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How do you guys deal with flakey/unreliable people?
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Stop making plans with them.
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meh its part of growing up..people gravitate towards circles more comfortable to their interests in the time being. Have a homie I was real close with but dude started messing up...dropped out of school, starting smoking bud heavily and then soon became flaky when it came to chilling with me. It happens, sometimes its more peoples situations than anything that deters them from wanting to chill with you
some dudes straight up dont reply, answer their phones, etc and with those dudes I have a two strike policy, then its whatever I dont hit them up at all let alone chill with them. it is what it is, we're grown men if thats how you want things to be so be it, i'm busy here trying to get it for myself you with me or you get left behind
some dudes straight up dont reply, answer their phones, etc and with those dudes I have a two strike policy, then its whatever I dont hit them up at all let alone chill with them. it is what it is, we're grown men if thats how you want things to be so be it, i'm busy here trying to get it for myself you with me or you get left behind
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Get a new social circle. Real talk.
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i have a close group of boys (6 guys, been hanging out for almost 10 years now)
One dude started being flakey, we stopped inviting him.
We rarely see him anymore, but when we do, he still the fam.
One dude started being flakey, we stopped inviting him.
We rarely see him anymore, but when we do, he still the fam.
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You're expecting people to act the same way as you.
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I dont make plans with them.
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Hella difficult when you're 26 and straight outta college
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He never bothered to give me a ride home when my car broke down at school because his gf was "busy or in a bad mood." I called his friend that I just barely met 2 weeks prior and he came no questions asked. But turn the tables and all of a sudden I'm the bad guy. Let that sink in for a minute.
Reminds me of that saying, people get mad when you treat them how they treat you.
Real talk doe, I'll keep it movin. To the people that replied to this thread, you da real MVP
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Try meetup's
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^Funny you say that, I actually went to a meet up for a rave in SoCal for New Year's Eve, these cats were the weirdest mother#$%^&&* I've ever met in my life 
Never again.
Never again.
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^Funny you say that, I actually went to a meet up for a rave in SoCal for New Year's Eve, these cats were the weirdest mother#$%^&&* I've ever met in my life
Lol, you have to pick and choose and avoid. I was thinking the other day how strange it truly is to meet people
you've never meet before and just hang out. I've meet some cool people though, so I'm okay with it. Usually the
young professional meet up's are pretty legit in my area.
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Case by case. Piggy bank chicks I call them, drop a text here and there, to see if they jump. But never invest to much. If you hit cool, if not it was nothing. Passively have a chick i've been trying **** for a year almost. ONLY because she was responsive, keep it cordial. But the chick is a flake. Obviously this is for the side piece/low interest chicks. A penny here and there ain't much.
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Majority of the time. Keep it GQ and don't even trip doe.
You can't go into relationships expecting people to do things for you. You're just going to be disappointed.
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Unreliable people who say they will do something and then flake is my biggest pet peeve. I learned a long time ago though not hold most people up the the same standard that you would people like your family or very close friends .