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Does she at least let you touch her breast OP 
What would you do NT? Vol. Celibacy
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These threads are always full of bad advice.
She's 29, you're 30. Her biological clock is ticking, how much longer you think she's going to hold out, assuming you both eventually want kids?
How long does she want to stay celibate? Probably won't tell you cause you'll probably be counting down the days until its over, being super nice cause you don't wanna mess up.
No reason to cut her off immediately. Probably playing mind games with you.
She's 29, you're 30. Her biological clock is ticking, how much longer you think she's going to hold out, assuming you both eventually want kids?
How long does she want to stay celibate? Probably won't tell you cause you'll probably be counting down the days until its over, being super nice cause you don't wanna mess up.
No reason to cut her off immediately. Probably playing mind games with you.
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I don't think...
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Come through my ninja!Sidebarjayzz yo I'm going to be up that way in Charlotte this weekend fam
Where you gon be staying at?
Do not pick any extended stay hotels.
Just don't.
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She wasnt celibate with them other dudes but now she tryna run that script on op. Foh. I hope u not spending bread on her fam. I would have cut her off tbh
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Yup, she just testing you bruh.These threads are always full of bad advice.
She's 29, you're 30. Her biological clock is ticking, how much longer you think she's going to hold out, assuming you both eventually want kids?
How long does she want to stay celibate? Probably won't tell you cause you'll probably be counting down the days until its over, being super nice cause you don't wanna mess up.
No reason to cut her off immediately. Probably playing mind games with you.
It won't last long, but I'm surprised you been good with dating her for 2 months with no sex
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Oh you already dating her OP?!?!?
Thought you were considering it lololol
Cut that ***** off and go get some good puh somewhere else
Thought you were considering it lololol
Cut that ***** off and go get some good puh somewhere else
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I personally think that celibacy excuse is a bunch a ********. If you can't your "meal" from her, get it from somewhere else.
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Well....idk if we've been dating. More like hanging out.
Honestly I was just trying to feel her out.
We don't do dinner and movies type stuff. More like go sit in the park and talk, go grab some Pho, go walk around type of deals.
Do I think she was testing me? Yea.
But, I do think I gave her a valid reason as to why I don't feel the need to be celibate. She seemed to respect that. With all that being said she still a cool female but what I feel i'm going to do is just kick it with her for a bit while looking for other things and if it doesn't seem like it would go anywhere sexual i'm just gonna phase out of chilling with her because I think it's the most respectful thing to do for both of us.
I like shooting the breeze with her. She's a very go with the flow type of girl so it's not no hair off my head to continue to chill with her and kick it.
If it should have it would have nah mean.
I mean I personally think it's a dumb move, but I respect her for telling me and not wasting my time further with it.
If she comes around then it's all good. If not then maybe it's best we stay acquaintances.
Honestly I was just trying to feel her out.
We don't do dinner and movies type stuff. More like go sit in the park and talk, go grab some Pho, go walk around type of deals.
Do I think she was testing me? Yea.
But, I do think I gave her a valid reason as to why I don't feel the need to be celibate. She seemed to respect that. With all that being said she still a cool female but what I feel i'm going to do is just kick it with her for a bit while looking for other things and if it doesn't seem like it would go anywhere sexual i'm just gonna phase out of chilling with her because I think it's the most respectful thing to do for both of us.
I like shooting the breeze with her. She's a very go with the flow type of girl so it's not no hair off my head to continue to chill with her and kick it.
If it should have it would have nah mean.
I mean I personally think it's a dumb move, but I respect her for telling me and not wasting my time further with it.
If she comes around then it's all good. If not then maybe it's best we stay acquaintances.
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This the plan b.
Yall go out. Get her a little tipsy. yall go back to your place (assuming you weirdos have slept in the same before). While she's drunk sleep, slide that thang in. She get upset, play it off on some "my bad i forgot" or "im just playin". If she doesn't trip, then go in for the kill and smash with the force of a Deandre Jordan putback and 300 raging spartans my *****.
