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If i get a girl how do i keep her happy during a relation ship?

share tips to help girlfriends stay loyal and happy so we can avoid all the threads about heartbreak and stuff :nerd:

so how do yall in relationships keep ya girl happy?
 
Buy her things. If she talks to her friends and make her friend jealous about the gifts you buy her you are in good.

Don't be cheap
 
Moderation- You continuously spoil her and you'll be setting that as the norm, you drown her in compliments and the future ones will be less impactful, and if you're too quick or rush certain aspects of a relationship it can complicate things down the line.

Conflict resolution- You don't have to be in agreeance with everything, so when conflicts occur both of you need to know how to handle them in a productive manner. This means being aware of how your partner tends to handle conflicts and what the best route is to take to make sure your message resonates with them the most and certain discussion methods to avoid.

Value- You have to make her feel like you value not only her, but all of her interests and activities as well. Ask her about them and make the effort to experience them with her. You also have to bring value to the relationship as well: be your own person, have your own separate interests and ideas, and set goals for yourself. No one wants to be with someone with no internal drive.

Fun- Do all kinds of things together. Don't make dates strictly a dinner and a movie type of thing: go on a trip, exercise together, go to a concert, play a game. Try not to get stuck in a rigid routine.

Trust- If the trust isn't there then problems will be magnified, grudges will fester, and a disconnect will occur.
 
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