Goin out by yourself

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you go boy

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So i havent been successful hittin up bars and clubs dolo and scooping up the yambs... But the weird thing is when im out with friends im total opposite. its like i have something to prove and get the yambs myself like im making a statement... i do it dolo too with no wingman... what tips yall got for flyin dolo
 
I'm in NJ too. Plenty of spots to go to and just blend in. Don't eem worry about being by yourself. Just talk to whoever is around.
 
met this 1 mofro got me a drink n all but tryin to cop that coke but im not bout that life. if it was budd im good though
 
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What I've realized is that a lot of us guys try going out on these solo missions ON THE WEEKEND. Thing is, we're shooting ourselves in the foot by doing so. I don't know if it's because I'm in Atlanta, but these women do not play with their weekends. These broads have been waiting all week for Friday night to get up and go out with their girls as a unit. They want to holla at groups of guys, not just one homie. Dude could have all the swagger in the world, these women are still looking for groups. Unless you're going to a reeeeally chill spot where people go by themselves often, I'd reconsider.

Multiple guys to gas them up and buy them drinks > You trying to pick off one of their friends

Try happy hours during the week fam. When broads had a long day at work and their girls are too busy to go out and grab a bite/drink, they go by themselves. Take that same energy and apply it on a different day of the calendar.
 
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a blinkin said:
What I've realized is that a lot of us guys try going out on these solo missions ON THE WEEKEND. Thing is, we're shooting ourselves in the foot by doing so. I don't know if it's because I'm in Atlanta, but these women do not play with their weekends. These broads have been waiting all week for Friday night to get up and go out with their girls as a unit. They want to holla at groups of guys, not just one homie. Dude could have all the swagger in the world, these women are still looking for groups. Unless you're going to a reeeeally chill spot where people go by themselves often, I'd reconsider.

Multiple guys to gas them up and buy them drinks > You trying to pick off one of their friends

Try happy hours during the week fam. When broads had a long day at work and their girls are too busy to go out and grab a bite/drink, they go by themselves. Take that same energy and apply it on a different day of the calendar.
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You still trying to get me to visit the A I see :lol:


I've gone out by myself plenty of times, to bars and lounges mostly. This was really dope when I traveled for my old job and would stay at different towns. I never made it a mission to find a girl, that was an added bonus. I just go out to enjoy myself around new settings. Like mentioned, just socialize. I'd talk to anyone, not just girls, just to get the ball rolling.

Some of my boys go out and it's mission smash. Once it gets close to 2AM, they get real desperate. More often than none, dudes will be parking lot pimping, sprinting to talk to drunk chicks walking out for that hail mary play.
 
Son! Im not bout that life . i am so good right now. im in the boondox right now so theres no uber here. i will leave when im good. F that DUI life
 
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Son! Im not bout that life . i am so good right now. im in the boondox right now so theres no uber here. i will leave when im good. F that DUI life
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That's good to hear, man. DUI ain't no joke and it's always the driver that survives and everyone else gets killed.

I took an Uber to downtown to link up with the homies. The DD offered a ride back but dude drove to a random IHOP like 30 miles away. I opened the Uber app and no one was around at 4am :lol: was kinda shook but one came through mins later.
 
The key is to just go with the flow and not appear to be thirsty for the yambs. Strike up conversations here and there, but again, go with the flow. Like buddy already said, don't make it your mission to get a chick. They smell desperation a mile away, so be confident in your dolo-ness and just do you. You'd be surprised how much a lot of women are intrigued by a guy confident enough to go somewhere by themselves.
 
Got home straight. Thanks for the heads up bout being safe. I'm bout to go sleep so do you and put in that 2 cents
 
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Try happy hours during the week fam. When broads had a long day at work and their girls are too busy to go out and grab a bite/drink, they go by themselves. Take that same energy and apply it on a different day of the calendar.
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yeah happy hour is something to explore dolo, I never go to happy hour because I get out of the gym around 5-6PM.

I think also popular hiking trails should be considered.

really you should just link up with NJ NT'ers for the nightlife :lol:

also keep ur expectations at 0. FGA is the key, not FGM.
 
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I will see a movie by myself, sit at a coffee shop by myself and grab some food by myself (although I would prefer to eat with someone else).
 
Sooner or later, I realized it was the only way to actually go do something. If I were to wait on people I'd never do anything. Ideally I'd prefer a wing man or a sick chick on my arm. But when those aren't poppin off, I had to go out alone. Was in NYC in June went out solo. A few weeks ago in SF went out solo. It had been awhile but I used to do it consistently in the past. I kinda dig it, I have no choice though. So F it. 

Cubs a little bit easier to blend it if you are uncomftorable but bars are gucci too. I just don't drink so the bar has become a last option. Yea people will say your lame blah blah but you are free as a bird. No lame friends holding you up. Obviously, I miss the days of my best friend rollin with me, but he gone. You either adapt or you stay home...
 
The thing is people will give you there rules or expectations. You'll look creepy, girls want a group of guys, etc. Nah. I could care less 90 percent of the time I've gone out solo its worked out. Cuz I didn't make it an issue. If you are feeling all these feelings it will show. But if you really ain't trippin the night will unfold like you never expected. As far as tips go enjoy the night, the ambience. I love nightlife so to me it's organic. I meditate in all settings. Chicks will ask me if I'm alone, Hell yea. WassuP??!!! Some will hate, but it would've been the same thing if your boy was there. If a chick wants it, she wants it. 
 
Got tired of waiting on people and them flaking. Funny thing is I get more yambs when I roll dolo. Been wanting a GF to do things with lately like drive out to the sticks on the weekends to do something outdoors but I refuse to simp :smh:
 
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I could go anywhere by myself (movies, hiking , eating at a fancy restaurant ) but a bar or club man nah I can't do that would feel to weird.
 
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