DISCUSS: Is your girl wrong for not making the plate?

Glad I don't have this problem. Latinas from traditional families :smokin


Just let her know you appreciate it and will do the same for her.
 
Most of the time, my girl has it taken care of prior to me asking but sometimes in a social event, she may be too busy talking to friends/family so it's not a big deal. Plus i can fix my own plate the way I like it. I just :smh: at some of these old outdated cultures and traditions like how a woman is suppose to be at home... screw that.. girl has a brain, 2 arms, 2 legs, she can work and earn/support herself.
 
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I like this side of RelationshipNT better.

Specific scenarios are more interesting than "should I leave her?"

No disrespect to op of other thread but there's more nuance with questions like these.
 
if I'm hungry i'm going to make my own plate.  I mean I'm lazy but this is epic level of laziness
 
If your family goes to a buffet does your mother fix your fathers plate there?

I honestly don't remember the last time my parents went to a buffet. My mother makes really good food and enjoys doing so. Of course my father makes his own plate at times and he will cook for her as well.

A little off topic but my dad and I were going to a farm to get some beef/ goat and my mother stopped my father and tied his shoe :wow: :wow: i was so surprised. Obviously he can tie his own shoes, to them it was nothing, they go above and beyond for one another. To me I was amazed! i couldn't believe it. maybe that's why thy are still hapilly married after 35 years :pimp:

That being said it boils down to each individual. personally it would be nice for my chick to make my plate but i can do it myself. And I will be more than willing to make her a plate.
 
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I should have clarified...I get why this is accepted in some cultures. My girl is Algerian/Moroccan, and I don't think I've ever seen her dad fix his own plate in all my years of knowing their family.

However, what OP described is COMPLETELY different. Bordering on lazy/chauvinistic. That's where my problem with the whole scenario is. Also, comparing it to fixing a flat???? C'mon, bruh. Get you some Noxzema.
 
Fighting about such insignificant situations like these are the reason why lots of couples are unhappy or why a lot of people are single.

Bunch of drama queens.

Instead of telling your girl you're hungry like you're some child and she's shes your mother, get your *** up, ask your girl if SHES hungry and go fix both of you some plates.

I was raised better than to act like somebody needs to cater to me.
But if she already up why not ask her to get me a plate. Same thing if we was boys and I say "Hey son could you grab me a plate to".

It's not about taking charge it's just damn you already up could you fix me a plate to. What I'm getting at is wouldn't make my girl get up just to fix me a plate.
 
Im a man i open doors let a lady in the door 1st etc.....

Im a king in my mind and my queen should treat me as such

because i will treat her as she should be treated like a queen 

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Let's switch it up for the fellas...

You and ya shorty are at a restaurant, and she says that she's horny. She lets you know that she wants her booty ate like groceries and her toes sucked when yall get home, but you not the type to eat *** or suck toes so you ignore her. Another man overhears this and steps up and says "I'll eat the booty and suck the toes". They exchange numbers infront of you. Do you have a problem with this?
 
Let's switch it up for the fellas...

You and ya shorty are at a restaurant, and she says that she's horny. She lets you know that she wants her booty ate like groceries and her toes sucked when yall get home, but you not the type to eat *** or suck toes so you ignore her. Another man overhears this and steps up and says "I'll eat the booty and suck the toes". They exchange numbers infront of you. Do you have a problem with this?

of course, but u tell them ur into coocold. n u do 3 some. and DP
 
LOL I saw this on the Gram my old lady would make my plate because if another chick did it she would be heated. Then she would automatically think that I'm smashing the chick who fixed my plate. I remember I picked up some food from my friend I grew up with she didn't want to eat the food for whatever reason. Oh well two plates for me :D


So much truth.
 
Let's switch it up for the fellas...

You and ya shorty are at a restaurant, and she says that she's horny. She lets you know that she wants her booty ate like groceries and her toes sucked when yall get home, but you not the type to eat *** or suck toes so you ignore her. Another man overhears this and steps up and says "I'll eat the booty and suck the toes". They exchange numbers infront of you. Do you have a problem with this?
? Where dey do dat at
 
Your hands broken? Why can't you fix your own?

Some of yall think so ******* *** backwards. :smh:

So if you're with your girl hypothetically and her car has a flat so she pulls into the gas station, you're gonna let her fill up her own tires?

Some people value traditional gender roles still.

U serious right now? :lol:

Comparing fixing a plate to filling up tires.

Only on NT. Yall on something else today :lol:

How is that different though? They're both something that both people can do. Theyre both a gesture one can do for their mate

:lol: How do you not see the extremes here? It's like you're trying to be dense.

Ah the old deflect instead of provide a reason. ok...
 
You can only compare the right hand to the left hand. Dont dare to compare the
Let's switch it up for the fellas...

You and ya shorty are at a restaurant, and she says that she's horny. She lets you know that she wants her booty ate like groceries and her toes sucked when yall get home, but you not the type to eat *** or suck toes so you ignore her. Another man overhears this and steps up and says "I'll eat the booty and suck the toes". They exchange numbers infront of you. Do you have a problem with this?

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Let's switch it up for the fellas...

You and ya shorty are at a restaurant, and she says that she's horny. She lets you know that she wants her booty ate like groceries and her toes sucked when yall get home, but you not the type to eat *** or suck toes so you ignore her. Another man overhears this and steps up and says "I'll eat the booty and suck the toes". They exchange numbers infront of you. Do you have a problem with this?
Bruh already know she walking home. No reason to discuss this
 
if I'm hungry i'm going to make my own plate.  I mean I'm lazy but this is epic level of laziness
It ain't lazy breh.. It's a respect factor. If you're doing what you have to do as a man and handling responsibilities then she'll always think of your stomach. Being "hangry" can cause so much drama
 
It ain't lazy breh.. It's a respect factor. If you're doing what you have to do as a man and handling responsibilities then she'll always think of your stomach. Being "hangry" can cause so much drama
Oh trust me being hungry is not a good feeling and that's why if there's already food available I'll do the logical thing and go get it myself since that allows me to get it the fastest and also get exactly what I want.  
 
Ya in certain cultures the woman might fix a plate for her man or whatever, but what OP did was drop clues that he wanted his girl to fix a plate instead just asking.

I don't know of any culture where a man plays mind games with his girl  to do something as simple as fix a plate. That's a woman's trait. 


Total disrespect to OP.

I agree
 
You and ya shorty are in outer space. Her oxygen runs out. She lets you know that she needs air. You're not the type to share air. Third astronaut on board, who looks like Shazaa Zulu from a differen't world, overhears the conversation and says "I got ur air." He floats over, due to zero gravity, and gives your girl that oxygen. With extra electrons. Do you have a problem with this?
 
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