I bash when they are deceptive on what is being donated and where it actually goes. Be upfront and give me the information. Then I'll decide on the worthiness. I also disagree with same causes and charities year after year.
And believe it or not, some of us donate without writing it off
I agree with what you've been saying.
For a company like the NFL charitable donations are literally worth taking for granted—their lawyers tell them to do it as a tax write off and it's essentially mandated by their status. So how much and what they actually do with that money is what really matters.