What would you do NT? Vol. Celibacy

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God's, this situation got me all types of trippin.

Cliffs:
- met a girl 2 months ago. Been casually dating her. I was dating another girl at the time and never really thought much of her until recently because I cut the other girl out
- cool, down-to-earth chick. Vibe really well with her. Has great value's....except she drops this bombshell on me...


SHE WANTS TO BE CELIBATE. :x

She's 29, I'm 30.

I mean I was casually dating her and just recently we tried to move towards something more serious and i've been flirting with her with sexual talk here and there and she dropped the celibacy line on me tonight.

She basically told me that she's only been in 2 relationships in her life, each of which lasted 3+ years. I asked her why she wants to be celibate and she told me that she always kinda felt like this and because she did have sex in her previous relationships and those didn't work out so to know if a guy really likes her now, he'll wait.

For a lack for better words I told her I respect her for her decision but I don't agree with it because TO ME sex is an important factor when looking at budding relationship from a holistic standpoint....I think it's a valid point. I told her that she shouldn't think i'm into her just for sex but it's a combination of things. She asked me where we stand and I told her idk....

Now before we start all this Tyrone talk, I do think she's digging me. Girl goes above and beyond what some chickenheads would do for theirs. She bakes me cakes, pays for ****, initiates mostly all the convo's, laughs at my stupid jokes even when I think their corny, etc.

Really nice girl but man, I can't get over this celibacy thing. It's like the one thing stopping her from being a good prospect for me....

She sounded so sad when I told her i'm not bout that celibate life.

I told her I would still meetup with her tomorrow to chill....

What would ya'll think of something like this?
 
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But srs, just play the part b.. if she wants the d eventually she'll come around. What else can you do?
 
Its cuz i been beatin the brakes off dat coochie. She dont need anymore pleasure



put a molly in her champagne so you can enjoy that



dont do that **** mayne
 
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This the plan b.




Yall go out. Get her a little tipsy. yall go back to your place (assuming you weirdos have slept in the same before). While she's drunk sleep, slide that thang in. She get upset, play it off on some "my bad i forgot" or "im just playin >D ". If she doesn't trip, then go in for the kill and smash with the force of a Deandre Jordan putback and 300 raging spartans my *****.

I was gonna do this....but then I realized this is rape....rape be no bueno

Don't rape B.
 
This the plan b.




Yall go out. Get her a little tipsy. yall go back to your place (assuming you weirdos have slept in the same before). While she's drunk sleep, slide that thang in. She get upset, play it off on some "my bad i forgot" or "im just playin >D ". If she doesn't trip, then go in for the kill and smash with the force of a Deandre Jordan putback and 300 raging spartans my *****.

Then when she wants to get married, go back to the old chick. Also on some Deandre shh.
 
 
This the plan b.




Yall go out. Get her a little tipsy. yall go back to your place (assuming you weirdos have slept in the same before). While she's drunk sleep, slide that thang in. She get upset, play it off on some "my bad i forgot" or "im just playin 
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". If she doesn't trip, then go in for the kill and smash with the force of a Deandre Jordan putback and 300 raging spartans my *****.
I was gonna do this....but then I realized this is rape....rape be no bueno

Don't rape B.
not if you're both drunk right? 
 
My Real Response

All that **** she said....

Sounds like **** girls in HS say.....

Wow. Bruh exit stage left, relationship wise she's 19 physically she's 29.

My NT Response

PIITB
 
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I just thought of the same thing Jay.

Like, how are you this old and NOW thinking of doing that.

What's funny is that when she told me this and I told her that's not what i'm looking for she said "why don't we talk about this tomorrow" like between the time of now and then I was gonna change my mind and become celibate.

More like celibaG TFOH

Vibed well with her too. But I don't be keeping superfluous females around like that....

Idk wtf i'm liable to say to her tomorrow. Or if I even show up....
 
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If she's cool with polyamory by all means keep talking to her and just game other girls. If not tell her to kick rocks.
 
I mean, you can still hang wit her and tear down other broads, rite?

I would say, I really enjoy pending time with you. I cant make any promises, nor change my desires, but for you I am willing to try. Im digging you and if you want me to take my time, I want to make sure you are comfortable and ready in every aspect....
Meanwhile you tearing down gazelles in the every open grass plain. You unleash the stress of the mere thought of any sexual
deprivation with maximum ferocity. And when ever you chill wit this chick, seduce and tease the **** outta her til her own ovaries
turn against her and shes left in agony without the d, showing up at your job naked, in shambles, begging you to put the head in.
 
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I wouldn't drop her immediately but no way would I marry her without smashing first

No harm in seeing where it goes at first. She's liable to change her mind
 
Been dating for two months? How long ago was her most recent break up? I bet $20 she's still smashing the ex. A girl will flat out say she wants to be celibate with you while still getting those pipe sessions from an ex that she's not quite ready to give up on.

If you don't want to wait around until she's ready, don't. No reason to think about it any more than that. She's known for a while now whether or not you were going to get the P. Unfortunately, you drew the Nice-Guy-Who-Will-Wait straw in her courting game.

Ask any group of women you're cool with if you don't believe me. :lol:
 
A patient woman is hard to find these days.
Yet, a patient man is even harder. She'll cave in if she thinks your worth it.
 
I mean, you can still hang wit her and tear down other broads, rite?

I would say, I really enjoy pending time with you. I cant make any promises, nor change my desires, but for you I am willing to try. Im digging you and if you want me to take my time, I want to make sure you are comfortable and ready in every aspect....
Meanwhile you tearing down gazelles in the every open grass plain. You unleash the stress of the mere thought of any sexual
deprivation with maximum ferocity. And when ever you chill wit this chick, seduce and tease the **** outta her til her own ovaries
turn against her and shes left in agony without the d, showing up at your job naked, in shambles, begging you to put the head in.

This dude here knows what's up. :smokin
Has potential to be highly amusing if you are into getting her to chase you. Show her interest aka be physical but take it away leaving her wanting more and most definitely be seeing other chicks. When she does flip the sex will be epic.
 
Honestly for a 29-year old she sounds kind of lame.

Im still surprised that came out of the mouth of a 30-year old woman.

Coo on that.
 
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Honestly bruh? Just ride it out for a while.


See where it goes.


Her rationale isn't that convoluted and like another NTer said, she'll give it up sooner rather than later if the chemistry is really there.



On the other hand you don't sound like you feeling her like that.



So maybe it's best that you don't go that route.


IDK...Proceed with caution.
 
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