**** Shaming

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I've said many times that I like hanging around males and many of my best friends are male ( gay) but nonetheless they offer a really good perspective on relationships and the way men are.


I also read some of the threads here on relationships and wanted to intervene a few times about guy's taking responsibility for their actions. I noticed that some men do not have much of a conscious about sex and don't take accountabilty for damaging a lot of women by manipulating for sex or hanging around when they are only after one thing. Those guys are even slapped on the back and called savages

It's always the woman's fault if she decides to sleep with a man early on in sex. She is also treated differently based off her actions whereas a lot of men don't count themselves in the equation. And treating women differently off such a thing is still treating a woman wrong whether she gave it up early on or late. You are still being a slimeball.I wonder if any man who uses and ditches women like kleenex tissues will be happy with it being done to their mother or daughter.

One of the reasons I bring this up is my profession. Some of these girls will get done dirty and never really open up mentally and physically to another man. Others become promiscuous. My mom was raped became the latter. Either way they don't have balanced healthy sex lives. Some of them have sich low self esteem that they give themselves away because it's the only attention they feel they will get and if they can feel wanted for moment that is good enough.

Can more men take responsibility for their actions and stop mistreating "slutty" girls even more than they've been done.
 
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People are grown and make their own decisions. Deal with whatever happens after that. Point blank

Some people have been raped of course, they can't help it, but if you are a female and are just giving it up to so many dudes, you will have a reputation that follows you. That is just something you have to deal with.
 
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How isn't it the woman's fault if sex happens early? Typically men are the aggressors, and it takes the woman to say yes for it to happen obviously.

The woman is faced with a choice, and she consents to it knowing it's wrong, then yes I feel it is fair to **** shame. She knew it was wrong and still did it.

Why she did it is all hoopla. Whether she was weak, wanted attention, low self esteem, horny, etc...all of those reasons don't justify it.

As a woman all you have to do is say no, (regardless of the males influence) and you won't be a victim of "**** shaming". You made your bed now lie in it.
 
If they give just give up their ***** to every hard **** they deserve to be **** shamed.
 
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If she is aware of the stigma attached to the action she's about to take and accepts it, why should she be championed or paraded in a different light than the one she cast upon herself?

It's a bit of a stretch to compare victims of rape to women who choose to be promiscuous.

Stop trying to save these ****.
 
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Men use women

Women use men

The same way some men don't see anything wrong with using woman for sex, especially since she see willing participant

Is just like

The same way some women don't see anything wrong with friend-zoning dudes for attention and gifts, especially since he is a willing participant
 
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I feel you have it very wrong as do most men. Women are just as promiscuous as men and women crave sex just as much as men. The only difference is there is a double standard and women will be talked down on for being promiscuous so many times they hide it. Show a woman you're not going to judge her and have her trust you won't hurt her and aren't being manipulative. If you reveal your true intentions even if it is only sexual desire they will open up and reveal their true sexuality.

I do agree there is a problem with most men who try to trick women into sex or manipulate them through hopes of a relationship. Men need to do nothing more then reveal their true intentions and truly enjoy women rather then see them as a puzzle to solve for sex. You'll be rolling in vagina if you don't chase it, make your desire for her known and just enjoy her as she is.
 
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It's damned if you do, damned if you don't type of situation in regards to sex.

Me personally. If I'm feeling a girl and she's feeling me and she doesn't want to have sex within 1-2 months. Something is wrong. Maybe it's for religious reasons, maybe personal preference, whatever the case may be I'm a person that helps feel validated in a relationship with a woman if we can be intimate.

If she gives it up early...I may think something about it (within a couple days to a week) but I'm not gonna shame her for it.

Like other posters have said, past 21 years of age your are considered an adult. Maturity-wise....it's definetely debatable, but thats a standard age where you should have gained insight into the relationships between man, woman, and sex.

Blame society, but let's not pretend there aren't sluts out there.

It a vicious circle in this relationship game. If you have sex too early your a ****, if you don't have sex early enough the guy will leave your *** because your not fulfilling one of his desires. ONE of his desires that can be very important depending on the guy.

You wanna change the game....cut out ******ed social media and reality T.V. that thinks for you and makes your decisions on what is what, and who is what.
 
So you're saying men should treat "sluts" better? No. Even if we did, what would that change? They're already damaged. Still though, no.
 
