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what's wrong with kissing your loved ones on the lips?
How old is too old to kiss your child?
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The difference between the cheek/forehead and lips is pretty vast in my perception. If that AP pic was on the forehead/cheek i wouldnt say anything was weird about the pic
Maybe I just wasnt kissed enough as a kid
Maybe I just wasnt kissed enough as a kid
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Same people probably don't know the difference between being fortunate and being spoiled.
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Pretty much how I feel. I tell them boys everyday I love them, they probably get tired of hearing it too
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Pretty much how I feel. I tell them boys everyday I love them, they probably get tired of hearing it too
Yup, too ******* bad
Never know what might happen. When we part ways I love you is the last thing he'll hear from me every time
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I may not kiss my kids on the lips, but I'll always kiss them and show them affection.
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Why would any parent NOT give their kids a kiss on the forehead or cheek at times?
I can understand not giving a peck on the lips after a certain age, but not being able to kiss their forehead/cheek? That's all sorts of effed up to me. My daughter will always get a kiss on the forehead before bed and when I leave for work.
I can understand not giving a peck on the lips after a certain age, but not being able to kiss their forehead/cheek? That's all sorts of effed up to me. My daughter will always get a kiss on the forehead before bed and when I leave for work.
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Pretty much how I feel. I tell them boys everyday I love them, they probably get tired of hearing it too
Yup, too ******* bad
Never know what might happen. When we part ways I love you is the last thing he'll hear from me every time
[new NT thread] how old is too old to tell your child "I love you?"[/new NT thread]
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This would be my stance, if I had kids.
But those that do it, whatever. Their business.
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So, from what I am reading, NOT doing it is messed up? Not kissing them at all? Explain please because I can't agree
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I dont think anyone said there was anything wrong with that
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What about kissing your cousin or hot aunt, word to Crank Lucas.
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But even to entertain what he said, if there is a parent that NEVER kisses their child, I am not sure you can just say that it is messed up. What if that person is just a germaphobe, which many people are, and the child still gets lots of love and attention, and hugs. Not kissing the child doesn't really say anything about the parent
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What about kissing your cousin or hot aunt, word to Crank Lucas.
aunt by marriage or blood? lol.
i've seen flicks where that is the premise..haha
i've seen flicks where that is the premise..haha
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While kissing is just one form of affection, it is also one of the most personal physical forms of affection between parent/child.
In my opinion, a child that has never received a kiss from a parent is lacking a pretty personal form of affection. But that's just me.
You didn't get kissed as a child, Jemele? It really is so cold in the D, huh?
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Let's say blood cause by marriage would be too easy.
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Around 6 or 7.
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Pretty much how I feel. I tell them boys everyday I love them, they probably get tired of hearing it too
Yup, too ******* bad
Never know what might happen. When we part ways I love you is the last thing he'll hear from me every time
all this.
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If you coddle your kid too much, especially the boys, they're more inclined to grow up pacified and entitled, I think. Probably why you got a lot of punks growing up these days.
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Lacking is one thing. Being effed up is another. That's almost like an argument about spanking -- doing it (or not doing it) isn't effed up, its just a difference in choice. I don't want to turn this into that kind of argument though lol.
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That's what you think but once they get to about 12, they won't even let you hug them on a consistent bases.
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Agreed. Grown men still have non-sexual ******* in their mouthes
You said it is an EFFED up situation. Of course there is no formula for raising kids so there is no right or wrong answer. But I don't think a child not getting enough KISSES (assuming he IS getting enough love and attention) will be affected negatively.
But again, we don't know
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You don't kiss your kids on the lips.
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Only people that are messed up in the head would see something wrong... 
