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Some of y'all would literally kiss your dog all in the mouth but giving your child a peck on the lips is out of bounds?
Chick I used to work with was all into animals. Has a dog that she would let lick all over her face.

Learned she wasn't a kid person. Thinks kids are disgusting.

Brings her dog to work one day (no big deal where I work). Left the dog in the office for a few minutes while she had to go take care of something else in the building, and that dog literally licked his balls and butt damn near the whole time she was gone.

When she sits back down, it jumps in her lap and licks all over her face. I tell her, "He literally licked his balls and butt damn near the whole time you were gone."

She just laughs.

I go, "But kids are disgusting?"

She gives me an evil eye and turns away. laugh.gif
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post #122 of 148
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Originally Posted by The 7th Mile 
Some of y'all would literally kiss your dog all in the mouth but giving your child a peck on the lips is out of bounds?
Chick I used to work with was all into animals. Has a dog that she would let lick all over her face.

Learned she wasn't a kid person. Thinks kids are disgusting.

Brings her dog to work one day (no big deal where I work). Left the dog in the office for a few minutes while she had to go take care of something else in the building, and that dog literally licked his balls and butt damn near the whole time she was gone.

When she sits back down, it jumps in her lap and licks all over her face. I tell her, "He literally licked his balls and butt damn near the whole time you were gone."

She just laughs.

I go, "But kids are disgusting?"

She gives me an evil eye and turns away. laugh.gif

Prolly uses peanut butter for extra-curricular activities, too. 

post #123 of 148
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My son is a few months past a year old. I stopped at his first bday.

I kiss him on the nose all the time, or forehead.

If I had a daughter Id probably stop a little older. But I definitely couldn't still be kissing my kids on the lips seeing them off to school in the morning
Just curious, as a non-parent, why would the time frame change dependent upon the sex of your child?

Should I end up with a child, or children, a peck on the lips would be ok to a certain age independent of sex. The obvious issue being a kiss on the lips interpreted/perceived as inherently sexual. If that's the case, you shouldn't be kissing either son or daughter on the lips; at least that's the conclusion I was led to.

And I call my parents mommy/ma & daddy/dad. Idgaf, they will always be your mommy and daddy. Y'all got issues.

Tbh, it's mostly due to the gender of the child.

Mentally, I feel just a little more comfortable showing my daughter that affection a little longer than my son.

My son will always be loved just as much and will be shown just as much love and affection as my daughter (whenever I have one), but I guess it's just that father daughter relationship that mentally makes it a little more acceptable to give my 4 year old daughter a peck before work rather than my son.

As a parent, you always want some love or some "sugar" from your kids, so I'm always going to want a hug or something.

It's just a double standard I guess.

I wouldn't want to go in to give my son a lil kiss before dropping him off somewhere and embarrass him in front of his boys. You know how kids can get.

Just like when he gets older, I'll be more accepting to him kissing a girl more so than my daughter kissing a boy for the first time. It's just one of those things
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Mentally, I feel just a little more comfortable showing my daughter that affection a little longer than my son.

Uhm... roll.gif
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post #126 of 148
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Honestly nothing wrong with it. I still kiss my mom and I'm a female. I don't care. If people stare I don't care either. I've seen tons of people kiss their parents. Sons and moms. Daughters and fathers. And vice versa.
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post #127 of 148
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Honestly nothing wrong with it. I still kiss my mom and I'm a female. I don't care. If people stare I don't care either. I've seen tons of people kiss their parents. Sons and moms. Daughters and fathers. And vice versa.

You are wild if you honestly feel like woman on woman is the same as the picture I posted above. That boy is like 12 years old man. 

post #128 of 148
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I don't kiss my children on the lips at all. Never have, never will. Just personal preference...

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The kissing your kids on the lips thing has always been weird to me. I feel the same way about breast feeding a kid older then 1-2 years old
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post #129 of 148
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You are wild if you honestly feel like woman on woman is the same as the picture I posted above. That boy is like 12 years old man. 

