**** Shaming

Women allow for sex to happen. Men and women are both considered **** when having a lot of multiple partners. I do t see what the problem is .
 
I think the problem with **** shaming lies more within the female community then male. When you hear your boy is smashing a bunch of women you give him props, but females insult each other over it.
 
Gonna be honest, stopped at "hanging out with a bunch of guys."
Not because it's wrong
Because I have a short attention span and lost intrest

If you're going to be a ****, own up to it. I respect females who will willingly say "I'm a ****, and I suck **** all the damn time". I mean don't expect me to superman cape you because you're a *** but you know... good for you.
 
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I think the problem with **** shaming lies more within the female community then male. When you hear your boy is smashing a bunch of women you give him props, but females insult each other over it.
Women can be incredibly mean to each other. 
 
I thought in NOVA it was called kellyrep shaming?

Anyways Future Hussein Obama II said " I was f'ing a **** and I was thinking of you." The prophet himself pretty much said no harm, no foul. Lock this up b.
 
So OP is basically saying that women aren't responsible for their actions?

This victim culture is getting out of hand.
 
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Women can be incredibly mean to each other. 


Men do it a lot and love to talk , spread rumors about women.


Oh.

Nike talk even posts pictures of women . So all over social media women are dragged in the dirt. Even if a eoman/ teenage girl/ baby momma whatever had the self assurance to change and actually meet a nice guy. Gyess what? Her image, past, exes are plastered up or spread about amongst males as notches in the bedpost.
 
Aside from half the dudes on NT pretending to have girls on girls on girls, most people, both men and women, put themselves in these situations. Guys go out looking for women. It's human nature. If a woman doesnt't want to be "found" (insert your own F word here) then they need to go somewhere else.

Having said that, most of NT don't have kids. If they had kids, they wouldn't spend as much time here. Now, if they had a daugther, especially a daugther that is dating, they'd all have different views on the situation. Not necessarily for the better, but different nonetheless. I have a daugther, but I too was one of those dudes you're talking about. My solution is to show my daugther how guys can be. I have come to terms with how men treat women. I know how guys can be. I know how manipulative I was. It was almost a game to me. I just have to teach my daugther to apprecaite herself.. to love herself... and to respect herself.

OP blaming guys for the decisions grown women make is almost laughable. A women with self respect, self discipline, a woman that loves herself and knows her worth will never be put in these situations. If someone lacks just ONE of those characteristics, dudes will take advantage of it.
 
You don't understand. People do it to the woman and not the man. Both were participants.

I have a feeling NT just isn't the place you are going to find the discussion on this issue you are hoping for.

Personally I get what you're saying, but this topic is really just a small part of the larger discussion of traditional gender roles and systemic gender bias. Everything that people ascribe to "men being different" has nothing to do with human nature. It's just what our collective consciousness and societies have accepted as being human nature over time.

Either way, you'll have no problem finding better discussion on this elsewhere.
 
Men do it a lot and love to talk , spread rumors about women.


Oh.

Nike talk even posts pictures of women . So all over social media women are dragged in the dirt. Even if a eoman/ teenage girl/ baby momma whatever had the self assurance to change and actually meet a nice guy. Gyess what? Her image, past, exes are plastered up or spread about amongst males as notches in the bedpost.

Welp. Her bad.
 
How isn't it the woman's fault if sex happens early? Typically men are the aggressors, and it takes the woman to say yes for it to happen obviously.

The woman is faced with a choice, and she consents to it knowing it's wrong, then yes I feel it is fair to **** shame. She knew it was wrong and still did it.




You really don't think that there are men who seek out vulnerable women for sex?


When I was 14 walking home from school , there would be grown *** men waiting outside campus grounds for girls to walk by. You know who were more likely to talk to them and hop in? Girls from broken families.


On NT , I've seen countless threads about dating baby mamas. What's the advice? Smash and leave. Don't catch feelings....don't get in deep. It's shaming these women when they did the same thing childless women were doing without the end result.



Why she did it is all hoopla. Whether she was weak, wanted attention, low self esteem, horny, etc...all of those reasons don't justify it.

As a woman all you have to do is say no, (regardless of the males influence) and you won't be a victim of "**** shaming". You made your bed now lie in it.
 
Aside from half the dudes on NT pretending to have girls on girls on girls, most people, both men and women, put themselves in these situations. Guys go out looking for women. It's human nature. If a woman doesnt't want to be "found" (insert your own F word here) then they need to go somewhere else.

Having said that, most of NT don't have kids. If they had kids, they wouldn't spend as much time here. Now, if they had a daugther, especially a daugther that is dating, they'd all have different views on the situation. Not necessarily for the better, but different nonetheless. I have a daugther, but I too was one of those dudes you're talking about. My solution is to show my daugther how guys can be. I have come to terms with how men treat women. I know how guys can be. I know how manipulative I was. It was almost a game to me. I just have to teach my daugther to apprecaite herself.. to love herself... and to respect herself.

OP blaming guys for the decisions grown women make is almost laughable. A women with self respect, self discipline, a woman that loves herself and knows her worth will never be put in these situations. If someone lacks just ONE of those characteristics, dudes will take advantage of it.



If a man will sleep with a woman on the 1st date, he should be subject to the same type of scrutiny as she is.
 
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