That's a guaranteed first class trip up north, pa. Thats rape.
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Enough advice, where that pic at?
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So many jewels dropped in this thread for OP.
Smash other chicks and hang with her. She probably will get jelly.
Smash other chicks and hang with her. She probably will get jelly.
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That'll get her on her A game. Chicks hate competition.
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If that's the case, men would be out here dressing like women, in an attempt to out do their girls.
Oh wait...that's happening
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I'm going to be staying at either my homie's girl's crib or this one joint I have up there. We're supposed to be hitting "stache" later. You can fall through if you want my dude.
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yup.
this sounds like something a teenager would say.
id cut her off in a minute.
aint no females i want to kick it with for just "company" , if i aint smashing ill dead that.
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OP might be dating Kellyrep and he ain't even know it
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Honestly homie just wait it out. See where it goes, ya only be dating for two months. When the urge hits and she rejects you then you keep it moving.
Dont press just makes you look thirsty. Try it when she is a lil liquored up because her guard might be down a little.
Or maybe you dont turn her on in any which way. She may be nice to you and likes your personsality but you cant get the cat wet.
Dont press just makes you look thirsty. Try it when she is a lil liquored up because her guard might be down a little.
Or maybe you dont turn her on in any which way. She may be nice to you and likes your personsality but you cant get the cat wet.
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What will celibacy do for her? What is the point? To prove that you really like her? If taking her on dates and such doesn't prove that then I dunno what to tell you.
There are plenty of other moist walls to get into that won't give you that stipulation. Both of yall are grown and she is acting like a teenager.
There are plenty of other moist walls to get into that won't give you that stipulation. Both of yall are grown and she is acting like a teenager.
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Well, I think she's using it as a marriage tactic.
Basically, her parents told her that she makes poor decisions when it comes to guys and that they wanna find a guy for her (arranged type deal). They told this to her after we started hanging out.
Her last relationship ended about 5-6 months ago.
She basically told me she's feeling me and doesn't want them to find a guy for her.
I told her, basically, that I'm not into waiting for sex.
Womp.
I'll meet up with her today. I just plan on not talking about it and having fun. Lotta girls out there meng. I'm not trippin anymore.
Basically, her parents told her that she makes poor decisions when it comes to guys and that they wanna find a guy for her (arranged type deal). They told this to her after we started hanging out.
Her last relationship ended about 5-6 months ago.
She basically told me she's feeling me and doesn't want them to find a guy for her.
I told her, basically, that I'm not into waiting for sex.
Womp.
I'll meet up with her today. I just plan on not talking about it and having fun. Lotta girls out there meng. I'm not trippin anymore.
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Does she have her **** together at her age?
Do YOU see yourself with her?
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Do YOU see yourself with her?
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This reminds me of this chick that I've known since HS that's celibate until marriage. Virgin. She's deep into church, but not on that preachy tip.
Extremely beautiful.
Went to college with her too, and have not heard a single story about her. Not a thing. So I gotta believe that the box is still DS.
I always tell myself that if we ever cross paths again, I wouldn't have an issue giving up sex to be with her. I'd put a ring on that b.
Low key waiting for her to reactivate that Facebook so I can shoot my shot.
But as far as your situation OP, I'd be reluctant to give up sex for a stranger.
Of course you could have others on the side, but I'm trying to get away from juggling several women at once.
Extremely beautiful.
Went to college with her too, and have not heard a single story about her. Not a thing. So I gotta believe that the box is still DS.
I always tell myself that if we ever cross paths again, I wouldn't have an issue giving up sex to be with her. I'd put a ring on that b.
Low key waiting for her to reactivate that Facebook so I can shoot my shot.
But as far as your situation OP, I'd be reluctant to give up sex for a stranger.
Of course you could have others on the side, but I'm trying to get away from juggling several women at once.
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I'm a youngin, I'd ruin the fun b
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