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Naw fam if you have good morals don't listen to this ****. Honesty and loyalty go a long way. Plus what is done in the dark comes to the light always.
NTrs with good girls but cheat........come in
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This. If dudes felt what real love was like they wouldn't waste time in "just cuz" relationships. I try to explain to people why I don't jump into relationships and they misread it as me wanting to sleep around. Nah, i'm just a real, true romantic.
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yessir.
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comedy. pure comedy in this thread.
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strong post to username ratio
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Touche.
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this new age is crazy as hell, I hear more girls are cheating nowadays and even more than guys do. slutty *** **** playing mind tricks, be careful who you wife up nowadays, girls are worse than us
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These **** be for everybody #Flourish
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Atleast we honest though
Ya'll females do the most and then front like ya'll aint doing shade yourselves, and even if they happen to be one of the good ones you best believe they have friends doing dirt. And what do they say to their friends? Absolutely nothing.
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I love women and I like p. I like to entertain my animalistic side and give in to the urges. My girl is my best friend though, a goddess and I would go through anything to keep her. Except giving up the plethora of p. There is a distinct difference between the feeling I get from making love to my woman and the feeling I get releasing my seed after giving back shots to one of the sides.
I believe the world isn't black and white. There is no right or wrong only sides that have been placed to dictate how to act at this very moment in time in this specific society. I'm happier with my woman when I can release a nut if I want with another woman and she can't understand that. So it's unspoken of. There are things she does I don't agree with and so I accept them. Without these things we wouldn't be ourselves so the man she loves is as I am now. If I changed I would no longer be that man. I give her everything she needs and she comes first always. I want this woman to be the mother of my children and be able to look into her eyes 50 years from now reminiscing about the life we made together. There's no right or wrong way to live life. Just live it and stop overthinking the situation.
It's my body. You people have a weird sense of ownership. My mind body and soul are intertwined with hers but she does not own my penis. The bond we share is ours I'm not giving that up when I insert into a woman I barely know.
I believe the world isn't black and white. There is no right or wrong only sides that have been placed to dictate how to act at this very moment in time in this specific society. I'm happier with my woman when I can release a nut if I want with another woman and she can't understand that. So it's unspoken of. There are things she does I don't agree with and so I accept them. Without these things we wouldn't be ourselves so the man she loves is as I am now. If I changed I would no longer be that man. I give her everything she needs and she comes first always. I want this woman to be the mother of my children and be able to look into her eyes 50 years from now reminiscing about the life we made together. There's no right or wrong way to live life. Just live it and stop overthinking the situation.
It's my body. You people have a weird sense of ownership. My mind body and soul are intertwined with hers but she does not own my penis. The bond we share is ours I'm not giving that up when I insert into a woman I barely know.
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ogmcmxcii
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I feel you on what you said but my struggle is I don't want to do all that and get lost in sneaking around creeping or whatever chasing thrill after thrill because at some point you trip over your tail and get caught badly. I'm a man of honor, integrity, respect & loyalty even if it's not shown back to me. I'm 23 young af but mentally old for my age. Idk but I understand what your thinking.
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Sounds like you don't got no side pieces.
Yamcha hit it right on the head. Most of the time when it comes to the side piece, they are girls that literally fall into your lap that you don't even work for besides a couple texts here and there and maybe grabbing a drink. Next thing you know you''re smashing her. Ain't no lovin her or emotions. That's for my girl.
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reppd my dude
finding your mental equal is the goal.
1 side says never flirt cheat or do anything its wrong. Then they get sick of their partners because they can't vent or be around other females. End up getting divorced, raise kids in a broken home. Man/woman that infrequently cheats or sees other of the opposite sex has a fresh happy relationship with their mental equal that they know they love. Raise kids everything is great. But yet people always quick to judge what is "moral" or "right".
Again i don't condone cheating per say...but all this "mental" cheating.
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Wrong, people are looking for ways to justify their cheating behavior.
