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While On The Subject Of Step-Parenting: What Would NT Do In This Situation
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The mother is petty, the father is crazy for not realizing how petty the mother is... all in all, it seems like the kids will always be the ones who suffer the most.
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I would leave the book club.
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Many years ago my mother took in my father's child (my half brother) from foster care for about a year. My father and his girlfriend (pops cheated w her) were charged w abuse and it hurt my mom dukes to see my half bro bounce around the system.
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Who came first your pops or you.
If pops had him before he meet your mom thats not a big deal.
Personally OP, if it's the child that was conceived during their relationship I couldn't go.
I have responsibilities to my kids and mine only.
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My half bro is 10 years younger. He dipped on us when he got his gf preg w half bro.
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I can certainly understand why she wouldn't want to keep the child, she can be viewed as a living representation of her divorce. It's easy to be on the outside looking in and say that someone is being petty/selfish/whatever, but at the end of the day, she's only responsible for her child. If she wants to be the bigger person, that's up to her, but I don't think less of her for not keeping the child that her husband had outside of their marriage.
All types of angles can be taken with this argument.
All types of angles can be taken with this argument.
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The child didn't do anything wrong. All you're doing is watching a sick kid from time to time.
This is a case of a scorned woman that can't get over that she was cheated on, and her husband knocked up and married his sidepiece.
If I was in a similar situation and had the time, I'd do it.
As for the ex husband though, he should just realize his ex-wife is just a bitter ***** and stop asking for her help at all
This is a case of a scorned woman that can't get over that she was cheated on, and her husband knocked up and married his sidepiece.
If I was in a similar situation and had the time, I'd do it.
As for the ex husband though, he should just realize his ex-wife is just a bitter ***** and stop asking for her help at all
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I'd tell that ***** to kick rocks unless she was paying those day-care rates.
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So you'd watch the child your girl/wife conceived while cheating on you?
Yeah ok....
Wouldn't even do it if she payed. When people ask who I'm watching what am I going to say? "Yeah the child from my wife's affair"
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It would really be nice of her to accept and watch the child.
But I dont think any less of her not watching her.
Its not her kid so she has no type of obligation.
At this point, its like damn near watching your friends kid.
Homie tryna wear her down Urkel style.
She should just put her foot down and tell him stop asking because the answer aint gonna change.
But I dont think any less of her not watching her.
Its not her kid so she has no type of obligation.
At this point, its like damn near watching your friends kid.
Homie tryna wear her down Urkel style.
She should just put her foot down and tell him stop asking because the answer aint gonna change.
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Can't really say I blame her.
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Not petty at all. You don't have to let someone in your life if you dont want them to be.
What is this nonsense??
What is this nonsense??
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I seriously dont get how anyone is against her for not watching the kid...
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In a perfect world, she'd have no issue with watching the kid.
In the real world, I take no issue with her decision not to do it. Regardless of whether or not she's a scorned woman, the responsibility just isn't hers.
Also, the words "not much family" indicates to me that there is some family nearby. Go ask them, even though it might not be as convenient.
In the real world, I take no issue with her decision not to do it. Regardless of whether or not she's a scorned woman, the responsibility just isn't hers.
Also, the words "not much family" indicates to me that there is some family nearby. Go ask them, even though it might not be as convenient.
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Reminds me of this (up until the "OVER THE LINE"):
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Hell no I wouldn't do it.
Forget that man you want me to watch the child you had while having an affair in a marriage.
Are you dudes out your mind lol... couldn't be me.
Call me petty or whatever, but one thing I'm not is a sucker.
Your Mom is a good *** woman bruh... your father is a real piece of **** though.
Happy your Mom left that B.A.N.
Hug and love that woman because it's going to be hard to find one greater than your mother.
Hope you don't take offense.
Forget that man you want me to watch the child you had while having an affair in a marriage.
Are you dudes out your mind lol... couldn't be me.
Call me petty or whatever, but one thing I'm not is a sucker.
Your Mom is a good *** woman bruh... your father is a real piece of **** though.
Happy your Mom left that B.A.N.
Hug and love that woman because it's going to be hard to find one greater than your mother.
Hope you don't take offense.
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Petty? Damn you a nice guy aren't you. That's noble of you but borderline chump too
If my wife cheated on me then had a baby with that dude and they asked me to watch their child I'm not having it... Sorry to that female dog
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