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Early 30's FTW.
Whats a good age to get married at?
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Its always been 25+ for my family, it was a rule.
But where im at right now (location wise), i see 18-22 yo's getting married, having kids, then sign their life over to the military.
Im 26 and just looking for a turbo thatll fit in this brick.
But where im at right now (location wise), i see 18-22 yo's getting married, having kids, then sign their life over to the military.
Im 26 and just looking for a turbo thatll fit in this brick.
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Whenever u ready and want to ...one of the worst things is getting married just to do it or cuz of pressure ...can mess up all your emotions n finances
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My friend is an apprentice electrician and his dad is an electrician and he dealt with a bad divorce from what I remember my friend telling me.
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Imo & for me, not until the 30s.
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Is it safe to say that you loved the woman you were with then, rather than the woman that she would become?
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I got married at 23. I love it.
Say what you want, but I know this was the right decision for me...
Financially stable, good job, mature, unselfish (which is one of the biggest keys IMO)...
I love being married. I was never the go out and bring girls home type of guy though.
Say what you want, but I know this was the right decision for me...
Financially stable, good job, mature, unselfish (which is one of the biggest keys IMO)...
I love being married. I was never the go out and bring girls home type of guy though.
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I never understood why ppl have a baby at a young age and they automatically get married. Is it a religous or cultural thing? Ive only seen mexicans/latins do things like that.
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No offense, but what anout marriage is exciting? The title? Or did your woman start loving you more and giving you more of her because you gave her a ring?
I ask cuz i just cant wrap my head around the concept of marriage
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In addition to my earlier response, I'm 26 & haven't had nearly enough V to be thinking about retirement. I need more 'chips, gunning for a 3 peat before it's time to hang it up.
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That is too common nowadays.
Im bout to be 30, been married since I was 23.
If for some reason it does not work out I will never get married again
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same here man, going on 7 years of marriage. Got married at 23, no regrets. Both successful and loving life.
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Some religions and cultures would advise to get married at a young age to avoid promiscuity, children out of wedlock/ std's. I am not sure about having children at a young age though. I hope this doesn't come off as prejudice or anything but a lot of foreigners have many children in the states so that the children can be citizens and can have a better opportunity here.
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The thrill of being married is being in love and knowing you are doing the "right" thing
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So 'doing the right thing' by being married offsets the euphoria of love and happiness in itself?
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No offense taken my man.
To me, the exciting part of being married is going home to your best friend that you call your wife everyday. I enjoy the little things in marriage (all that cheesy lovey dovey stuff that I won't list on here) ...it wasn't the title and/or the ring at all.
I got married because the girl I was with (that I met in high school, dated throughout college) was my best friend and made me a better person. I knew that she was put into my life for a reason and I believe that God paired us together. So, I knew I was eventually going to marry her, so I thought why would I wait? I wanted to start my family with her and knew I was able to get married and had the support of my family, so I did it.
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Good for you man, happy to read that.
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Like 45-50
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The euphoria of love eventually dims
The hard part of marriage is living with someone who wants to low key control you. You also have to base a lot your decisions off another person which can be frustrating when men and women don't always have the same ideas. I think the best marriages work when each partner mutually submit to each other and different times.
The hard part of marriage is living with someone who wants to low key control you. You also have to base a lot your decisions off another person which can be frustrating when men and women don't always have the same ideas. I think the best marriages work when each partner mutually submit to each other and different times.
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No less than 42 for a man.
Men who get married without traveling, throwing down at their careers, and smashing as many girls as they can
JUDGED!
Men who get married without traveling, throwing down at their careers, and smashing as many girls as they can
JUDGED!
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30 and above for this generation.. Its crazy to think about being married at 21- 25 years old.
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Got married at 29. Been married for a year now. I would say somewhere around 28-32 would be the best age. It varies from couple to couple though.
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I had my first daughter at 23.
Got married at 25.
Had my first son at 28.
So when he's 12 I will be 40 and can continue to wash him for almost a decade, till he starts returning the favor.
KIds also benefits from having "young" parents cus they tend to be more active families.
I never wanted kids/ family cus im selfish af, but Ive grown out of it once I started having them.
There's really no genereal rule. its all about what you want out of life.
I wouldnt change mine. I met a good woman that I knew wouldn't come
around twice. I rolled the dice, and so far, so great.
Got married at 25.
Had my first son at 28.
So when he's 12 I will be 40 and can continue to wash him for almost a decade, till he starts returning the favor.
KIds also benefits from having "young" parents cus they tend to be more active families.
I never wanted kids/ family cus im selfish af, but Ive grown out of it once I started having them.
There's really no genereal rule. its all about what you want out of life.
I wouldnt change mine. I met a good woman that I knew wouldn't come
around twice. I rolled the dice, and so far, so great.
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I got married at 28.
It was the perfect age for me.
It was the perfect age for me.
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