Kellyrep said:
I've said many times that I like hanging around males and many of my best friends are male ( gay) but nonetheless they offer a really good perspective on relationships and the way men are.


I also read some of the threads here on relationships and wanted to intervene a few times about guy's taking responsibility for their actions. I noticed that some men do not have much of a conscious about sex and don't take accountabilty for damaging a lot of women by manipulating for sex or hanging around when they are only after one thing. Those guys are even slapped on the back and called savages

It's always the woman's fault if she decides allow to sleep with a man early on in sex. She is also treated differently based off her actions whereas a lot of men don't count themselves in the equation. And treating women differently off such a thing is still treating a woman wrong whether she gave it up early on or late. You are still being a slimeball.I wonder if any man who uses and ditches women like kleenex tissues will be happy with it being done to their mother or daughter.

One of the reasons I bring this up is my profession. Some of these girls will get done dirty and never really open up mentally and physically to another man. Others become promiscuous. My mom was raped became the latter. Either way they don't have balanced healthy sex lives. Some of them have sich low self esteem that they give themselves away because it's the only attention they feel they will get and if they can feel wanted for moment that is good enough.

Can more men take responsibility for their actions and stop mistreating "slutty" girls even more than they've been done.
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There you have it
 
Yamcha said:
I do agree there is a problem with most men who try to trick women into sex or manipulate them through hopes of a relationship. Men need to do nothing more then reveal their true intentions and truly enjoy women rather then see them as a puzzle to solve for sex. You'll be rolling in vagina if you don't chase it, make your desire for her known and just enjoy her as she is.
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I disagree. With the women that want to have sex no strings attached, it never even gets to that point where guys either have to lie or be honest. Usually guys only lie to or try to trick the ones that have clearly stated that they aren't interested in casual sex.

I look at all the JO's I've had in my life, I never had to tell any of them I was only looking for sex.
 
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People are grown and make their own decisions. Deal with whatever happens after that. Point blank

Some people have been raped of course, they can't help it, but if you are a female and are just giving it up to so many dudes, you will have a reputation that follows you. That is just something you have to deal with.
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a blinkin said:
If she is aware of the stigma attached to the action she's about to take and accepts it, why should she be championed or paraded in a different light than the one she cast upon herself?

It's a bit of a stretch to compare victims of rape to women who choose to be pernicious.

Stop trying to save these ****.
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Women as a whole benefit from the double standard, tho. The shaming and negative attention that comes from being overly promiscuous causes women to limit amount of partners they are willing to have. This causes an uneven balance in the supply and demand of sex, creating a market that heavily favors women in terms of sexual selection.

There's a reason many overweight and/or aesthetically deficient women can sleep with good looking men at the drop of a hat. Even if the opportunity to sleep with men well out of your range is something that women don't really want to take advantage of too often, it's still a major plus in general and gives women a lot of leverage before entertaining men for serious relationships as well. At age 16-20, many if not most girls are througly enjoying those opportunities. The ones that take too much advantage of it do get shamed, but if they didn't, then the opportunities to sleep with men above their level would no longer exist.

The double standard creates an environment where women are in a much better place than men when it comes to sexual selection. I don't understand why they complain about it. I'd trade places with them in a heartbeat.
 
Pop **** I stroke a ****. And soon as her mouth open up what? Same color as coconut.

/thread

There's nothing wrong with sluts. As long as they know their place
 
Just happened to stumble in on this but as others have stated if we are talking about adults then the decision is your own and with any action there are certain risks as well as rewards. I agree there is a double standard when it comes to men and womens sexual behavior but that's how the ball is currently bounced. If you as a woman want sleep with a bunch of people man or woman and do it without getting to know them then that's on you but there is also a stigma that rolls with it. If you are a grown *** man skemeing on high school girls that's one thing(and pretty scumbagish) but a consensual decision between adults is just that. Nobody is forcing sex on anyone and if a woman wants to give it up quick she should be smart enough to know there is no guarantee it's gonna  work out or she will not be judged. Men are judged or labeled all the time as well. I have had girlfriends that thought just because I was a **** when I was single or when they first met me that means I am most likely going to cheat on them. Not the case because if I'm single I can do what I want but hey they are just making a decision and judgement off of what they think and have seen. And as the relationship grew they realized that was not the case when it was a committed relationship. As far as what happened to your Moms that sucks and I am sorry but I don't know if her situation makes all women victims does it? Whatever 2 cents thrown in.
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