What would you do NT? Vol. Celibacy

GrimlocK said:
UPDATE:

Met up with this chick today.

It was a big elephant in the room. I basically started digging into the situation to learn why she is this way. She told me she's insecure about certain things and she feels like guys only like her because of her body. She said this is why she's only had 2-3 relationships in her life.

Whatever the case may be I broke her down. I reiterated my stance on it and basically told her that the guys who may have done her wrong (which I'm not really sure did her wrong, maybe moreso she thought they would last and they didnt) are still getting the upperhand on her now because she's applying their outline to new guys (i.e., ME).

She told me that this celibacy thing in a new concept for her and I asked her how firm she is about it....she basically told me she's not really firm about it at all and just wanted to see where my mindset was.

I told her sex is one of many other factors when in a relationship to me and it is an important one. I told her i'm not gonna budge on my stance of not dealing with celibacy.

We chilled for a bit more, sensual flirting, biting and etc.

I think i'm good now.
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Fabolous - Take It Easy

"Love me in my city don't try me with the THOT ****"

Should have just hit her with that line.
 
GrimlocK said:
you know what I mean son.

I was grabbing her by the arms and pushing her up against walls.
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You smash or nah?

Think you're over-analyzing this, fam. You're 30 and haven't even hit your peak yet.

This bird is giving red flags all over. There's a reason those other dudes didn't commit.
 
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This wont end well....


She using you to avoid an arranged marriage.....

Are you the guy that made the Im dating a muslim chick?


yeah stop talking to her
 
Been there done that. Bishes pull this ish all the time. Ride it out but use the art of jealousy on her. Females are naturally jealous of other females. Make her think you have a really close female friend that you like spending time with. When she hits you up be like your friend made plans for you two to hang out and do so and so

The girl will get jealous and would want your undevided attention instead of sharing you. Before you know it she'll be giving up the box with the quickness
 
Slighted said:
You smash or nah?

Think you're over-analyzing this, fam. You're 30 and haven't even hit your peak yet.

This bird is giving red flags all over. There's a reason those other dudes didn't commit.
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I think she has a penor
 
Honestly, it seems like she's ready to get married and she probably wants to find a guy in the same wavelength, rather than just guys who wanna smash but have no intention on taking it further. If you're not ready to settle down why bother
 
GrimlocK said:
UPDATE:

Met up with this chick today.

It was a big elephant in the room. I basically started digging into the situation to learn why she is this way. She told me she's insecure about certain things and she feels like guys only like her because of her body. She said this is why she's only had 2-3 relationships in her life.

Whatever the case may be I broke her down. I reiterated my stance on it and basically told her that the guys who may have done her wrong (which I'm not really sure did her wrong, maybe moreso she thought they would last and they didnt) are still getting the upperhand on her now because she's applying their outline to new guys (i.e., ME).

She told me that this celibacy thing in a new concept for her and I asked her how firm she is about it....she basically told me she's not really firm about it at all and just wanted to see where my mindset was.

I told her sex is one of many other factors when in a relationship to me and it is an important one. I told her i'm not gonna budge on my stance of not dealing with celibacy.

We chilled for a bit more, sensual flirting, biting and etc.

I think i'm good now.
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Hmm...
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She sounds like a classy lady OP. Have patience and see where this goes.
 
YNS

maybe you need this since you'll have plenty of time on your hands.
 
She's 29, has only been in 2 relationships, each which was 3+ years, and she's celibate because she feels like sex was the only reason why those TWO guys were with her??? You can be the baddest chick, and a guy isn't gonna stay with them 3+ years solely for sex :lol: :lol: seems like those relationships ended for reasons other than sex.
 
That's what I'm thinking.

I need to dig deeper.

Can't rule her out just yet, but def. can't say she's a keeper either. Too soon for all that.

I'm glad I got through this hurdle and I appreciate the GOOD advice in this thread.
 
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