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if the right mass appears under the right conditions, all bets are off. I don't believe any dude who says he will never cheat.
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Would you not believe any female that says they will never cheat? Are they jus as much dogs as we are?
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This is probably the clearest I've ever heard this explained and the closest I'll ever come to understanding it. Monogamy doesn't make sense from a biological stand point and it's clear in the natural bodily/hormonal impulses both sexes have around people they find attractive. Instinctively, when I see a fine woman out in public my first reaction is to look. To visualize and fantasize. But after like 5 seconds I snap out of it and let it go. The human element of myself WANTS to sleep with all these slamming women around the way, but my actual person knows better.
The values of MY relationship is one of more traditional values. Obviously don't sleep, hook up, or flirt with other women/men. Being friends is no big deal if you knew them prior to the relationship, but meeting new friends of the opposite gender is tricky. Because really, what can female friends give me that my male friends can't? A female perspective, maybe. But I alright have other avenues for that. When I think about, the only reason would be because I was physically attracted to them and once that starts then the flirting starts and then there's the aspect of "emotionally cheating" and all that. And I've never though that would be a big deal until I found a woman I actually REALLY LOVED and wasn't just caught up in the moment with and I flipped the roles and realized that her doing that to me would bother the hell out of me.
My woman fulfills my every needs. Mentally, emotionally, sexually, etc. I don't NEED any other female in my life and I wouldn't be okay with her banging some dude on the side either as long as it's "just physical". I don't buy that. I get what @Yamcha is saying and if you and your lady can separate the physical from the mental/emotional and that works for you, cool. My biggest thing is don't do anything you wouldn't be okay with your partner doing. If you're gonna cheat, make sure you're 100% fine with your lady cheating. Don't feel some type of way when your girl is getting with someone else. Nothing worse than a hypocrite.
But bottom line is it's just never made sense to me how you can love somebody and be okay with them and/or yourself lending your/their body to someone else. To me, it's all a package deal.
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It's an endless cycle. I've had chicks that I would be trying to smash for months but the moment I get into a relationship the same chicks that hide the box from me would be throwing it in my face. Smashed a chick about a month ago who is lowkey obsessed with my girlfriend. My girl has a big social circle and is followed a lot on IG 
(corniest **** ever) but this side piece had been crushing on me for the longest. Once she found out who my girlfriend was she threw the box at me the first night I chilled with her. But the crazy part is all she talks about is my girlfriend, how pretty she is and how she'd go gay for her 
pretty sure she just used me to get close to her
(corniest **** ever) but this side piece had been crushing on me for the longest. Once she found out who my girlfriend was she threw the box at me the first night I chilled with her. But the crazy part is all she talks about is my girlfriend, how pretty she is and how she'd go gay for her pretty sure she just used me to get close to her
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You'll be happier with your woman if you can bust a nut in another?
Oh lord.
People just find ways to sleep better at night. No pun intended.
Oh lord.
People just find ways to sleep better at night. No pun intended.
Nereyda Vuelve Por Dios
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So its like this ive accepted the fact i really cant remain faithful in a relationship. I keep it honest with the main girl and they usually hate it and fight it all that jazz but i do enough good and instill in them the idea that men are programmed to venture out and be with other women.
Some of my ex's have been ok with the idea as long as i dont bring it home, on the out of mind, out of sight ****.
Some of my ex's have been ok with the idea as long as i dont bring it home, on the out of mind, out of sight ****.
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The thing that I struggle with is that if I fight the urge to cheat(which I believe exists in all men) and actually succeed in not cheating on my girl(which could take an extreme amount of self control to do) I can't trust/assume that she is also that dedicated/disciplined with a faithful mindset. That scenario is very realistic and scary to know that you could be in one of those situations
ogmcmxcii
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You'll be happier with your woman if you can bust a nut in another?
Oh lord.
People just find ways to sleep better at night. No pun intended.
ogmcmxcii
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this^^^^^
