Recognizing That She's "Out Of Your League", Low Self-Confidence or Realism?

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Have you ever looked at women and thought to yourself, "I could never have that"? Do you think it's low self-confidence or being a realist?
 
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i just hit em with something like thissssssssssssssssssss....

"I feel silly asking you this, you probably get hit up by like fifty guys a day, I know you’re out of my league, and there’s no shot you’ll ever respond to this, but I just wanted to say, this is so stupid, you’re probably showing this to all your friends right now and laughing, my god, I am just not cut out for this… *sigh*… how was your day?"
 
lamekilla said:
You can't make a decision for her. You never know what a woman likes
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If you persist, it may be considered  harassment.
NazDrowie said:
 
i just hit em with something like thissssssssssssssssssss....

"I feel silly asking you this, you probably get hit up by like fifty guys a day, I know you’re out of my league, and there’s no shot you’ll ever respond to this, but I just wanted to say, this is so stupid, you’re probably showing this to all your friends right now and laughing, my god, I am just not cut out for this… *sigh*… how was your day?"
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 Wouldn't this be described as low-self confidence though?
 
Gotta think no girl is out of ur league dawg.

Who cares if a girl has 65k followers on IG? If u make her feel special, laugh and smile ur golden.
 
I'm a realist. With that being said however, I will not pretend to have the ability to quantify "attraction" and what may pull a woman towards me or repulse her. People view things differently and that's the beauty of humans. What puts off one person , draws in another. 

I'm currently a grad student, some women may find that out and see it as a positive some may see it as a negative. Same with me being a nerd , or black ,etc. Point is you are the sum of all your parts and everyone is truly in everyone's league.

Money, Fame, career, etc. doesn't put any woman outside of my reach or any person above me. They bleed just like you and I. Feel just as we do. And sweat the same. 

Don't doubt yourself OP. 
 
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thealumnus said:
 
I'm a realist. With that being said however, I will not pretend to have the ability to quantify "attraction" and what may pull a woman towards me or repulse her. People view things differently and that's the beauty of humans. What puts off one person , draws in another. 

I'm currently a grad student, some women may find that out and see it as a positive some may see it as a negative. Same with me being a nerd , or black ,etc. Point is you are the sum of all your parts and everyone is truly in everyone's league.

Money, Fame, career, etc. doesn't put any woman outside of my reach or any person above me. They bleed just like you and I. Feel just as we do. And sweat the same. 

Don't doubt yourself OP. 
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Good post, but I don't doubt myself.
 
HTG Designs said:
Low self confidence is when you tell yourself shes out of your league.
Realism is when the chick tell you herself that she's out of your league.
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werd... i see so many beat looking dudes with dime pieces and i think to myself why cant i do that... then of course the confidence thing plays a factor once i see a dime piece i immediately psyche myself out and say i cant get that! when in reality im overanalyzing and would never know the real outcome because i never try and just outthink the whole situation for no reason :smh:
 
This thread is so appropriate for the fact that I stepped to jhonni blaze today and tried to holla :lol: I approached her telling myself if Drake ****** I KNOW I can **** :smokin

...Granted she shot me down, but I'll be damn if a woman intimidates me. They don't bite unless you want them too. Remember OP, you create your own reality
 
I used to think that. Then I realized that very ugly dudes with mad money are getting badder broads very easily. As you get older you realize there is no league - just different arenas you end up in. If you can shine as the MVP on any given night/event you are going to have access to a wide array of yambs. At the end of the day, you could always pay for a 9 or 10 level looking girl for a one fun night. Not like it's that big of a deal. Finding a quality girl is much harder tbh. That bartender with no future and nothing solid to offer in a relationship may seem like a pedestal piece but in reality it's just your limiting mindset that puts her there.
 
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