It is because it's your child. How many fathers shower with their boys all of the time?

A lot of fathers. And it's perfectly normal. Nothing wild about it. So nothing wrong with a father kissing his son.
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post #130 of 148

Again, why are we pretending that kissing a 12  year old boy on the mouth is the only means of "showering" your son with love?

 

I don't think that is normal but again ok.......

post #131 of 148
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It is because it's your child. How many fathers shower with their boys all of the time?

A lot of fathers. And it's perfectly normal. Nothing wild about it. So nothing wrong with a father kissing his son.

Where dey do this at?

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post #132 of 148
some of ya need t go give ya old mansa hug and a kiss
ya acting like we tombowt french kissing
post #133 of 148
I have a son thats nine. I kiss him on his head. thats about it. Secret handshakes majority of the time. I kiss my mom on the cheek. The lip thing is kinda weird to me. I wouldnt judge anyone if thats how they are raised though.
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post #134 of 148
Yeah man no showering with sons man sick.gif the hell.

Kisses on the lip for my daughter until she is about 5 and never do it to my sons.
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post #135 of 148
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some of ya need t go give ya old mansa hug and a kiss
ya acting like we tombowt french kissing

Haha, that's what I was thinking.  It's not like we're talking about french kissing your kids.  It's a peck on the lips!  Not sitting there licking their lips off...What's so different about showing love to your offspring in that manner versus a long hug?  It's all mental and what you make of it IMHO.  In the end it all depends on how you raise your kids.  There are way too many broken families and deadbeat parents to make a topic such as "How old is too old to kiss your child" comical.  I rather be more harsh on a parent that can walk away from their kids and not support them...how young is too young to leave your kids is the real question.

 

Prop to the parents that shows love to their kids and support them. 

post #136 of 148
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Why does it have to be the broken homes/families that have to be the ones going against men kissing their middle school aged boys on the lips?
post #137 of 148

For a Father, around the age of 10. Mothers can get away with it lifelong. My mom still kisses me on the cheek when we part, but men can't be caught doing such after a certain age. 

post #138 of 148
Kissing kids on lips? Chill

When I drop him off to school I give him a hug and kiss on the cheek everytime, he hates it laugh.gif
post #139 of 148
Got kids?

Think kids kissing parents on the lips is weird?

Then, don't kiss your kid(s) on the lips.
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post #140 of 148
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so many other great ways to show love.
post #141 of 148
Yeah that lip kissing is wild... Cheek is cool
post #142 of 148
My pops and I aren't that close we only do the half hug. But that is because we have a strained relationship. My son and I hug and kiss everyday, and he is 8. I don't see anything wrong with parents showing their kids love like that.

They aren't tongue kissing mean.gif. I greet my aunts and older female cousins with hugs and kisses. Not always on the lips but sometimes yeah. If my moms was alive I would kiss her on the lips and not feel weird. No big deal.
post #143 of 148
To each his own but until I saw the photo of Belicheck and his daughter I never knew kissing kids on the mouth was a thing. I'd never even seen it before that. Nothing wring with showing kids affection but nah laugh.gif
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post #144 of 148
Kissing on the lips is reserved for significant others imo. I aint kissing my child of any age or gender on the lips.
post #145 of 148
I always thought the way and bros kisses were a little weird.

BUT them dudes are close as hell so they got a pass from me.

But I'll kiss my kids on the cheek. My parents didn't kiss us or hug us. The only kisses in our house hold was between them.... And even that barely happened laugh.gif

Probably that old school west Indian lifestyle...
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post #146 of 148
My father hugged me once.



























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post #147 of 148
I can't kiss my kids enough. my son is 9 and he get regular kisses on the cheek. my daughter is 7, she sometimes gets it on the cheeks. she's more affectionate than my son is. my baby girl gets kisses all the time.

I still kiss my dad to greet him and when i leave. i used to do the same to my grandfathers, too.
post #148 of 148
Anything over 8 is weird.
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