have a bad relationship with my older brother. He has little bro envy.

He still lives with my mom and has like 4 kids.

I'm married, successful, moved out.

Dude never gives me daps, he always disses me,talks bad about me to my mom, :smh:

Life is too short for this.

I chucked the duces up and peeled out. Never said one thing bad about him and would do anything for him :smh:
 
To turn this depressing thread around, me and my older brother have a great relationship.

My sister on the other hand, I'm cool with not ever talking to really. She did some incredibly grimey things to the family when we were younger I can just never overlook. I feel bad I lowkey kind of see her daughter in the same light and I don't even want those problems.

I know she feels some type of way about it too as I treat my nephews and niece from my brother as if I had fathered them myself.

Life.

My brother is starting to do the same **** with my success from school. ^^^
 
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Oh boy

I've lived with my bro for 20 year and we have been fighting as far back as I can remember .
Several factors but I think the main one is not allowed outside when we were kids after my mom got divorced. Put two boys in the house with no parent around much . I think I think it's bound to happen.

Big brother did some grimy things to me and my Mother . Stole clothes money from me, had no respect for anyone .pretty much done with him. Told my mom one timehated him and she was almost in tears.

Sucks but you gotta keep negative people away from you.
 
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My brother was borderline abusive to me when we were growing up. Not even just sibling fisticuffs, but he did some really messed up things to me when we were younger.

We're not as close as most siblings are, but we've been trying to mend our relationship for the past few years.
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I used to be so jealous of my friends' sibling relationships
 
I have about 7 brothers and 1 sister. The 6 siblings (including my sis) I don't really talk to much, but we never really established that sibling bond because I met my biological father in my teen years. And I hardly speak with him as it is.But whenever I do see them it's all love, like I lived with them my whole life[emoji]128514[/emoji] :lol:. But the 2 other brothers I have lived with (older and younger) I love to death. Just starting to establish a relationship with my younger bro (I have 10+ years on him) which was something I couldn't do before because I felt like he was too young and I wasn't living right myself smh . S'all good though, lil homie turning 12 next week, I been putting him on game when it comes to yambs :pimp:
 
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3 older brothers are all smooth :pimp:. Oldest 2 used to fight all the time. One was a soccer star that got a full ride scholarship to Wisconsin badgers. Other turned into a street cat and did some major time. But were all good now very thankful for them :pimp:
 
I am the oldest and there is quite the age gap between my siblings and I. I have never had a close relationship with my only sister (6 years apart), but there isn't any beef either. My younger brother (8 years apart) and I really don't make any effort to have a relationship. We were extremely close for many years, but that all changed once he left home and the two of us moved in with one another. We had a falling out and there was a period of a couple years that there was a lot of tension whenever a family get together would occur. We swept it under the rug, but the real damage had already been done. He holds grudges and well I am completely fine if I were to never see him again. My youngest brother (14 years apart) is one of the coolest individuals I know on this planet. We have a good relationship even though we don't talk as often as we should. He also lives in Arizona, so I don't really see him as much as I would like to either.

My closest relationships are with my extended family; I grew up feeling a lot more in good grace with them.
 
These NT siblings threads are always depressing as hell.

Only child but my cousins are like my siblings since we were all raised by my grandma. Close to most of them.
 
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One Thanksgiving maybe 2 years ago or so my sister was saying all kinds of rude and disrespectful stuff to my family in front of me. I was getting angry even though I was used to it. This night she just wasn't stopping and saying a bunch of hurtful stuff. Said bye to everybody else except for her and was walking out the door. She was like "No hug for your sister?" Told her to get the **** out of my face and life. Didn't talk to her AT ALL for a solid 5 months. Then at my grandpa's funeral she apologized but I was still pissed off with her so I told her to kick rocks. She was never much of a sister to me, especially when I needed her. Still think she's the reason for a lot of bad things in my life.

Actually one of my cousins is more of a sister than my real sister.
 
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Nothing as bad as everyone here, but my little 18yo brother has been acting like an idiot prior to his HS graduation.

Yelling at my parents and throwing sarcastic comments at me.
 
2nd oldest out of 5. Love my siblings to death and would never hesitate to lend a helping hand. Yeah, they did some f'd **** to cause pain in my mom&pops eyes but it's none of my biz and took me a while to understand that.
 
I used to be real close with my older, and only, brother..When he got divorced from his first wife he would only come around me when he wanted something..Burned me a couple times over money..Me and him/parents had a falling out where we didn't talk for a couple years and I was fine with it..We all mended fences and things were cool for a couple yrs, but then my wife lent him some money when I told her it would end bad and sure enough he got me for about 200 (I know it's not a lot but I'm on a fixed income due to being injured and unable to work)..Found out that he was also talking behind my back to my parents so I just said F it and cut ties with him..We've talked occasionally over the past 3 yrs but I honestly feel our relationship will never be like it was when we were kids into my early 20's..
 
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Nothing as bad as everyone here, but my little 18yo brother has been acting like an idiot prior to his HS graduation.

Yelling at my parents and throwing sarcastic comments at me.
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Sometimes you gotta take little brother out back and take care of him
 
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brendasdeadbaby said:
Sometimes you gotta take little brother out back and take care of him
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Parents let him talk that foul mouth to them with no consequences and picks him over me.

/shrug
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Kinda feel the same about my younger siblings the way they talk to moms and pops but I also think my parents has gotten older so dont have the energy to check them anymore like before/us older kids. They are just trying to enjoy life.

Will post later about my relationship with my older and younger siblings. 
 
I talk to both of my sisters on the phone/text almost daily. I couldn't even imagine us going a week without speaking let alone years.
 
Damn this thread is making me sad. I feel bad for a lot of you guys. I have a year and a half on my sis. Yeah, we bicker like a brother and sister do, but we have a great relationship. She is just like one of my friends. We got along well while we were in HS. I went off to college and she did too for a year, then she came to my school and we lived together with another roommate. We still have a great relationship. I am sad I have to get a job and we can't live together next year.


Sorry it was the opposite of the thread title, I just wanted someone to see a little happiness in this sad thread lol.
 
My older brother and I got into fist fights all throughout childhood and adulthood. One time we spent an entire year not speaking to each other, living in the same crib. We're usually cool when we live apart. One time we went out to the club, got into a fight on the street and spent the weekend in jail. Never had an arguement since.

My younger sister is 10 years younger than me and I seriously doubt we've had more than 2 arguements her entire life.

Same parents, same household. I guess it an age thing.
 
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